The caress of my beloved placed on the scales turned out to be light as a feather to her endless pretensions, grumbling, dissatisfaction, unresponsiveness, laziness ...
I have not used a prostitute because it is not a problem for me to find one who wants (agrees to) sex without commitment. Admitting feelings during sex today, unfortunately, does not lead to anything good. Precisely because of the title, so to speak.
Okay, but how do you imagine two people falling in love, getting along and not getting together because of ... a "slogan". Nowadays, everyone expresses all sorts of nonsense, provocations, etc. to attract attention, because there is the Internet, there is the media ... Regarding the comments here ... Well, there are men who insult women (ie verbal aggression) and women respond in the same way (extremely). Of course, both opinions are extreme (and everything is not very good). About career ... Well, nowadays people don't have enough ... it's not about gender.
"But now I'm wondering something ... I haven't been through these times ... I've only heard about them and watched them in the movies ... were there really such times?"
There was yes. But after the Cold War, everything went to hell.
Then I had a girlfriend I trusted insanely. I was the first, she to me too. He was waiting for me from the barracks. It came to my oath. He came to visit me whenever possible. I ran away from the barracks to serenade her. Then we lived in Student City on potatoes and compote. What tears we shed together ... What difficulties we went through. Four years.
Then she started cheating on me. 6 times. Since then she has changed more boyfriends than I have fingers and toes. She currently has a child from one with 3 marriages, her child is his 4th.
He has never seen it. She is a single mother and has no breast milk because of worries about how she will look after him alone ... Oh, yes, she is one of the most sworn feminists I know.
I really like what you wrote, but a little idealistic, so I'll tell you that. Women don't want princes. They are the princes and now they are. They don't want gentlemen. They do not want respect. They even vomit from good treatment. They want to be valid. They want social status. They want angry peasants to fuck them roughly. Chalga clubs are full of women. Aren't women choosing? If they go to chalga clubs, then they want to choose them. Accordingly, they find such.
You are a girl, think carefully about what you want ... Because in this corrupt time it is easy to slip and then your idealism, which you wrote about here, will easily evaporate. However, it is obvious that you are one of those 20% of women who have their heads over their shoulders. How long it depends on you ....
Men and women were not created to live together. This is the whole drama of human society. Everyone is self-sufficient. Males and females have nothing in common - they are too different and come together only under the pressure of society and / or the body's commands to reproduce.
The male sex is expressive, it should not be placed in frames such as family, monogamy, etc. From time immemorial, women have done everything possible to limit their husbands, which is contrary to their primordial nature.
As for male-female opposition and the spread of extreme feminism in recent decades, they have also been created artificially and for purposes that do not benefit people.
The truth is in the middle! Yes, it's nice to have ladies and gentlemen, but in the 21st century to flutter helplessly with lashes and wait for a man for everything? !! Well, no thanks! And then why until the beginning of the 20th century the woman was owned by her husband. I will not forget the scene from a movie about a widow and they refused to take possession of her deceased husband's property because she was a woman. And she said the following: As a child I was the property of my father, as a wife I was the property of my husband, now you deny me something that rightfully belongs to me just because I am not someone's property. Well, not to be seen, I think I only had some value as a prostitute!
It was a western, but my point is, our great-grandmothers were ladies, but at what cost? At the cost of FULL obedience first to the fathers, then to their husbands, and one day, if they remain widows, to their sons. Well, no thanks! No education, no right to own property, no own income or minimal income, because eventually women are allowed to work from home. Is this called a good life? But yes, she was a lady!
And staggering to the other extreme is also not good, however. A 50-year-old lonely careerist who has no one and is insanely afraid of what she will do if she loses her job, because she has no one to rely on for anything. And she doesn't want to think at all about what she will do when she retires, because she will be sitting alone in the luxury apartment and wondering what she will spend her time with.
So I think it's best to find the golden mean.
Yes, I work, I love my job, but in the evening I can't wait to go home to my beloved man so that we can cook something for dinner TOGETHER and snuggle on the couch and enjoy the time together.
I'm not a bored housewife waiting for her husband to take care of everything because she was a "lady" and couldn't do this or that, nor am I one of the chicks who works 16 hours a day and comes home to bathe and to sleep a few hours before running back to build a career.
Yes, sometimes it takes effort and compromise to have such a relationship, but it's worth it.
Number 5, you didn't understand what I meant. When I say 'lady', I don't mean the old-fashioned meaning of 'fluttering eyelashes' and 'owning someone'.
Many hard-working and self-supporting women are ladies because they have personal self-esteem and radiate femininity as an attitude and attitude towards appearance, but this does not mean that they want to live alone like cuckoos.
And a "gentleman" is not a man who "owns his wife" or who supports her. A gentleman is a man who views a woman as a being with rights and respect, not as a breeding animal, a "satisfaction device," or his property. Nowadays, however, women think that they create such an impression by proving that they do not need men. That's why I think a lot of these women are unhappy.
I do not agree at all with what number 4 says. Yes, we are really different and that is why we were created to complement each other. In my opinion, at least. I think that it is no coincidence that nature has created two sexes for us, and only between these two sexes can a child be conceived naturally.
Just as Yin and Yang complement each other, being different.
And how are we not created to live together? After all, the family is built of both sexes and the child needs both the male and the female model? Please do not interfere with the problem of homosexuality!
If we are self-sufficient, why can't we reproduce on our own, and why do we naturally feel drawn to and need what complements us?
For me, "different from mine" is not unnecessary, on the contrary! It is necessary precisely because you do not have it by nature and it complements you as well as you complement it.
I am not saying that we should be weak and belong to our husbands, nor that a man should be a powerful tyrant.
Does the fact that a woman works means that she is self-sufficient and that there is no need for caress?
Does the fact that a man is strong mean that he must be an "evil dictator" towards the woman?
Amy, of course, the stronger ones have to prove their strength by defending the weaker ones, not by harassment and violence against them.
When I say "ladies" and "gentlemen," I do not mean the noble type of the Middle Ages and the Renaissance.
I mean a more modern (if I may call it that) model, in which both sexes have the right to work and education, but are not at enmity, but help each other.
So, I mean times when career or personal development does not replace your need for a partner and does not make your relationship with another person unnecessary.
Does wanting to be successful mean you don't need love?
Many people choose a career over love. Well, they succeed, but they have no one to share those successes with. They have no heirs, no halves. They are strange to me.
Should a man be ashamed if his wife works? Or to oppress her that "she was weaker and he was the head of the family"?
Emmy no, if your wife works, then she helps you and the whole family and her contribution should be respected.
But many women refuse to marry or start a relationship for fear of being "enslaved." Somewhat justified fear, but I wonder how many of these women are really happy alone. Yes, it is true that no woman will want to be a slave. Loneliness is preferable, but I do not believe that it makes us happier than True Love, which neither enslaves us nor makes us lonely.
I don't like this image of a strong and self-sufficient woman, because it is not feminine at all ....
And cavalry is a sign of masculinity, in my opinion.
But what do I understand.
To be honest, I'll go through some neo-feminist periods when I was a teenager, but I never thought I'd turn that into the maxim of my life.
And no, I'm not alone now. I'm just tired of these modern trends.
It is true that men and women are very different from each other, and that is why we should be valuable to each other.
I read this with mixed feelings. The cynic in me was smiling condescendingly. The "old-fashioned retiree" stared sadly, as if peering out of a slightly open window at the bizarre and beautiful valleys long overdue. The pragmatist kept annoying with annoyance that this was a chewed-up dilemma from which nothing new would emerge. Or useful. Or permanently.
In the end, it seems to me that the author has confused the section. And the weather. And the place. But I hope at least she will be lucky and meet a person who will be on her waves, otherwise the future will not be so pleasant for her ...
Or maybe the author should stop expecting someone else to make her happy, hmm?
Number 8, I'm not waiting for someone else to make me happy. I'm not really alone in life, I'm just upset that nowadays the boundaries between masculinity and femininity are so blurred ..
Feminism is not about women working, it has always been in some form. Feminism is a satanic movement that seeks to distort women's nature and turn women into transvestites by making them behave like men. See only the last shoots of the devil's worshipers in Hollywood - Batman is replaced by the bat woman who sprinkles left and right feminist slogans for "strong" women, Superman is replaced by a super-throat, even Santa Claus wants to replace him with a woman or with a "gender neutral image" that is, gender. In the States and in the specialty, Hollywood is also full of transvestites / transgender people who think of their favorite actresses, singers, etc. and they are actually genders who have undergone sex reassignment surgery and are taking hormones. All this comes from Satanism and hermaphroditism in occult religions, which is transmitted from secret societies to the general public through the media, conventions and the like. Let's be clear - all this comes directly from the devil.
Author - what you are talking about is intentional and done on purpose. People are just heavily manipulated.
I also believe that women should behave like women and men like men. After all, after we are born in a body, it is right to experience all kinds of experiences related to our gender, not the other person's.
People, we all know that it was created on purpose. Let's see the result of all this manipulation - unhappy people, broken families, loneliness and lack of morality everywhere. Well, it is right for the manipulated to get rid of the effect of the manipulation.
There used to be men, there were women. There were no other "genders", there was no "feminism" and everyone loved each other.
Now there are neutral sexes (or there as they are called), there is a division between men and women and we are stuck
We are all the fruit of this love of the past because we were born. My family even to this day (my parents are 70) are together and their relationship is strong.
And now there are no children. There are single mothers. There are also divorces. I think these facts are indicative that SOMETHING IS WRONG!
People, they are manipulating us!
That's why the floods!
To cleanse the earth of abominations.
Movies and shows have brainwashed people. At first, supposedly fun, and then hell. Plus the internet, provocations everywhere.
It has always seemed to me that extraterrestrial intelligence is ruining the human. Because man was created to be constructive for good.
And today at every step of nonsense.
Well, if we weren't so pessimistic, there are options to get out of the traps.
And at the time I was watching some opinions here, someone was watching a movie where the woman was not respected. Well, it's exactly the movies that brainwash us.
Neither my grandmother nor the other was owned by my grandfathers. On the contrary, they were healthy families, they were hardworking, they respected each other.
And my great-grandfathers died in the wars at the beginning of the last century, and there the families were somewhere with morals.
So turn off the TV, limit the internet and keep the mind clearer.
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