Hello, My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years - and until 2 months ago things were fine between us and we were happy together until he started to change due to problems with work, university, etc. 2 months ago we had an argument, because of a girl who was dating him and I found out from a mutual friend that she kissed him at a party ... robbed him while they were both drunk. As soon as I found out, I was upset and of course we quarreled, especially since he had kept quiet about it (in his words because he didn't want to hurt me and didn't even like her, and just couldn't react ...) I thought these were stupid excuses, but after we talked we decided to put it aside because we loved each other and he was very sorry for what had happened. So, until a month ago I found out that they were together again (they have mutual friends) and I got angry ... and this time we quarreled quite seriously ... then I told him I wanted to stop here if she was going to hide every time she went out and she was there. From that moment on, every time we saw each other we fought, even when I went to see him he went to sleep with a friend so as not to see me ... this affected me ... and about 2 weeks ago we talked and he said he wanted to break up because he feels unhappy in general from his life at the moment (work, family problems) and cannot experience any feelings anymore. Now we chat about common things or if we have to help each other with something. A few days ago I saw that he called me in the middle of the night, and because I was asleep he sent me several messages after trying to call. I realized that he had been drunk and wanted to share that he was happy about something important to him that had happened to him. But the next day when we spoke, he said he didn't know why he called me.
1 sophiiaagraacee answered
Um ... even if he has feelings for you, your relationship is doomed. You will continue like this for some time and soon the day will come when one of the two will want you to end your relationship completely. You will struggle in the name of the love that has actually begun to go away in both of them.