Hi, I like a 2 year old boy. I've known him since I was very young. We were together in a kindergarten. I didn't pay attention to him from the beginning, but lately I haven't stopped thinking about him. He now studies abroad and we see each other very rarely, only on longer vacations. I feel like he likes me, but sometimes he is very nice to me and other times it's like I don't exist. When we play cards (Kent Kope) because we are in a team, our sign is to wink (he chose it). Once we were alone because the others were at sea and only the two of us went out. He looked at me as if he wanted to kiss me. We stood close to each other. Once while I was writing to a friend, he started teasing me by pushing my hand and pressing random letters. He was behind me and he was holding me like he was hugging me. I had the feeling that he was trying to kiss me because he was almost to my lips but did not move away for at least 5 minutes. Once it was a question of who I liked, of course I didn't tell them. He started pinching my hands to say something. I had the feeling that he most wanted to know who I liked. We always stand next to each other and when there are more people on the bench we sing I have the feeling that our hands are so close to each other that they will be attracted like a magnet. I even had such a dream. One day it was me, him and a friend of mine. She was crying and we were watching the stars. He lay down and I was sitting next to him and he told me, come to bed I will make room for you. Then we got up and he showed us where the little bear was. I couldn't see her. He took my hand and pointed to it, which was close behind me. I could hear him breathing because it was right next to my ear. So I want to ask you, do you think these are signs that I like it or just imagine
1 allisajacobs answered
Amiiii ... anything is possible. Sometimes we do not see the "signals" in front of our eyes, and other times, we interpret things as we want them to be. But if you wait for these signs, you can wait another 2 years. I don't think there's anything more to unwind than to act. If he likes you, he definitely doesn't know how to show it and maybe he's afraid you'll reject it. There is nothing wrong with taking matters into your own hands and understanding what it is all about. Invite him to go out alone or try to stay alone for longer, even if you are with company somewhere and just tell him how you feel. I know it will seem very scary and awkward, but when a person wants something, he has to make an effort to get it. If there is a shy person who is insecure or unable to interpret your behavior, he may not take the first step soon ... or at all. And what? You will stand and wonder what is going on, if something will ever happen, and he will eventually take it upon himself to find a girlfriend, and then it will be even worse for you not to have done something about it before. Close your eyes and confess to him! Don't worry, it won't be as scary as you think. And then you will know if it makes sense to feed hopes or not ...