I don't know where to start and I apologize in advance for my chaotic story. I have been married for 8 years and we have 2 children under 3 years old. Some time ago my husband and I argued about some nonsense at the beginning of our acquaintance. I remembered that we could resolve the dispute by seeing our correspondence on Facebook, and since I no longer have an account, I entered his. He himself does not use Facebook and has not logged in for years. His last chats are from 7, 8 years ago. But ... What chats just ... A little background. When we met, he was engaged to a girl who had gone to the United States for two years. She told me that they hadn't promised anything and are now very rarely heard, it had been 8 months since she was gone. I told him I wouldn't get involved in such a relationship and stopped dating him. But we were already quite sunken, and a week later he called me to talk to them. When I went he told me he wanted to end his relationship in front of me and called the girl. He told her he wanted to be honest and admit to her that he was in love with another woman. The girl laughed and said something like "We haven't been together in a long time, do what you want." And later he found me on Facebook and wrote me "it's yours, just make sure it doesn't bother me". Maybe I should have had the light come on that there was something. Back to our days. I watch my husband's old chats, he had a lot of female attention. I found out he was systematically cheating on that girl. With colleagues from the university, a woman over 50 and even one of her friends.
The story went very, very much. I don't know how he enchanted them, but he seriously humiliated some of them. For example, one of them asked him to drink coffee at the bus station, that he didn't have time, but needed to see him, and he wrote directly to her, to call him, when they have time to play. And in a few days she writes to him "should I come to you?", And he "no, I have company" and she tries day by day to get her turn, almost. Such women are not one, two. He had "company" almost every night. I don't know him in that light, and since he's not a big handsome man, I thought he was so charming only in my eyes. For 8 years I had only one reason to doubt and did not pay the necessary attention to him. He never hid his phone from me and one night he received a message "no reason :)". In the context of the following conversation: my husband sends her contact information with another man's phone number and name, she writes "ok, we got along", later it says "see you", and my husband replies "Thank you, kisses ". I immediately looked for an explanation, and he calmly explained to me that this was how he had fixed things with my company (we were in an inspection, and the man in the message was the head of the institution that was inspecting us). He told me that he would seize us during the inspection and ruin us, and when my husband asked him if there was another option, he said he had everything, but he lacked pleasant female company and my husband "arranged things." ". When I asked what these kisses were and if he hadn't "settled down", he said, "Are you okay? I'm just bleeding, what should I write to her. What's the matter with me, I got you." Plus a bunch of compliments, what a beautiful woman I am a woman and how I give him everything he has dreamed of. This, combined with the end of the test, blinded me. But now that I see what he did before me, I wonder ... Do I know this man? Is it possible that there is a double life and that I live in some brutal delusion? He is a good father, a good husband, we are together almost constantly, he does not hide, I have not caught him lying where he is or something like that. He behaves well, helps me at home, we have an active sex life. However, I was paranoid and got there to order a hidden camera. I had a plan. I decided that if he was the womanizer I think he would be, he would take advantage of any convenient situation. I wanted to install the camera at home and go to my parents for a week. Let's see what he will do when there is room for expression. However, it does not grip me. First, he is so kind and devoted to us that I feel like a villain and a full hook. Secondly, in order for the camera to work for a whole week, I have to mount it next to a socket and it is possible that it will find it and I will die of shame. Then I'll have to tell him that I'm judging him for things from 10 years ago, which I myself realize is not normal. And third, I'm not sure if I'm ready to know the truth, and I have no idea what to do if it turns out to be ugly. So the camera is sitting in the box, my head is a mess and I've been wondering what to do for a month now.
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Doubts are already in your head and that's because your husband wrote to some kind of kisses. You have two ways out of this situation: 1. You completely forget about your doubts and trust your husband. 2. You put the hidden camera - by the way you can use a power strip with a long cable and hide it where you want. You go to your parents. When you return, if there is nothing wrong with the camera, you can hire a detective and he will take pictures outside and everywhere. It will even put a program on your husband's phone and this program will record all chats and messages, even deleted ones. It depends on what you want to do more, how you see your future with this person from now on.