Do You Hate Love?

   I will call you IT - because I don't know, are you a man or a woman? WHY you hope and wait for someone to look for you is stupid, if you have sympathy for someone, act, time is running out and you waste time, if you take the first step, you will be aware of yourself and you will know what position you are in. IT-I'm glad you have hope, but it alone is not enough. :) My advice is to do something.

   NO! God, no, no and no. Nobody hates love, nobody can hate it, but people hate what it brings us to. Hysteria, jealousy, crying, torment, thoughts, loss of self-confidence ... can lift you to the 7th heaven and bring you down with 1 blow 3 meters below the ground. We hate this, but no one is able to hate that captivating feeling when you see the object of the desire to smile at you and tell you what you need, to hug you, to kiss you, to help you in a difficult moment. Because this is love, and those bad things that accompany it are only the result of it, you know - you can't take without giving. Zu-Za

   Love ... Love, my girl, takes faith in everything. Otherwise what love it would be. As for whether it is mutual of the two ... Here is what the Bible says in 1 Corinthians 13: if I have the gift of prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have full faith, so that I may move mountains, but have no love, I am nothing.3 And if I give all my possessions to feed the poor, and if I betray the body 4 Love endures long and is merciful, love does not envy, love does not exalt itself, is not proud, 5 does not be rude, does not seek its own, is not irritated, does not care for evil, 6 rejoiceth not in unrighteousness, but rejoiceth with the truth: 7 All things keep silence, all things receive faith; he hopes for everything, he endures everything. 8 Love never fails; the other gifts, however, if they are prophecies, will cease; if they are tongues, they will cease; if it is knowledge, it will cease. 9 For we know in part, and we prophesy in part; 10 But when that which is perfect is come, that which is in part shall be done away. 11 When I was a child, as a child I spoke, as a child I felt, as a child I reasoned; since I became a man, I have left childhood. 12 For now we see things vaguely, as in a mirror: and then will we see them face to face; now I know in part, and then I will know fully, as I was fully known. 13 So these three remain: faith, hope, and charity; but the greatest of them is love. '/// 9 For we know in part, and we prophesy in part; 10 But when the perfect is come, that which is in part shall be done away. 11 When I was a child, as a child I spoke, as a child I felt, as a child I reasoned; since I became a man, I have left childhood. 12 For now we see things vaguely, as in a mirror: and then will we see them face to face; now I know in part, and then I will know fully, as I was fully known. 13 So these three remain: faith, hope, and charity; but the greatest of them is love. '/// 9 For we know in part, and we prophesy in part; 10 But when the perfect is come, that which is in part shall be done away. 11 When I was a child, as a child I spoke, as a child I felt, as a child I reasoned; since I became a man, I have left childhood. 12 For now we see things vaguely, as in a mirror: and then will we see them face to face; now I know in part, and then I will know fully, as I was fully known. 13 So these three remain: faith, hope, and charity; but the greatest of them is love. '/// and then I will know fully, as I was fully known. 13 So these three remain: faith, hope, and charity; but the greatest of them is love. '/// and then I will know fully, as I was fully known. 13 So these three remain: faith, hope, and charity; but the greatest of them is love. '///

   The weak hate love because they can't experience it, the bad / neutral either can't feel love or have forgotten how, and those who love each other are deceived that something so good happens to everyone in life they are always mostly equal to idiots who do not realize what true love is. I still did not understand the meaning of the topic. Death_Blade ^

   I just don't understand how you can hate the feeling of "love"? If you love someone, you will ALWAYS FIND TIME FOR HIM! I worked in two places at the same time and I still found time for her ... NoBody

   Good message! Well done!

   No, I love love! ...;) And I think that we really fall in love only once, and the other times, compared to the real one, there are only one half glare, which cannot be compared to the real one. But no one wants to be alone, so we allow ourselves to fall in love again! ... I see no reason to hate anything. Don't you wonder why we come across those who are ready to break our hearts more often? Isn't that what you're wondering, or are you experiencing what life has brought you there, and then the same thing again, eh? As if you don't see that this is a "rotten" everyday life, a linear repetition !!! Someone to break someone else's heart, but not only yesterday, or today, but tomorrow and other days ... This happens all the time :)) Eee .. up to one age, for example approximately to 25-30, everyone has experienced at least a few disappointments and heartbreaks! I can describe it in one word - disgusting: D Why so? Why do people get hurt, why don't they give themselves opportunities, why do they "destroy" their hearts !!! Look, I know it's pointless to write it, because whatever is written, on other days, it will be over and no one will remember it, that's a pathetic reality :)) Is it because he doesn't like it or he doesn't like it more the taste, yamiiii ... But that's life! Well, ... anyone who hurts does so to avoid getting hurt! ... Why? Well, he was hurt, by someone else, who was also hurt, and here's the "stupid" belief of mutually hurting people, who themselves don't know why they hurt, they do it - because they can, and because they're afraid, from what, strange? !! ... Hmmm ... it's pure self-suggestion, and sometimes the other one wants to take control of us! And make us dependent on his whims and desires. To test our love, patience and feelings. And what does he do? He behaves colder and more reserved, no matter that there is no reason for that. And then, we wonder who and what is to blame for our relationships falling apart, but we are to blame. It is the doubt that is to blame, the fear that the other will hurt you even before there is and why! ... It's funny that the fear in people turns out to be greater than their love! For me this is a tragedy, people have forgotten what love is! Ehh, let's just say I've hurt someone before, so what? What? :) Will you live with the past, and will you compare every new lover with your past! Think and stop the nonsense! Why later, when you lose the person who loves you, you will regret it, but it will be too late! ... Why don't we ever realize what we have, what is the other for us? Why only when we ruin everything and lose it, do we understand what it was for us? It's so stupid! ... :)) And everyone next, makes the same mistake, until when was it like that, until when? ... This is an insult, not only to love itself, but also to yourself! Hah, you are going against your own happiness because you are afraid to believe that you can be happy and that everything can be fine without pain! .... Love is not insignificant, but it is the most wonderful thing that can happen to us :) Love changes the boundaries of our world! It gives it a new shape, makes us stronger. But we are used to pain and alienation, and we push ourselves between the slaps :)) We are really masochists !!! We are creating problems for ourselves! ... We make it difficult which can be good and right for us. We interfere. The real question is ... don't you hate love, do you hate yourself That you are ready to fail a possible relationship, or a realized love, just because of your own insecure thoughts. Which is more important to you? You feel ... Have confidence in your heart :) ~ winterfire ~

   Love, they say, is like trade. The woman is the one who attracts. But very often love looks on the sidelines like "handing out a promotional newspaper and a free hot pretzel."

   To 8- TRUE love would never be compared to anything that people are or will ever be able to do. It is said for a reason that true love is the strongest energy in the world, and it is because it is the purest, the finest, the most delicate and the most concentrated. Love has saved and sustained millions of lives over the years on this planet, it is the light at the end of the tunnel, it is the meaning of living. True love has no equal. Death_Blade ^

   by the author: Thank you all for the comments and interest in my question, I believe that everyone will find something useful in each statement. Thank you again!!! m 27g

   As Catholics say: "Let me not seek consolation, but to comfort, not to seek understanding, but to understand, not to seek love, but to love, because when we give, we receive ...."

   Children naively believe in Santa Claus and that makes them happy. When they grow up, they realize that Santa Claus does not exist and at some point they begin to believe in love. In the beginning, some signs and hopes appear here and there that love exists, but with age it becomes increasingly clear that it is also an imaginary concept. I personally have never met her. I'm over 30. And maybe I won't meet her. But I must admit, I may continue to secretly dream about this feeling. Like a naive child waiting for Santa to show up from somewhere and give him the dream of his dreams. But even if the gift comes, that white-bearded old man will still remain only in our imagination. And yet this thought, as naive as it is, is what sustains me. I fell in love naturally, several times. I know the feeling. As they fell in love with me. But there was never a coincidence of feelings. That coincidence we call love. And how to match when we are so many people and so diverse. Purely mathematically, even the probability of meeting the person who suits us and we are both in love with each other is minimal. Not to say insignificant. Just think how many times a person truly falls in love. I'm really talking about falling in love, not just sympathy. For 10-15 years maybe about 2-3, 5-6 or 10 times maximum. Now think about how many women (men) you have met all these years. Maybe 100 times more or much more. Each of these hundreds of people has also fallen in love only a few times. So what is the probability that you are the chosen one and you are in love with the same person? I don't like mathematical calculations, but it's easy to see, that is very unlikely. Of course, it is not impossible, just as it is not impossible to win 6 from the lottery. But how many people do it happen to? Those who have had this chance to meet their soul mate can truly be called lucky. The rest of us are just mass ordinary beings. And despite this negative analysis of mine, I wish success to all :-))

   From the author: To number 13 unique statement thank you for sharing !!! I hope you are among this minimum number of lucky people, like any other person, good luck !!!

   I hope you think! (Up to number 13) Hah, it's not surprising that you have such views :) You're a woman over 30, obviously experienced a lot of disappointments! ... Let me tell you a little about the probabilities :)) Mathematics is an exact science, but it is cold, and it will never be able to distinguish the difference between a human feeling and a bare number, which is equal to the next in essence and lack of anything. is from except its own number. Why are you interfering with Santa? What does a child's dream have to do with love? Apart from the fact that both are related to happiness, I see no other similarity! ... This for Santa Claus will bring short-term happiness, one day, to the children. And love, there happiness is difficult to determine how much it will be, and for how long. Because a day in love can be like a week. Love, unlike fantasies, has a special property, to change the time and its duration for lovers. Why don't any of you think of a much more correct probability? It's as if someone who doesn't like love is looking for an answer to prove its absence :)) And some of you haven't thought about the probability of life! ... Hmmm ... What is the probability of creating life from completely dead matter. Huh? Why do I ask this? Now he will understand !!! The probability is a number with 40,000 zeros after it. And what will you say now;) With such a small probability, we should not exist at all, but here we are! We are alive around us, there is life in the world! Come on, what does that tell you? !! ... Love was unlikely, but the existence of life is even less likely. And yet there is life, nothing that the foolish probability tells us is practically impossible to exist. It is the same with love. There is love! But you, who deny it, judge it from your life and your luck, and this is so subjective that it is inapplicable to everyone else;) And what is meant by the probabilities that we humans do not know much more about the world and life to we make global conclusions based on some numbers! ... There are factors in the world that we humans are not yet mature enough to understand. And that's why things are possible and there are them, although we don't like to have them :)) And to the author - I didn't see anything unique! It seems so to you, because now you like to "hate" love, and to calm down with the fact that it is not there, and you have been deceived! ... I am beginning to believe in a statistic that we Bulgarians are the most negative nation! Isn't that so? We are able to hate anything and everything. Yesterday, we will be negative about our lives, today we will be negative about love, and tomorrow, who knows who knows what? !! ... You complicate your own life! ... Well, unlike you, I will continue to be positive :) ~ winterfire ~

   Love is the feeling that makes you fly .. Love is a particle of hope, hidden deep in every person and sooner or later this feeling, this particle becomes the leading force in our lives .. With just one look at the beloved, with just one touch we transfer to a completely different world, a world of dreams and wishes come true, a world of unity and peace .. And for me love is the leading force in life and I would not hate it at this stage, but for everything there is a first experience and a series of disappointments. !! Mary

   When a person finds love, he cannot appreciate it and loses it, because he compensates for the imperfection in himself in love and remains unhappy or unhappy, because there is no perfect person and Love is built with time.

   There are people who don't know what love is until the moment when you understand what it's like to die of pain, not to expect a lot of people next to you, just one "I love you" or "I miss you" are enough to prove your feelings ... !! It is a pity that only greedy and insensitive people remain in this world, it is a pity ... !!!!

   I am a man and I hate love because it has caused me the greatest pain in my life. What's even worse is that she wasn't shared, but killed by the envy of other people.