Female Numbers Or Something

   The same thing happened to me with a man, so it doesn't have to be classified as a typical "female number", but it's definitely dumb. It must be about raising self-esteem and scratching the ego. But where did you write? There is also a possibility that there is a problem and he cannot answer at the moment.

   Many men confuse a smile, a polite and kind attitude towards you for a download or a hint. I don't know if that's the case with you. He may have a good opinion of you, but he doesn't want anything more. Maybe she was scared or just wanted to flirt. What makes you think he has a special relationship with you?

   Women need to nurture their self-esteem. She liked your attention, she was flattered and so much. Don't expect anything in a meeting so as not to be disappointed. For some ladies, such flirtations are commonplace and mean nothing more. And if she has any deeper sympathy for you, she will find a way to show it to you

   There should be alternation in the initiative. Otherwise I don't see the point. Ž

   Did you think he had a special relationship with you just because you talked 2-3 times? We women are really nasty, huh ?! We pretend to pull, and we tell you such sexy things as "good afternoon, how are you"! These are my "female numbers" ... God, I'm not a believer, but I don't know who to call to pour whatever and where it should.

   Even female numbers, I do not believe. What happened to you is the typical love tragedy of our century. She probably enjoyed talking and making slight hints, maybe as a person she is more liberated and speaks without thinking how it will sound, but she had no real intentions to seduce you with tricks and entangle you in her web. in order to raise self-esteem without surgery. Don't get into any movies. Your chick was happy, but she didn't want to sleep with you or have a relationship with you. Many men are the same, they speak without serious intentions. With the difference that if interested, the man will sleep with the woman, because: "Why not?", Then he will eventually tell a beer in 3 sentences and will be very busy for the next 2 hours, and the women cut, make themselves inaccessible. and feel very wanted for a day or two. Then it's heard here and there, that men are players and women apply female numbers ... Nonsense on wheels, a man does whatever comes to mind, the difference is that men are more relaxed and have fun, and women try not to relax too much to their name did not come out. And then stories again. She doesn't think so much to spin your numbers, she must have targeted you a long time ago. I do not deny that there are many cunning women, but they do not act at random.

   Well, obviously I will have to make a little clarification, because from what is written it is not very clear what exactly happened. First, it's not just 2-3 smiles or kind behavior, because such behavior is normal for me and I accept it as something completely in order. I also didn't treat her in a special way. As I said, during our first few meetings I was not impressed, and I was busy with work that took all my attention. I looked at her as a person with whom we just had to do certain things and that's it. Only on the last day do I remember joking with my colleague about how she would do my hair because I was going to a party. There was something else, but I don't remember it anymore. At our next meeting, she became bolder. She jokingly offered to come and live with me, for me to go and work for her, and so on. that I did not provoke her in any way. Even in all the heat in question, I talked to colleagues and she did not participate. When I call her on the phone and ask if she has a minute, she answers that there is always one for me, etc. Basically, I work with a lot of women and I have never been in such a situation. She's really quite busy, as am I, but you can always find 30 seconds to send a personal email if you want to, of course. The author

   I think she experimented to boost her self-esteem. One tip: to find out if she's interested in you, try to find a job around her. To see you, but by no means talk to her. If he starts talking to you right away, then he's interested. If you feel that he is watching you but not talking to you, then he is a number. Try to be in sight, but pretend to be disinterested and busy with something else. If it really isn't a number, it will call you. Otherwise - do not hope!

   10, I agree with you. Only that we live in different cities, generally in both parts of Bulgaria. There is no way to revolve around it. Our joint work was 2 weeks. Otherwise, I also think that a person, when he likes someone, will look for him. I don't hope or let's be honest - I almost don't hope :) I was rather annoyed by the fact that it disturbed my harmony. I'm not mad at her.

   I think this woman has an interest in you, but she wants you to be the hunter. She is just an intelligent woman and does not give up easily. Dare, this may be the love of your life, with which you will get away from stubbornness and high ego.

   Just ask her why she withdrew like that, is she interested in you, be honest, write to her. I personally don't like such games. You say she was intelligent, but the jokes and hints don't sound intelligent to me at all.

   Basically, I'm really stubborn and I don't like running after women. I've never done that, but that's not the case. I just don't want to be cheeky. That's why I started the topic to hear side views. Otherwise, I don't mind calling her or looking for her. Most likely in a week or two I will have a way to her and call her to see you. If he looks at me this time too, I don't think it makes sense to do more. I totally agree with 13 - I also don't like games like that at all. As for her, in 2 weeks I can't have any opinion. She has a good education, a good job, she is educated, she is kind, she even looks a little shy. He managed to hit me in my weak spot. I just really like nice and good women. It hadn't happened to me in a long time. We'll see what happens. The test with the meeting will be the most indicative :) The author

   I wish you success, author, may you experience a beautiful love! Write what happened

   Thanks, 15, I will definitely write.

   Author, good luck from me too! I hope you manage to share that we are trembling in anticipation! Your last comment is just touching - a woman would be happy to know that she hit the man in his weak spot ..., it happens so rarely! Go ahead, we're keeping our fingers crossed! ж28

   Hello again, I am the author. I had promised to write about development. It's not positive, but it was unexpected (at least for me), although super trivial. I will briefly tell you what has happened since then. As I mentioned, I did not receive any personal contacts or any answers and I generally forgot about the incident. So until about 2 weeks ago, when he suddenly called me. Officially, of course :). I thought I would work with someone else, but she told me that things had changed. I was much more cautious now, although I wanted to think that she changed on purpose because of me :) This time we talked only on the phone, but she was super nice again, even worried. It struck me, however, that once we finished our official conversations, she was quick to close, although I know she was free and had no commitments. I called her once or twice after we had done what was needed, but she was busy and uncomfortable. Besides, one time I thought the idea was more pulling. For her part, she didn't call me at all after that. Well, I wondered why all this was, and as I mentioned above, the only thing that came to my mind was the most trivial thing possible. She just needed me, for the job mentioned, nothing else. Although realistically, I had a much greater interest in doing everything right and in principle I work with all people equally. I would work with Peter, Ivan, etc. in the same way, and I did. But come to think of it, such an approach is not bad at all :). However, the girl is not bad and I hope I'm wrong. I'd rather be good and have someone else enjoy her than not. If she really has any interest in me, she will look for me herself.

   She is just polite, many men confuse a woman's politeness with interest. Don't call her, look for another woman. Love will come to you too

   Hi, in my opinion she is just scared. I've had such cases, everything goes well until the moment I ask for the phone or do something that goes away. My advice is not to deal with such people, because they are insecure, they want to, but they are afraid, hesitant, procrastinating and all this attitude makes you frustrated. Hers is not just politeness as they tell you. This type of women simply act as follows: they like someone, start flirting, give signals to them, they are very sweet, but when the object of their desire answers, they immediately withdraw, close and take a defensive position. I have listed the reasons above. If you want something to happen to this type of woman, you have to be very patient, do almost nothing, and let her approach you with tiny steps, very timid, like a savage, frightened animal, not to move so as not to frighten her and run away, to feed her carefully to eat from your hand and to caress her carefully until she gets used to you, that is, only light compliments, light flirtation, no "sharp" movements - suggestions. The question is, is it worth enduring all this nonsense at all? I would say - in most cases - NO! She has to be a very, very special woman to be subjected to all this, and she is still on the scales, because nothing can come out and you will be broken-hearted.

   I had the opportunity to experience something similar. Don't bother. Not worth it. If someone wants something, say it clearly and openly. It flirts, so fine and veiled ... It just drives you crazy. Then he makes it out that you're actually imagining something, etc. That's nonsense, man. There are many options. You may just be one of the many to mess with. I am open and direct and such nonsense has always irritated me. He looks at you nicely. He smiles gently and shyly. He shares his problems with you, he tells you many personal, even intimate things ... He shows such disarming frankness that you say to yourself - this is my wife, this is my man ... He does everything so masterfully that I grabbed his head ... Then: "But I just wanted to be friends ... but I don't want a relationship, but you're very obsessive ...." He drove me crazy. In 2-3 months he drove me crazy ... He tells me "I love you", then disappears in 2-3 weeks. He doesn't pick up the phone, nothing. Finally he picks up (I didn't bother, I call once every two or three days), "Well, I'm fine. Don't worry about. me. That's how I disappear, I appear ... ”“ But I love you, but I don't want a relationship, but I don't want someone to hold me accountable, but this, but that ... ”Hey, I cried. Don't bother colleague. Nothing will come out. Keep that in mind. I was terribly tactful and gentlemanly. The chick took me down terribly cunningly, ambiguously, and when she sensed something, she immediately raised her guard. "But I as a friend, but you press me, but I did not promise or give you hope ..." In the end I was a little insistent. One Monday he told me "I love you", then he hid and did not get up, finally he panicked and on Friday he wrote to me "please leave me. forgive me for giving you hope. I don't want a relationship with you. Leave me alone! "She came to visit me. We were once intimate. So that with politeness, which we men have misinterpreted, doesn't happen ... no one sleeps with you out of politeness, right? I filmed a lot. I was like peeing geranium figure time ... From the sides it looked very naughty. They passed. I don't think so ... But either way. otherwise I apologized, stopped all contact. I said to myself, if she loves me and she was sincere, she will look for me, if I was one of the many balaclavas, she will accept with relief that I lost myself so obediently and humbly ... They say, fight for love, be persistent ... etc etc .. Ok. But sometimes they just cut very badly and it's best to hide somewhere ... I still didn't understand why ... egati. Just when they start, hide-and-seek ... You better not hope. Women eventually take us down. Whoever tells you anything, the simple truth is that if a woman doesn't say Ok, it doesn't happen. (Whether verbally or not) They set the rules. It's bad to mess with your feelings. Some of the ladies above said that sometimes we don't read the signals well. They were polite, playful ... Nobody says "I love you" out of politeness, moreover, to reach physical intimacy ... In most cases, things are exactly as they seem - crazy. But we are stupid and we want to make the mistake that there is hope ... The day is clear from the morning. When something starts to bend and slip .... Nothing happens. Sincerity. That's it. If a woman loves you, she'll go through walls to be with you, as I would ... If she starts gossiping and hiding ... There's something unclean. Do not cut. You know how it is. From a few weeks to a few months of illness, until the sadness that you played is gone. Then you remember it all your life. But it passes. The hardest hit and hurt the one who messes with your feelings and your heart ... After all, no one is assured that they will not be rejected. It's naughty, but that's the way it is. I tried to whine like dudes do, but I didn't like alcohol. I don't think so. it makes sense for a person to dramatize that he has been played. In most cases, it's for the best. With this disappearance and squabbling, I probably had "parallel colleagues" and the lady, in order to get out of the situation, decided that the most correct maneuver was to play me sharply. After realizing that I'm not OK for meetings once or twice a month ... It seemed so to me. I just felt like an item on the menu ... I can't explain such a reaction in any other way. Whatever the reason, it doesn't matter. There was a lack of sincerity. It was false. The fact that we are masochists, falling in love and knowing that we are fucked, but no - we want to see the dumb end ... Poor picture dude ... Don't bother. Apparently there is a new fashion freaks who like to fuck with people. What kind of people aren't bent over anymore ... Some get aroused when they look at the toaster: D Sometimes you have to go back to the level - a primary simpleton and say to yourself: “Fuck the pussy! ”: D Try it. It seems to work. :) Good luck dude!

   26, made me laugh a lot with this geranium, toasters, etc., but I sympathize with you. She was not kind and polite, she did not know what she wanted, she was not aware of herself. I am a woman and I had such a friend - I loved him, he played me for 4 years, and I told myself that I had to fight for him. You are right that if there is no sincerity and if things start to slip away and become crooked - it is not possible. You will meet your girl too, do not despair

   25, rather I don't know what he wants. Her attitude is still a teenager, which is not bad. I also started to look at things differently between the ages of 28 and 30. Otherwise, I don't know if it's worth it or not, simply because I hardly know her. If it's what it seems to me - yes, it's definitely worth it. However, I have long since stopped trusting my first impressions, as I have come across quite cunning women. Even some time ago I went out for a short time with a similar type of girl (at first glance). Subsequently, it turned out that I just came across a very good actress, who would be quite envied. Then I learned my lesson and now I always approach with care. 26, you're right, bro. One should not take things too inwardly. In this case, I have no intention of suffering, making dramas or anything like that. Just, for the first time in a long time, a girl makes such a good impression on me, accompanied by signals from her. Basically, in my work I meet a lot of women, most of whom are nice and kind, but only that much. Our relationship is purely official. Anyway, if she had any real interest, she would call me, as I did several times. If he doesn't, I accept that he doesn't and things stop there. The author