Does He Like Me?-ellisiyayi

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This question will probably sound silly, given that we are both 22 years old, but I am confused in this case. We are students in the same group and our collegial relationship grew into a friendly one after he experienced a painful separation for him and I lost a loved one. Our personal pain seemed to unite us and we began to share personal things. At first I was convinced that there was only sincere friendship between us, but for several months I began to suspect that something more had arisen on his part. He started writing to me very often on various occasions. He invites me out or the reason is stupid - to ask me something about the university or something about a TV show we both watch as if he can't find this information elsewhere. I just have a feeling he's looking for an excuse. In one conversation he added that he liked the woman to take the first step and sometimes even on purpose, if he has feelings for a woman, he waits to see if she will do something to judge her. And it would happen to me one day, if I didn't have the courage to act first, to miss a chance. I think he asks me what he looks like, if he's cool - he asked all his friends. Before that, he asked me about my other colleagues who I thought was cool. I told him about a famous man I just liked, and he immediately started spitting at him and got angry with him. In our last conversation, he asks me if it happened that I looked at a friend with different eyes, how it could happen that my opinion changed. I told him that nothing like this had happened to me before and asked him why he was interested. He replied that he was writing a story, he wanted to include such an incident, but it hadn't happened to him before, and he didn't know what it felt like. When I see you at lectures, he hardly talks to me anymore. He greets me, but only this and then writes to me in the chat. In general, we are only friends in words, but I don't really know if there is only friendship between us. What do you think?

Last Updated
September 02, 2020
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ellisiyayi

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