Hello, a 24-year-old girl who has been having sex for several years writes to you. So far, I have had three partners with whom we have taken care. My current friend is also very serious and responsible. The problem is that I am very afraid of not getting pregnant, of having an abortion and then years later of not being able to bear and give birth to a child when I want it. Sometimes I forget about my fear, and other times it overwhelms me and I can't relax at all. It seems to me that this has affected my previous two relationships, because with such frightening thoughts in my head I often fail to enjoy sex. I shared with my friend, he is trying to calm me down, but I am looking for help from you as well. Do I have reason to worry that in the event of an abortion I will harm my future chances How can I enjoy my life and my relationship without feeling horrified? I hope the moderators approve my story and get advice. Thank you so much!
1 paulinha1895 answered
Just use oral contraceptives - consult a gynecologist who would be most suitable for you, and if you are still worried about them - use them with condoms. And no, you have no reason to worry from now on about any possible, hypothetical things! Live your life, do not be paranoid, lead a reasonable sex life, but do not stare at this fear, because it would only hinder you.