Not only does it turn me on, it's not just her that gets me involved. Whether it's from the fact that our relationship has long grown purely sexual or something like a conditional reflex, because I've had sex with another woman since 2002, I don't know, but in the interest of all women, it attracts me the most, although it's not perfect, it's even slightly plump, but even that's what I like about it. Sometimes I watch, I watch the chicks with short skirts on the streets, well, yes, they have perfect bodies some, but somehow they're not like my wife with her casualness and radiance. I can't experience what's with my wife. She has been with me for better and worse, we have shared our lives, as they say, we have lived so many things together and good and bad, we have made mistakes, we have forgiven ourselves, we have been in crises, we have overcome them, others have wanted to divide us, we have held on to each other and we have not succumbed to manipulation. Not that anything, but no one else's thing can feel it. Her vagina is the sweetest, her breasts are my most beautiful, her imperfections are my most sympathetic. Already even the line between our personalities has blurred, and I do not even feel it as a separate individual, but as a whole with me. But I'm also aware that we're some kind of exception, probably.
But we met at 20 and I think that matters. Now they're married at 30-40. These are already built characters and no one wants to compromise on their lifestyle. Everyone approaches with skepticism so they don't get burned. That gets in the way, because neither you can relax, nor does the person across the street feel that he is being trusted. Everyone wants to "live" up to 30-40 and then get married, but then it's too late and it gets harder. You have to be a little stupid and lie to get married. Then it fits and things work if there's a wish. But after a certain age, a person becomes too built, too pretentious, too early to consider what he will give, what he will get, whether it is worth it, so nothing happens, no trust is built, only doubts and accounts. But if a man is stupid, don't think about what he's going to give. Yes, he will give a lot and probably will not get it for many more years, but he will not even think about it, and at some point after all these years, when you have eaten a bag of salt together, you realize that this person was there for you and for good, and in evil, that you know your teeth and you are the closest people and you can have 100% trust. It's worth everything you've given, it can't be measured by money or sacrifice. But today's people wouldn't, for the most part, make that compromise, they would split up at each other's first mistake, or if they no longer get what they give or understand that the relationship isn't just ahu-ihu and you need a butt sometimes.
I'm sorry, I got a little carried away, but I wanted to write it.
It's called, "You're not just for one woman" - you're erratic, which in the long run will get in the way.
Something's wrong with you on a mental basis, and maybe you haven't lived around yet.
There are two types of men. Those who sleep with one wheat and stay with her and you pass a table. Those who pass a table of women stay like this. I mean, you're a whore and you don't value your girlfriend. I'm not judging you, I'm saying how things are based on the information.
I'm gay, and I'm doing it with whoever's a man according to my preference. Alas to the faggots and tee as the example above.
No 1
You're no exception.
Intimate life has nothing to do with so-called sex.
Intimacy is just that, cuddling with your loved one, even though you've raised your tone or waited for the kids to go somewhere and free up the terrain.
It's wonderful to have intimacy in the family.
She's 35, I'm 30, we've been together for over 13 years, we've got a child. It turns me on, but she doesn't have much desire. I guess I didn't. :)
When I saw the subject, I thought of an acquaintance. That's how he talked about his wife. I've been together for two or three years. She was tired of it, she already knew, every part of her body, and she was used to it. It turned out she had some pretty severe problems with relationships and intimacy.
I'm a woman, but I'il tell you how it is with me. Of course, when you're with someone for more time, no matter how nice and well-crafted, you get used to it. But when you like it visually, you don't get sick. Yes, the thrill of the new and the unknown is no longer the same, you have learned your bodies, you know your style. But good is good, and at least it can't be indifferent to me. And here comes the character. Like you said #1 when you love the man, you've been with him for years, you've been with him for years, you've got it right, you just enjoy it and want to go to bed at night with him.
So, in your situation, author, I wasn't. I think your problem comes from something else. You don't like to get attached, you don't relax in a relationship, and you can't bring the woman against you as a person with your own feelings and character. Look for the reason.
Bravo number one. I totally agree with you. If he didn't scavenge, I'd write pretty much the same thing. I wish all single men to meet such a woman that they would not replace for the greatest beauty.
I don't understand you as a woman. I don't see how it stops sexually attracting you. For example, I find sexy Tedi Alexandrova, Giuliana Ghani, Angelina Atanasova, Kristin Kamenova. These are all sex bombs. If your wife is like that, how on earth are you not going to want her all the time? That's mega weird. The first thing you're going to die on your own, because you're not going to have a family, the second time you're 50 or 60, you're going to be old and the hot chicks won't want you, and if you're not rich to pay them, then you're only going to have sex with a granny.
It's just that when I read the comment at number one and i gave up writing anything. I'm amazed!!
Number one, warm my soul. Your wife is lucky.
I mean, you don't really love them when you get bored so fast.
Number one, I'm also very attached to my wife, for years no one else has impressed me. We have our own banter, our own peculiarities, which are only ours. We have healthy, smart kids. These things connect a lot. No co-workers - they make out, by the way, most old maids are in the office) no face-to-face can interest me. My wife enjoys it, the most.
Bravo to No 1. He found his man. That's the kind of life I wish everyone.
Mine and I have been together for 10 years, she was 20, I was 27 when we met. Ever since I see her naked, something flickers in me, it excites me tremendously even now that I'm imagining it. I like to kiss her everywhere, her gently and rudely, in all possible places.....
What can I tell you, it's all about the man. Some can drive with one partner, some can't. Instead of lying to a woman, you'd better find someone to have an open relationship with, but to support and respect each other in life.
It's nice to find two people in their 20s, get married and stay together all their lives, but it's not a norm and it can't work out with absolutely all people.
Oh yes after 10 years of relationship still and much more.
M 30
I'm 30 years old, and I haven't found one that was unearthly or loved so much. Even in recent years, women began to disgust me, not sexually, but as people - constant lies, cheating, nonsense and shallowness. Sometimes I hardly sleep with them, I'm so tired of their. At one time I didn't want to have a wife at all, I was just paying for sex with prostitutes, and it was fine. However, I fell in love again and still saw that nothing had changed - I still despise them and loathe them as people.
Yes, I'm a misogynist.
yes, me as number 19, too. It's hard for me to trust a woman now just intrigues, complaints, games, secrets and. I know she loves me, but she's 10 years older than me.
To No 9!
Julianna Ghani finds her sexy. and if she's like her, then I have to wish her all the time???? !!!
This guy is disgusting to me. that's what you are bg women... you watch junk on TV and copy them.... you emulate.... how much pain there is in this world, God...
I'm a woman, but I'm going to speak uninvited. I've been in a relationship with a man for a few years. We've been through all kinds of shit together, we've gone through terrible scandals, we've yelled at each other, we've made past mistakes, then we go to bed. Even a month ago, I left, but on the third day I just realized that I can't do it without him, he can't do it without me either. I look at other men naturally, naturally, but that's normal if that's all. Once I just switched on another, I didn't make excuses, but we were in a bad period, it was only for a week and to this day I blame myself. He knows, forgive me. I've forgiven him a lot of things, too. I don't want to be able to replace him with another man. It only took me a few days to sleep without him to realize that it was just like some part of me was gone. As soon as I saw it, I just didn't hold back my tears, I said to myself, "Are you moronic to look at another man at all, someone who will use you for a while, doesn't know you, doesn't appreciate you like your man! ". As number one says, when you've eaten a bag of salt together, you look differently at things.
Simple, concise and clear, I say it as a man who has been in a monogamous relationship with his wife for 10 years - YES! She's beautiful, intelligent and responsible. On the basics, the type of religious views, attitude to family and work, we are alike, and on everything else - politics, music, views - we differ. I didn't target him, nor was it my credit, but maybe I was lucky. I don't deny it. I haven't cheated on her once before, and it seems like she's on me, too.
I'm not the kind of person who's going to go philosophize at a low time, that sex isn't the most important thing, but rather spiritual closeness, respect and trust. How not to be important when it's important. And appearance is important. And intellect is important. To tell you the truth - everything is 100% important, and whichever component limp - limps and the connection in general.
Again - yes, and sexually arouses me enough that I do not look too far away
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