Hello! My name is Victor and I want to share my problem with human aggression. From 1st to 7th grade I was bullied, beaten and ridiculed by my classmates. When I finished 7th grade I moved to another school with a much more normal and educated environment. Everything was great! When I became a 9th grader, another problem appeared in my life, my parents divorced. This hurt me a lot because I am a person who cares a lot about my family. From that moment on, I began to feel afraid of human aggression, or more precisely, I was afraid of being killed or beaten. I don't know if my parents are to blame or my classmates, and I don't care. I just want my fears to go away. I want to share a little more about my problem! I am afraid of the aggression of young people. Sometimes when I go out and see a group of young people on the bench, I walk around other streets because I'm afraid they will beat me. Because of this problem I never had a girlfriend and a week ago I turned eighteen. I invited friends to a restaurant to treat them to my birthday, and all the while I was tormented by the thought of how I would get home without being beaten. Please advice what to do!
1 wismichu answered
I know how "grandma" it will sound, but go with your mother to someone who understands that they will pour a bullet on you (that's what it's called). Except that the reason for your fear / neurosis comes out there and takes it away. Try it! When I was little, I was attacked by a wolf. I had my own, domestic dog, big at that, but I had no problems with it. Outside, however, I almost peed for fear of a small dog even. It was not until puberty that they thought of trying this option. After the procedure, my grandmother showed me a piece of lead in the shape of a toothy wolf's head. Since then I have no fear of dogs. I passed like a puppy;)))