Fear Or Shame, I Don't Know What To Call It ...

   Calm down, dude, the time will come for you, you just have to be more insistent. If you see that the girl wants more intimacy, take advantage, because next year you will write that you are a 2nd year student and a virgin. Don't think I'm picking on you. Act boldly - this is the advice of a 19-year-old girl. Girls do not like to do everything themselves. Good luck.

   And I'm a girl and I'll tell you a secret (or at least it was until now :): all my life I had an erotic desire to be with a virgin man. Over the years, it so happened that I was with two virgins without even realizing it. They are both older than you - at 22 and 24. For reasons like yours, they had not told me before, and honestly, their behavior in bed was not understood at all. I've been with men "with experience", but much more clumsy than them ... The lesson: do not rush, just because you lag behind and do not hide from the one you chose to be your first. If she is a decent girl, she will be flattered, and if she is mocked, then she is a complete simpleton. So few men are like you, and maybe a lot of women have desires like mine. And don't forget (when the time comes) that all you have to do is let go of your emotions and feel what's happening, not to drive it like in a cheap porn movie. Everything else will happen by itself. I'm squeezing your thumbs!

   From the way you express yourself, I have the feeling that you are not so congested, my explanation is that after a certain age you decided that you were late, now you are probably ashamed of it, but I must tell you that it is not who knows what, I know 2 guys who had similar problems, but when they swallowed the horror of trying, they were satisfied; adjust your psyche so that it is prepared, that in any case the first time you will be terribly sick, but bad bad, the trick is to go through it

   Now I'm left to "swallow the horror" and "give myself to the moment" ... Thanks to everyone who responded once again ... I will follow your advice ...

   You're not late for my man

   Just relax was a man. Sex is not a competition but a pleasure!