Hello! I'm a girl and I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 25. I have a boyfriend of 8 months and we live together, but we haven't had sex because I'm still quite scared that it won't hurt much. He has told me many times that he wants us to do it, but I still don't feel ready for it. He convinced me that it was normal to have some pain the first time. Please advice Thanks in advance!
It's time for sex. It will probably hurt you the first time, but it's not that bad. However, most women go through this. Waiting will not reduce the pain, but it will increase the fear. You have been with this man for 8 months, there is nowhere else to go. Be afraid, both your fear will pass, and you will find a great pleasure, and your friend will not constantly think where else to get what you deprive him of.
This is a fictional story. To live with someone for 8 months without sex at the beginning of the relationship ... come on, come on, not us.
He who is afraid of bears does not go to the forest. A 25-year-old man, healthy, straight, will play kisses with her, he won't stretch her for 8 months ... Number 1, how do you see her? He knocks somewhere aside, he won't drive her by the hand. And you, boy, keep waiting. When you turn 39, it hurts less.
to 1 - There are more severe cases in the face of my mercy. One bothered me for 2 years and 4 months until he came to let me go. But I did not give up, stupid and stubborn - this is the formula. In the end, when I calculated, in addition to the time and nerves invested, I had pushed myself with about 2 vouchers to restaurants and wandering around with the chick in question for these almost two and a half years. I finally realized that all this time while I was taking her down, taking care of her and waiting for her to let me go, she had two sexual relationships in parallel while she was unwinding me.
You men are big bastards. Now I'm sure. You are useless. When you decide, the girl will then "let you go", mold.
I don't know what advice we can give you. Eventually, you will start having sex when you feel ready to do so. Neither earlier nor later. At the age of 19, you are mature enough for your body to mature and your mind to be clear and to be able to make independent decisions. I can only advise you not to read nonsense on the Internet and not to be misled by other people's stories. Every woman has been a virgin, and every woman who has lost her virginity has a different story and point of view. Some experience severe pain, while others explain it as discomfort. Some have blood, others do not. You're supposed to have sex too ... either now or in 10 years, you'll still have it for the first time. And to think it, and not to think it, and to postpone it, and to hurry - the time will always come and you will see what it is in the first person. Otherwise,
№6, most of us are not mold-mold is 5, that he left a mold like you to play it and pluck it for so long.
I support N. 3 that this is a fictional story. A woman of 19 and still a virgin in the 21st century. These are spoken to the children from kindergarten. Isn't this the greatest simplicity. Who will believe you. And you N. 6 are the biggest mold. You seem to be the author and you are angry that they don't believe you.
Number 11 I'm a girl almost 20 and I'm a virgin. How wrong is it that I still haven't found someone to love to have sex? Well, I have values. To marvel at the 21st century, there are still women who do not immediately open their legs for everyone they meet.
Number 11, you're wrong to think that there are no girls in 19-year-old virgins, let me tell you, there are also 21-year-old virgins. (I don't refer to myself for the protocol, I was 19 when I did it for the first time) It's next to my man. There are also those who make their own set at the age of 11-12. By the way, it really doesn't sound real to live with a 25-year-old man. from 8 months, and you have not recovered. If you didn't live together, your story would be more connected. Otherwise, for advice, if you don't feel ready to do it with him, then he is not the right person.
It won't hurt, but the important question is whether this is the right person for your first time. If you have doubts and hesitations about the boy and if you do not love him, do not. If you love him, go and don't think about pain, etc. Something good is waiting for you, and if you stop, it will not bring you a positive emotion. Nothing hurts, you'll even like it
Yes, it will hurt you.
11, well, I had sex for the first time on the 19th, about a year and a half ago, in the 21st century. : D Who will believe.
The story is an absolute lie. This author has published many similar stories. And worst of all, he doesn't feel like he's writing nonsense. She is 19, he is 25 and they live together. The author does not say how it helps him get rid of tension. They must sleep in different beds and in different rooms. A 25-year-old normal man will not keep a young girl in his home for 8 months without sex. The author is lying about 10 gypsies. She just wants to make you comment on her stupid story. And just see how he insults in a coma. n.6: "You men are great simpletons." She is an unpaid moderator on this site and has the right to publish whatever she wants. Nobody stops her from writing any nonsense. Rule 2 reads: "HATTERS ARE NOT TOLERATED", but the author does not comply with the rules of the site, nor does the site deter her from insulting her because she is one of their team. This comment of mine will probably not be published because neither the site nor the author wants to be criticized. I will see if my comment appears. Before me there are 3 comments waiting to be published, mine will be the fourth. I will watch closely.
how do you live together and not have sex, it's ridiculous and unreal ...
It's the same for me, I'm a man of 34 and I'm a virgin and I'm also afraid of the first time. I have a girlfriend of 27 I've lived with her for almost 2 years. So. author, I fully understand you.
Author, you are afraid to have sex because it could hurt you a lot. Why don't you tell me if you blow his whistle. If you blow his whistle, your mouth won't hurt. You can also swallow his semen to help him release. If he fucks you in the anus, you will not feel pain either. Try front, back, mouth, wherever you can think of.
Author, you are afraid to have sex because it could hurt you a lot. Why don't you tell me if you blow his whistle. If you blow his whistle, your mouth won't hurt. You can also swallow his semen to help him release. If he fucks you in the anus, you will not feel pain either. Try front, back, mouth, wherever you can think of.
Author, you are afraid to have sex because it could hurt you a lot. Why don't you tell me if you blow his whistle. If you blow his whistle, your mouth won't hurt. You can also swallow his semen to help him release. If he fucks you in the anus, you will not feel pain either. Try front, back, mouth, wherever you can think of.
Why is it impossible, many men complain that their wife does not want sex. He will not rape her. I was not in pain, but I need predisposition and desire.
By number 6, author, you think men are big bastards, but you're an even bigger bastard, thinking we'll believe you stupid stories. When you drink a glass of wine, the logic flies out of your head, if you have any logic at all. All your stories are fabrications. I'm not the only one who doesn't trust you. See numbers 3, 15, 20, none of them trust your story. As an author, write a comment to clarify your story and dispel our mistrust. But you won't do it, because you've done the same thing before, when we don't believe you. Moderators, you allow №6 the author to call us men simpletons (non-compliance with rules 2 and 3), then you will allow us men to call her a simpleton, when she first allows herself such forbidden liberties. Can't you once and for all forbid her from insulting those who don't believe her? Play the role of (should) conscientious moderators.
№21, I can't believe you're a man, but if you're a man you're a big joker. At 34, you are still a virgin and you are also afraid of the first time. What exactly are you afraid of, she will not give you anything and nothing will hurt you. In that case, tell me if she gives you blowjobs, if you are afraid that she will bite you on your virgin penis. Are you cunnilingus on her? You do not get any pleasure. Do you know what a male orgasm is, funny or just gossip nonsense.
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Well, it will be awkward, no dispute. It is unlikely that the first time you will be fine, even the second or third. There is some pain, but there is no other way. You just relax and that's it. It depends a lot on how the man will approach, whether he will be gentle. In time you will become more confident, experienced. But for a young man to wait 8 months in the dry is doubtful to me, but it can be so if he loves you very much.