Hello and I want to tell my story. I had a 6-year relationship with a man, of whom I have a 2-year-old child, but 9 months ago we broke up forever. I felt very bad and cried all day until I met the other. I fell in love very quickly, as he at least told me. Everything was going well, we talked about marriage, living together, etc., but until the day he started postponing it for the next time, he thought of all sorts of reasons not to live together. I decided to wait for him a little longer, but I can't anymore and I told him to choose because I have a child and I want security, not something else. People don't understand it, we are constantly together, we sleep together every day, he is looking for me, but he doesn't want me to bring my luggage to them, why Is it just for sex? Anything that comes to my mind is still 33 years old and I can judge whether I am alone for him or not.
1 sexysaleena answered
Well, darling, your situation is very naughty. You really need security. But with ultimatums you won't be able to sit down and talk to him most calmly. Without making him choose between you and anything. Just explain to him how you feel, what you want from life from himself. And you will judge from his very answer. Ask him what he can offer you, such as love as support and whether he is ready for marriage, regardless of whether you will enter into a civil or just live together, it is the same. Well, I wish you a lot of success and I hope things go as you want them :) !!!