Some time ago I was quite close to one person, or at least he was close to me. But for 1-2 years we have hardly heard or seen each other. Sometimes I write to him, but not very often, because I'm always first and I don't like to bother. The problem is that I think of him almost every day. And for a while I started dreaming about it: D Dreams are common, which I find quite annoying and it doesn't help me not to think so much about it. I would very much like to be friends again, but if I just want it, it can't happen. So my question is: Does it make sense to try to renew our friendship and if not, what can I do to stop thinking so much about him
1 cutylicious answered
So familiar. I recently lost a dear friend - or he lost me when I left. We don't talk, we are in the same class. It's as if he hates me and wants to hurt me with insults, and I want to hurt him. I say I hate him, and when he remembers our memories he grins like an idiot. I dream it, I don't want to but I dream it. This is the subconscious. Subconsciously you want to meet him again and meet him in a dream. After all, there is no other way if you are quarreling. Trying to fix things can be a sign, at least you'll know you've tried. I can't, after he told me he hated me - and it ruined his relationship because of his "best" girlfriend.