Do You Take Treats From Bartenders/strangers At The Bar?

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Hello, people. My question is mostly about women, but men can also share an opinion. I love the person by my side. I recently went out with a friend of mine to a bar and we didn't drink alcohol. It was just the two of us. At one point, a boy came and asked us to buy us something, I said no, thank you, he asked us again, and I said the same thing. Then the waitress wears two shots, shouts a treat, I refuse, but she leaves them. We asked who they were from, and she said from the bartenders. I didn't want to drink it, and my girlfriend brought it back, and he said he was going to make soft shots. She drank it, I left it again. Not for anything else, I just feel like if I had drunk it, it would have meant that I had some interest in them and that I enjoyed buying me. I'm not cocky, sometimes I'm too good, but sometimes I have to cut them. Maybe if I wasn't bound, I'd say no unless I knew the guy. And for me, 2 of the bartenders (they're 3) were complete strangers, only one of them knew him, but I'm sure it had nothing to do with it. Yes, but I'm told if I'm too mean. Shota was quite nicely made, with different colors, the boy tried. But I'm not that kind of girl to take a treat from this guy and that guy. If I went out with him and he decided to buy it, okay, but otherwise I feel like a little girl. Did I do the right thing?

Last Updated
June 10, 2020
Author:
ricksmall

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