Hello, I am a woman of 30 years. I don't have a serious relationship, I like very relaxed and sexy men and I usually fall in love with women. I recently met a man. He is 39 years old, with a very sexy body, no relationship for 9 years. I was lying on the beach and I was asleep. When I woke up, he was near me with a friend of his and talked to me. He was known to a friend in my company. We met again at the sea, at a house party, he was at a table with friends and I joined them. After the sea I did not look for him, nor did he look for me. After about a month I wrote to him and we started chatting on Facebook. We wrote to each other for a week. He started offering me sex. I continued with the casual communication for another week. I like that it is very spontaneous. He had once written to me at one in the night to invite me to a disco. I slept so I didn't see. I really like that he goes out and has fun and goes to discos, unlike most people his age. We had sex recently. It was spontaneous, until very late at night. I remember with a smile and I am very pleased with the feeling and the thought of him. He hinted that I might stay with him, but I left because I would fall asleep for work. We have a casual relationship, it doesn't bother me because it's not obsessive. I don't like someone to follow me like a shadow and write to me and look for me non-stop. He looks quite mature, we talked for a long time after sex, he radiates calm, which I really like. I am too impulsive and easily ignited, and a person like him balances me. He asked me about my life, why I don't have a boyfriend, etc. I want our relationship to deepen. I have a pleasant emotional attraction to him, which intensified after sex. Do you think
1 christiancraig answered
Hardly, considering he's a womanizer. These are hard to tame, especially since you've had sex like that. But it's too early to say for sure, and you don't give much information. Does he look for you often? Do you want to see only the two of you without having sex? Do you always respond to his invitations? Answer these questions and analyze his behavior (and yours) as if it is not aimed at you to judge correctly. A man is in love when he invests his time and effort in you and in your relationship. When he puts you among his priorities, not after them. If he is looking for you, he is punctual according to your arrangements, he does not dare to justify himself to you, he keeps his word, he keeps his promises ... then it can be concluded that he has serious intentions towards you.