I often read topics and mention "my girlfriend does it", "my boyfriend's boyfriend is what you are". I think intimacy is very important, dear and intimate, to argue about. This applies to both sexes! A man who tells friends or acquaintances what he did in bed is a simpleton to me, even Stefan Danailov said it. But the same goes for women. They resent men, but if they get together for coffee, they play a discussion like Sex and the City, which should not be discussed with friends at all. What do you gain by sharing Where we put it, what we love and how we do it is between me and my partner. I'm a woman and I don't think my girlfriends care what I do or like in bed. Nor do my husband's friends confuse them. It's very ugly people, how can you not realize!
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I've always felt disgusted when my girlfriends discussed having sex. It's like they just do it to brag, and there's really nothing in sex. This is a normal, natural thing that everyone has done and will do. In my opinion, such intimate things are unnecessary to share and I explain to myself that for them it is just sex without love. F19
Well, I sometimes share different things with my two closest friends (not in full detail, of course, and it's not like sitting down for coffee with company and waving it in front of everyone). They are no less close to me as people than my partner and I share a lot with them.
Who shares, why not let others try the partner to judge? I'm terribly disgusted too. Nobody confuses him what we do in bed.
No, I do not share. My opinion is that a third person has no place in such conversations. If you're going to be curious, let me. Intimacy and love are only between the two. :) / Black_Woman /
My wife's best friend missed me about our intimate life with my wife. And she knows such details that only we know, how I do French, anal sex, ... I asked my wife how she knows such details. She replied that they shared a great job. I forbade her to do so, but she would hardly listen to me.
Go to №2 in the same spirit and after a while you can roar because one of your girlfriends can try with your boyfriend out of female curiosity. In men, boasting is killing complexes in women out of stupidity.
Sharing can sometimes be a bad joke. I will describe to you an event from my life that is 100% true. I had a girlfriend who adored French love. It reached 3-4 orgasms after 5-10 minutes of licking. And so she had shared this thing with a close friend with whom I also knew very well. She knew her acquaintance very much and they didn't like her, but he didn't like her and they never did French. After a time when we were no longer together, this chick came to me and directly told me what she knew and asked for French. They were still in a relationship with her, and the only thing that stopped her from asking earlier was that she didn't want to make a number for her friend. I will not go into details, I will just say that in addition to the French, there was also a rider, a missionary, a rear rider and many other things. We met secretly for about a year and then went abroad. So be careful what you share. My grandfather used to tell me that one was watching a wedding and another an ax
Women are not only more talkative about the sex they have with different men, but they also make things a lot better and always present themselves as tigresses.
My friends and I share who loves whom, likes and the like. Not about sex, he has sex everywhere already and what is there to talk about - people are fed up with hearing about it. I share your opinion otherwise. It's rude for me for women to swear and drink beer on the streets, but it's mass.
Never! Only invertebrates do that ...
No way. And if you ask something like that, it's unhealthy curiosity and a red light. And when you have a serious and cool man next to you, girlfriends - further away. They envy. Personal experience
I share more with male friends, I can tell a story with women, but I will not specify the person. I keep my territory, though;) As a rule, I say only the good, that is, if I can praise it. I know that some people will probably not like it again ... But I enjoy some events and sharing them with others makes me even cooler. I really like to brag, these things have always brought me additional pleasure. F31
In fact, I am very surprised that there are hardly any positive comments on the subject. I think you are looking at the issue very aggressively. You speak in general terms and you see the world in black and white. And the important thing is in the gray. It is very clear that it is vulgar to brag after a night with a woman who has trusted you intimately and to tell, but I do not think it is abnormal to share with your best friend what is happening in your life and your relationship without details. . People adjust their watches in this way, they feel more normal about what they do, especially because in Bulgaria there is a strong shame of sexuality and many people still suffer from remorse, that they should almost hide that they love actively and passionately. . Many bedtime ideas can come from talking to a friend in which they discreetly hint, that they have tried a new place and actually liked it a lot (for example) or friends who just share that they are happy and satisfied in their relationship. No one needs the details of your bed performances, but sometimes it is very useful to exchange opinions or ideas with a close friend, to look at what is normal to do if you are inexperienced and to feel part of the team happy, satisfied and completely normal people who do natural and beautiful things with their halves. I don't think it's bad, and I think that some kind of hiding and secrecy only reinforces the feeling of shame and guilt, as if you have to hide like a criminal and make the stigma, which is high time to disappear, stronger. No one needs the details of your bed performances, but sometimes it is very useful to exchange opinions or ideas with a close friend, to look at what is normal to do if you are inexperienced and to feel part of the team happy, satisfied and completely normal people who do natural and beautiful things with their halves. I don't think it's bad, and I think that some kind of hiding and secrecy only reinforces the feeling of shame and guilt, as if you have to hide like a criminal and make the stigma, which is high time to disappear, stronger. No one needs the details of your bed performances, but sometimes it is very useful to exchange opinions or ideas with a close friend, to look at what is normal to do if you are inexperienced and to feel part of the team happy, satisfied and completely normal people who do natural and beautiful things with their halves. I don't think it's bad, and I think that some kind of hiding and secrecy only reinforces the feeling of shame and guilt, as if you have to hide like a criminal and make the stigma, which is high time to disappear, stronger.
what's wrong with that. some brag about their sexual happiness, others complain about their sexual problems and seek help from a friend for advice on how to try to fix things and be content and happy. in controversy and conversation the truth is born. after all, we are social beings and friends are opposite. people are different but everyone has the right to find a way to be happy, everyone has sex so I don't think it's a problem. you have to talk, you reach this site in silence, after all psychiatrists are expensive and not everyone can or wants to go to them .... forget the shame and share your problem, you can find a hundred solutions with someone's help ...
We are four friends, and we don't seem to share details. But now that I think about it, I know what she likes about each of them: about their infidelities, who is late for the cycle, who does anal, one even had a threesome, but without her husband, ... And we don't seem to share.
No way. Once a friend told me how you wanted hers every night, and she - no, but if he took her, she got excited and got to work ... I do not remember ever feeling more uncomfortable in my life ... I have no place under their covers and then I vowed to turn away directly or to cut off any attempt for such revelations ... Sexual outbursts should not be expected from me at all ... However, I tell myself everything and I want from my husband, I have no reservations with him ...
I have never had such girlfriends to share so many personal things. Maybe because I don't share either.
Well, that's why you're friends ... To share everything that excites you, everything that bothers you, everything that is a factor in your life ... Sex is an integral part of everyone's life and I think that there is nothing wrong with sharing and commenting in a circle of friends, I probably have at least a dozen friends with whom we discuss these things, give each other different advice about things that some have tried, others have yet to try for example and hey such things ... In general, there is nothing wrong with communication and sharing! M 22
Now that I think about it and an incident happened to my colleague, we were very close and she was telling me some pretty spicy things about her sex life, and she kept telling me to say something to her, but I never said anything to her. , once she came to work in a pretty tired way and after I asked her what was going on she told me that she had a stormy night with quite perverted games that she did not think to tell me but after a little questioning on my part she told me that they went out to a restaurant in the evening and when they got home she was terribly aroused, they had sex and at one time a lot and she peed and decided to pee while they were doing it,
Well, if you think it's something intimate for you, don't share it. And if you don't want to know the sexual details of your acquaintances' lives, don't hang out with them. It is not difficult. I, on the other hand, am of the opinion that everyone decides for themselves what to share and what not to do with close friends. And that's not the job of the others.
I am also a woman to share about my sex life. I have two girlfriends who are more liberated on this topic and I can talk to them in detail. With other girlfriends who don't like to talk about it in just one or two words, I say it's okay, it's not happening, it's going, it's not going. It just so happens to me that my girlfriends and I have a totally different taste for men and there is no way or almost no one will want to be with my husband.
General talk, yes, but nothing specific. Only once my closest friend shared that she and her husband have been having anal sex recently and it was super cool. Except I didn't faint! A 37-year-old woman who is just discovering anal sex ...!? She asks me if it's normal to want her from behind often. I pretended to be stuck that I hadn't tried yet. She felt proud to be ahead of me, and even gave me advice on how to do it. I could barely stand it!
As I will share, we are filthy to one. I will be absent on a business trip and they will push the deer if I advertise it to them. And without that, they look at her as tinsmiths, even though the old ones are low-cutters. Then we are all such liars that everything shared will be called into question except ridicule. Women, when you drink, you are more disheveled when you are in your circle of ladies - I have accidentally heard comments and I have blushed with shame - such things cannot come out of these mouths - mothers are still most of you!
Since when is anal sex an obligation? I'm 40 and I haven't done it, I won't do it.
I'm sorry I did. I shared something personal about an affair with a colleague in front of my best friend. She told it to her husband. He on his side to my husband. Now my children live with Mann without their father. Ah, I love my husband, it was just an affair with him and nothing more.
Up to 28 I'm sorry that they ruined you ... I would never, under any circumstances, share my antics with anyone ... The greatest distrust is precisely towards girlfriends - there is always envy between women, a fact! If I have something with a stranger, I will experience it secretly and to the max and no one will ever know! You lost your family, but not your girlfriend, you know! I wish you luck in the future!