Failure Again, Why Do I Fail?

Hi, I'm a 24 year old boy, supposedly out of puberty! I had a girlfriend until 8 months ago and I have been alone ever since! Whatever! I needed to rest and be alone, I thought it would make me feel better! Yes, but no, everything happened suddenly! It was a normal day, I went to the toilet in a cafe, and STANA met 1 girl (20 years old)! I immediately went crazy over her, I talked to her, she replied and gave me her personal data! We wrote to each other, there were jokes, but the PROBLEM is clear! He has a friend who told me they were in a bad relationship. I said I want her, I rarely fall for a chick so much. After 2 days I accidentally wrote her where she was, and she replied that she was having coffee with her friend and that I could join! It was fun there was flirtation and body language, I laughed I looked at her and she looked at me, she behaved defiantly! And tonight I asked her if she was free, she said she would go out and that she was busy ... And I think I made a big mistake by maybe hurrying with my direct hints that I wanted her! I told her "Look, I really feel the desire and pleasure to be with you and it doesn't make me dizzy to be far away" And here my friend said that I shit! She said, "Look, my boyfriend and I are in a bad relationship, but I'm not like that anymore. You don't get me wrong, I'm not like that anymore. I just don't know how you understand things." I wished you a good and pleasant night! I'm just a Scorpio, and I've always been direct, I can't play movies and hide my desires and emotions! I want her badly, but I gave her up ... Failure again! Please tell me if there is a way to have it and fix my shoes! I've been cut like a pig many times, and I had an awful lot of hopes for her and ...! Thank you in advance!