Hello! Lately, I often start asking myself the question "Why Why is he doing it?" I had a long-term relationship with a girl, with whom I experienced many good moments, there was love and what kind. I was her first and she loved me very much and did her best. It was all an unforgettable dream until ... one fine and sunny day she found "her soulmate" and for a negative time cooled down to me and in a very disgusting way replaced me and sent me to the "ninth deaf", without any clear reason for this. Of course, the truth is somewhere in the middle, maybe I made mistakes and didn't give up completely, but it was a shock because I trusted her completely and she had proved to me more than once that she truly loved me. So much so that I was so deluded that by the time I realized what was happening she was already with him. During the separation itself, I managed to maintain a good relationship and everything went without scandals, even more - with wishes and advice for success in the endeavor. Strange right?! Even scandalous ?! It was as if there was still something unshared between us. Naturally, we continued to hear from each other until a moment when she began to explain how convinced she was of the rightness of her actions. Really disgusting. I stopped all contacts. But then, to my great surprise, she kept looking for me. It wasn't emails with the best wishes for the holidays, weird calls like "How are you? What's the matter with you?" Of course, of a more special type: "I dreamed of you last night", "We are friends, we haven't fought !?". I had the feeling that I was talking to a man who was in space and had no intention of coming down from there, because in my attempts to forget her, the situation got even worse, but because I'm a person who can't hurt the people he loved, I just can't "fuck her," as many people would do. She just gave me an awful lot, despite the disgusting end of our relationship. Now there is a lull, and what worries me the most is that it is not a lull before a storm, because the bad thing is that I still have some feelings, and she proved to me and the whole world that I can't have a future with her. - a man who does not know what he wants. I would like to hear your views on my situation. Has anyone been in such a nightmare. Give me some advice. It turns out that you have to be unscrupulous, because if you do not become a victim or worse - Option 2! who can't hurt the people he loved, I just can't "fuck her" like a lot of people would. She just gave me an awful lot, despite the disgusting end of our relationship. Now there is a lull, and what worries me the most is that it is not a lull before a storm, because the bad thing is that I still have some feelings, and she proved to me and the whole world that I can't have a future with her. - a man who does not know what he wants. I would like to hear your views on my situation. Has anyone been in such a nightmare. Give me some advice. It turns out that you have to be unscrupulous, because if you do not become a victim or worse - Option 2! who can't hurt the people he loved, I just can't "fuck her" like a lot of people would. She just gave me an awful lot, despite the disgusting end of our relationship. Now there is a lull, and what worries me the most is that it is not a lull before a storm, because the bad thing is that I still have some feelings, and she proved to me and the whole world that I can't have a future with her. - a man who does not know what he wants. I would like to hear your views on my situation. Has anyone been in such a nightmare. Give me some advice. It turns out that you have to be unscrupulous, because if you do not become a victim or worse - Option 2! Now there is a lull, and what worries me the most is that it is not a lull before a storm, because the bad thing is that I still have some feelings, and she proved to me and the whole world that I can't have a future with her. - a man who does not know what he wants. I would like to hear your views on my situation. Has anyone been in such a nightmare. Give me some advice. It turns out that you have to be unscrupulous, because if you do not become a victim or worse - Option 2! Now there is a lull, and what worries me the most is that it is not a lull before a storm, because the bad thing is that I still have some feelings, and she proved to me and the whole world that I can't have a future with her. - a man who does not know what he wants. I would like to hear your views on my situation. Has anyone been in such a nightmare. Give me some advice. It turns out that you have to be unscrupulous, because if you do not become a victim or worse - Option 2!
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From the author: I forgot to add that these are more or less grown people! Thank you for the comments!