Hello! An 18-year-old boy writes to you. Why are there more and more cases and people nowadays who are afraid of being tied up? I can't answer this question and it bothers me a lot inside. And no, I'm not afraid of commitment. The problem with me is that I always come across girls who are afraid to get engaged because of past relationships and think that everything will happen again and they will suffer again or they will disappoint me because they are afraid. I recently met a girl, we wrote to each other regularly, yesterday was her birthday, I congratulated her, we couldn't see each other because she's not in town, but when she comes we'll see each other. Well ... I don't know what happened to me, I decided to record voice messages and tell her how I feel and how I feel about her (she said I like the voice and that's why I decided to do it so much as to write). And after all that ... I only got one. " I do not want to disappoint you; I'm afraid of disappointing you, because I'm afraid of committing. "Hell, after you say you like a person and you like everything in him, I don't understand what the problem is?!? !! What can I do, give my advice .. I don't want to give up on this girl .. because I believe that in time things will get better .. If someone gives me advice I will be very grateful :)!
1 magnolia_1 answered
Well, when she's afraid not to commit. Just go out, give her your time, pay attention to her, push yourself, and so on. Just don't commit. Just don't let it happen at one point that you're committed without knowing it, hehe. As men, our job is to give, and who wants to take advantage - to give orders.