Hello, people. My question is mostly about women, but men can also share an opinion. I love the person by my side. I recently went out with a friend of mine to a bar and we didn't drink alcohol. It was just the two of us. At one point, a boy came and asked us to buy us something, I said no, thank you, he asked us again, and I said the same thing. Then the waitress wears two shots, shouts a treat, I refuse, but she leaves them. We asked who they were from, and she said from the bartenders. I didn't want to drink it, and my girlfriend brought it back, and he said he was going to make soft shots. She drank it, I left it again. Not for anything else, I just feel like if I had drunk it, it would have meant that I had some interest in them and that I enjoyed buying me. I'm not cocky, sometimes I'm too good, but sometimes I have to cut them. Maybe if I wasn't bound, I'd say no unless I knew the guy. And for me, 2 of the bartenders (they're 3) were complete strangers, only one of them knew him, but I'm sure it had nothing to do with it. Yes, but I'm told if I'm too mean. Shota was quite nicely made, with different colors, the boy tried. But I'm not that kind of girl to take a treat from this guy and that guy. If I went out with him and he decided to buy it, okay, but otherwise I feel like a little girl. Did I do the right thing?
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planetxona666 answered · June 10, 2020
If they give. Make sure they don't look like serial rapists just, take it!
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tayy69 answered · June 10, 2020
I'm a man, but I wish all women were like you. All I can do is shake your hand.
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pusssyy_catt answered · June 10, 2020
I'm a woman, but I think bars are a social environment, and in the social environment it's normal for people to socialize. Three years ago, I was at a piano bar and it made an impression on how stiff the younger generation is, everyone was standing around the tables, itching their drinks and nothing was happening, and well what times were years ago... ...
You didn't do anything wrong, the bartenders have seen all sorts of individuals and haven't been affected, believe me.
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cherryshortcake answered · June 10, 2020
And I don't take anything from strangers, from acquaintances, too. I hate all kinds of treats, avant-garde, gifts. They make me feel super bad, like I don't have the money to buy the given thing and people give me regret.
Gentlemen, when they say no, it means no. Avoid insisting. Not all women are gold diggers and interesting.
G,22
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dilanmoritz answered · June 10, 2020
How old are you, 15? Only a person up to the age of 15 can think like that. Over 18 to buy a woman in bars means it's light. If she goes there just to buy her a drink, it's... And yes, there are a lot of them.
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assmani28 answered · June 11, 2020
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Yes, you're a 15-year-old Catholic who's determined to defend his beliefs fiercely. Everyone else is masquerades, you're the only one who's good and you're not hiding it, are you :)
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hott_ass answered · June 11, 2020
I'm always with one mind that it might not just be a shot... I've seen so much of this kind of lading at sea, i don't thank you.
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pialouise0 answered · June 11, 2020
I work in an emergency room and i'm regularly brought by women whose drink there was more than alcohol. Now it's fashionable to intoxicate women and then have sex with them without them knowing themselves. I'm just saying just keep that in mind. Let them do it in front of you and watch your drink afterwards. If anyone thinks I'm joking, no, no.
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xxlilianx answered · June 12, 2020
Do 9
I regularly mess with my drinks with what not? What's the emergency you're working at because we might have caught up?
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thequeenhot69 answered · June 12, 2020
By 4 - Maybe skip the piano bar next time and go to the rock bar? Because no one wants to go to the quiet piano bar to socialize with 40 strangers. Everyone's just looking to relax. You can say a chat or two, but it's just not an environment. And what does he expect to happen?
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elliemarkcouple answered · June 12, 2020
I wouldn't accept it because I don't know what else they might have poured into the drink.
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kirapheonix answered · June 13, 2020
A neighbor of mine said that's how they drugged him in a bar. You've said no right. They can play some guys, how do you know, for money, everything some people do.
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eva_b00m answered · June 13, 2020
Once upon a time, a man courted a woman with actions, ideas, showed attitude, intellect, qualities, risked being rejected, but acted. Now, however, because there are no men and no one will curl up in their drink, we're going to have belkim shining. I have no words just about how far the mental impotence of the modern man has come. Just imagine the one who pours something into your drink- it will be the head of a family, a parent, a doctor, a teacher, he will defend Bulgaria... I just don't have words...
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jennifer838 answered · June 13, 2020
7, from the Catholic. She did the right thing. When she accepts something like that, it's clear she's a crush. Content? I don't understand.
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lia_sunnyland answered · June 14, 2020
9, not that you're joking or saying something bad, but I think you're lying. For the first time I hear a doctor use phrases such as "more than alcohol" instead of substance/substance narcotic, psychotropic, opioid, etc. And that those who took a substance with alcohol were "intoxicated." It's just a lot of baby-sounding the whole comment. I also think that if you regularly encountered this, you would remember to remind that besides "intoxication", such a cocktail can lead to anaphylactic shock, intoxication and a fatal end.
I may be wrong, but if you're really a medic, would you explain what a person should do if there's a suspicion that he drank a drink with some substance in it?
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asianhairylingeriefetish answered · June 14, 2020
I take treats in the bar, I see nothing wrong, I've been drawn to the sea and in Sofia too. I'm so happy to be flirting with me, and I don't think it's wrong. At number 8 and 9, I can say that I've never been drugged like this, and neither my friends and acquaintances, it's an obsolete 90s. And if there are such cases today, they are very rare.
G24
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michman1331 answered · June 14, 2020
That's why there's a rule, I know it from my father, who was an old-school gentleman. If a lady gets in such a situation: to be served a drink with compliments from the gentleman at the next table, then she has two choices: to accept the drink by sending gratitude through the waiter or to refuse it. The first gesture means she accepts courtship. The second is that he rejects it. In this case, she should not even touch the glass even if the waiter serves it on her table. This also applies if the drink is the same as she drinks. It's just a sign that the lady's refusing contact.
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iiiieeeee answered · June 14, 2020
16, is that the most important thing here? And i'm a nurse, it doesn't change these facts, nor does it make any difference to the particular topic. It's petty, but...
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special_k843 answered · June 15, 2020
18, out of 15. That's exactly what I meant, but you explained it very well. Accepting the drink, the woman accepts the courtship. So taking treats like that in the pubs doesn't make you an honor. Everyone likes to be courted, but men who will at least have the guts to talk to them. And in the pubs, only drunk students and tattooed aunts 30. I don't know why you're wasting your time there. They take your money while you can invest in something more meaningful.
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mnbvcxz6789qw answered · June 15, 2020
Accepting a gift, a treat, a service is obligatory. Even if you don't feel that way, the other side might want to...
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emelia_smith answered · June 15, 2020
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Especially if they are from southern Bulgaria ...
When you hear "Ama puoooooo smoooth! I'm here (yes, two times here), you're pushing me with two beers, you're not going to make me a sucker, and you're just wearing the romance in you.
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ledzep1234 answered · June 15, 2020
I don't accept it.
G32
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mr_dynamite18 answered · June 15, 2020
No, where am I going to get a treat from some stranger?
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pinknslutty1 answered · June 16, 2020
There's no man working as a bartender who doesn't buy you a drink in the hope of putting it on you.
There's no man in general who doesn't buy in the hope of putting it on you.
Now... if a woman accepts a drink from someone who, with her gesture, shows that she wants to put it on her - what is it in the case?
18, or more precisely, his father, said it very well and much more culturally than I could say.
It's Bratan.
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vegasron3453 answered · June 16, 2020
Because I was seriously worried, to ask the author: Did your girlfriend end up drugged? Also, the backlash is whether you "asked" after that? Does something scary happen to her at all, or are we going to limit ourselves to looking like a little girl or, at best, as someone who can't afford a drink and waits to buy it? I think I summed up the prejudices of the post and the comments.