Hello, I am writing a new topic, because my old "Do you like me or I imagine" is exhausted - I just acted and realized that I like it! Briefly from the old topic: "I finally couldn't stand it and revealed that I'm in love with her" "A few days ago I heard her say that she was" "in a hole" and could not concentrate as before "" she was the first to look me - he even turned because he had his back to me and looked me straight in the eye and so for at least 10 seconds face to face. Then almost - sorry, I look like that! Ah, he even said he doesn't remember! I write from time to time, but general talk and nothing about the fact that I'm in love with her - she already knows it. The strange thing is that she keeps saying that her husband is not excited about her, and that she doesn't mind us writing to each other. !! ”“ At our last meeting she started explaining various personal things to me and also asked me if I had dealt with my feelings, because she was worried about me and wanted me to be well! She told me again that it was not a problem for her to call and write to her when I decided. ”“ Last time she told me that she was looking forward to my calls, because it was nice to talk to her! . ”“ She told me that she wants me to write and call her, because I was not indifferent to her and she likes me as a man, a colleague, etc. !!! She even offered to share it with me and called me when I was nervous, angry, etc. "" Sometimes it seemed to me that she wanted something to happen between us, sometimes it seemed to me that I was annoying her and she didn't want to he sees and hears me. When I didn't understand exactly what she wanted, I ended up with a direct offer of sex, which, as I expected, she didn't accept. Then I almost stopped looking for her, and she seemed angry, for she must have decided that was my only goal. After that we wrote to each other and heard each other a few more times, but when we see each other in the general company it seems that she is angry. I had no goal - I just shared my feelings, and then everything got out of hand for me and ended with this proposal. I found out that she is quite a strong character and even if she has some feelings she will not show it in any way, which is best, because otherwise it can get bad. I don't know what she expected - she wanted to keep me around, even though she knew about my feelings! And now my question to women is: Can a woman who behaves in this way have no feelings for me - even if something is slightly frightening to her? Not that I'm going to do anything, but I just can't explain this behavior and I want to know if my analysis is correct? And my analysis is that she had feelings, so she withdrew. We are both married!
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The woman may have liked you, but since you are married, have reservations. Second, the fact that you offered her sex was stupid. Every man can offer her sex, how will your proposal be different from someone else's? What makes you stand out as a person? I don't know why most men think that making a sex proposal makes a huge impression, and you should feel flattered. Nowadays, the invitation for sex is not a miracle, just someone uses it as a hello. You have to stand out, with your qualities, in order for him to want you. You made an impression, but when you sent this invitation, you became like everyone else, and you are quite normal and she thought that this was your only goal, that all your words were sweet lies to shine on you. Not all women want to ruin their family, you may have liked it, but to have reservations about your feelings. Even if she had decided that it was better not to get into dramas.