Hello! I'm a girl, 14 years old. I like a boy and I am confused by his feelings. He is 13, but he is still taller than me (I am 1.75) and we have many common interests. In the beginning when we met (and before I knew him, but I did not pay attention to him) he treated me very well. Once he got drunk and since I never drank or got drunk I was very scared of him. His friends wanted to leave him drunk on the street, but I just took him and took him to them. The next day he didn't remember anything and my best friend told him what had happened. From then on, he started behaving differently with me, an idea more rude. The problem is that when I like someone, I start to oppose them for every single thing. He is the "leader" of the group I go out with and he always wants everything to go the way he wants it to. However, I hate someone being so powerful, so I just said to him, "Why do you think everyone should do what you say?" That was a very big mistake on my part. He then behaved rudely at school, but not too harshly. He was rude, but he also looked at me in a nice way. He would walk down the corridors and stop me every time and tell me something. He hit me in the ass once or twice, but he was still rude. (Rather, it constantly annoyed me) The other day, already on summer vacation, we were out and as we stood he told me, "My mom told me you were very pretty and smart," and my response was, "I know." then from his side came "And I know it is so." ... Then he talked about how he wants us to have a wedding, etc. Now I don't know what to do !! There is another problem, that my best friend also likes him ... My questions are: Does he like me? and What should I do about him if he likes me?
1 enjoytheboy answered
In my opinion, you have a chance, if necessary, to observe it over time, and as you are more confident, start to express your feelings slowly. Younger boys express their feelings in strange ways sometimes.