Author, you may be misreading the signs. Sometimes men perceive the elementary worldly kindness as a flirtation. I will tell you a recent case. The other day I accidentally stepped on a man in the crowded minibus. I turned around, apologized, the man said: "It's not your fault, then there is no place for a needle to fall ...", at that moment a double seat became available and we settled there. We travel outside Sofia to our villas; he had recently bought the property. We talked about the bad transport to where his house is, where mine is, how difficult it is if a person is late for work to come home, from here - who does what and so it turned out that my new acquaintance and my husband are former colleagues, they have lost touch, and here they are neighbors. When we reached the last stop, we exchanged business cards, I said: "You must stop one day! Tony will be happy! "and everyone went on their way. As soon as I opened the gate, I completely forgot about him. Won't you, in twenty minutes the new neighbor calls. And he says," Look, I'd come right now because you're a nice chick, but I don't like to I'm third in a relationship, if you understand me. "I was burning with embarrassment! What" third ", what" fourth ", what is it all about, except for a polite and absolutely non-committal invitation to an old friend of my husband ?! My husband then he laughed as I told him the story, laughing most at my sincere indignation and explaining things to me: "When one speaks Chinese and the other French, these people are unlikely to understand each other. You, darling, are wandering among your intellectual friends, where there is a tacitly accepted code in communication and the promise "we will hear each other"
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Hello, as a woman I am 1000% sure that everyone would say NO to you! Female flirting is definitely not a "prerequisite for something" as you put it. :) Each one has a different personality and character, but in general I think they do it because of ego and thirst for attention.