Do Unattractive People Have A Real Judgment Of Themselves?

   So, according to the author, the beautiful should be crossed only with the beautiful, which automatically means that no other qualities matter except the genetic lottery. Author, I don't know where you got this self-confidence from and whether you are beautiful or not, but in 10-15 years, whether you like it or not, you will be in the league of the ugly. Then you may realize how superficial you are ... even offending the attention you receive from people who are not lucky with genes.

   Um, so many strangers talk to you .. Either you're schizophrenic or you look really "accessible" I guess the latter. Change the way you dress and stop staring at people, if you don't have eye contact with them, you don't give them a chance / reason to talk to you. I understand your complaint and I'm annoyed to be spoken to by strangers (and I'm half a year old), but still, the one with the "leagues" forgot it, it's just ugly.

   I think you're uglier than you think when so many "orcs" talk to you. If I were you, I would make sure I looked in the mirror twice before determining what I had. And now on your surface topic. First, every man is beautiful in one way or another, for you it may not be, but for someone else it is. As a simpler and uglier man, I fall for ugly women. Some without make-up, without wide necklines, without heels in the park, without a phone in hand when I go out somewhere, it is true that there is a moment that how will they know where I was if you don't hit a picture and tag yourself is not I am who I am. And then I will return to my shell and continue my miserable existence. Your ego is very inflated with these social networks and the mediocre appearance of perhydrol chalga singers and inflated village thugs. That you are already angry when they talk to you, and you only have a mediocre appearance and a used crotch. There is little of a double standard here. If he is a sympathizer by media standards, he is counted, if he is ugly, he is defined as sexual harassment and I will immediately complain in the anonymous forum. With this behavior, society has become a masquerade. Everyone incarnates to someone who is not just to get social approval and a little attention. Tighten it up and get down on the ground and be glad that they pay attention to you, that tomorrow when you hang up you will shout at yourself and the bums don't want money from me. Let me complain too. Lately I have noticed that women have low morale, the other day I took the 15-year-old car of a friend, a really big and shiny and famous brand, but it is still included in the ranking of a cultural monument. So I take the car and go straight to Student City, I'm still a bartender. I enter the first restaurant, but I leave the car in front of the entrance and lock it and go around at least 10 times, not for one thing because I don't know how concluded, another thing is that you have to see who is with this car. I sit with my legs wide apart so that it occupies the whole booth and a little of the next one and order a little one. I see a babe from afar start looking at me, I hit a contemptuous smile, called the waitress and told her to invite the lady to my table. So the lady came, I was already in the role of starting to make animal sounds, which I have been filling since childhood, playing with the sheep in the village. The lady was very impressed, I drank a cocktail for her, so because I don't have any more money, the monument and fuel have to be poured on him, I paid a bill of 20 and took the lady with me for a ride. We go up and the first thing that is done is to release chalga, so there is no bigger pheromone than chalga. The babe played, I started to press the gas pedal so that it got a little wet and I got wet, but that's another topic. From there directly in us to change clothes as I promised then to go to a disco is it is clear why we go to us, as well as to examine my sheets and pretended to call me on business and urgently have to go, though the artifact in front of the block is not bought with smiles and good behavior, I called her a taxi and who is from where. I can't understand whether these ladies have morals or my limits are too low. Not that I don't know what kind of product I am, but still. Then we get mad at each other. We go up and the first thing that is done is to release chalga, so there is no bigger pheromone than chalga. The babe played, I started to press the gas pedal so that it got a little wet, and I got wet, but that's another topic. From there directly in us to change clothes as I promised then to go to a disco is it is clear why we go to us, as well as to examine my sheets and pretended to call me on business and urgently have to go, though the artifact in front of the block is not bought with smiles and good behavior, I called her a taxi and who is from where. I can't understand if these ladies have morals or if my limits are too low. Not that I don't know what kind of product I am, but still. Then we get mad at each other. We go up and the first thing that is done is to release chalga, so there is no bigger pheromone than chalga. The babe played, I started to press the gas pedal so that it got a little wet and I got wet, but that's another topic. From there directly in us to change clothes as I promised then to go to a disco is it is clear why we go to us, as well as to examine my sheets and pretended to call me on business and urgently have to go, though the artifact in front of the block is not bought with smiles and good behavior, I called her a taxi and who is from where. I can't understand whether these ladies have morals or my limits are too low. Not that I don't know what kind of product I am, but still. Then we get mad at each other. I start to press the gas pedal so that it gets a little wet, and I got wet, but that's another topic. From there directly in us to change clothes as I promised then to go to a disco is it is clear why we go to us, as well as to examine my sheets and pretended to call me on business and urgently have to go, though the artifact in front of the block is not bought with smiles and good behavior, I called her a taxi and who is from where. I can't understand whether these ladies have morals or my limits are too low. Not that I don't know what kind of product I am, but still. Then we get mad at each other. I start to press the gas pedal so that it gets a little wet, and I got wet, but that's another topic. From there directly in us to change clothes as I promised then to go to a disco is it is clear why we go to us, as well as to examine my sheets and pretended to call me on business and urgently have to go, though the artifact in front of the block is not bought with smiles and good behavior, I called her a taxi and who is from where. I can't understand if these ladies have morals or if my limits are too low. Not that I don't know what kind of product I am, but still. Then we get mad at each other. after all, the artifact in front of the block is not bought with smiles and good behavior, I called her a taxi and who is from where. I can't understand if these ladies have morals or if my limits are too low. Not that I don't know what kind of product I am, but still. Then we get mad at each other. after all, the artifact in front of the block is not bought with smiles and good behavior, I called her a taxi and who is from where. I can't understand if these ladies have morals or if my limits are too low. Not that I don't know what kind of product I am, but still. Then we get mad at each other.

   Women have no idea about leagues at all. Everyone thinks she's a princess and deserves attention only from princes. If only everyone next could be better and so on to a millionaire. Are enough nonsense. Don't be rude to people and refuse politely.

   I'm not the author, but I understand her to some extent. Naturally, the pseudo-moralists immediately began to spit, even if they poured out their malice, because the women did not let them, etc. Here I want to say two or three things: 1. Do not pretend to be stupid and "superficial". There is no way to convince me that your eyes do not run out when you see a beautiful woman or an attractive man. That it probably won't shine on you is a whole other topic. Let's not lie that appearance is unimportant. Love in people does not only work on spiritual attraction, although without it it is impossible. I'm sorry if anyone hasn't figured it out by now. :( There is no need for high-sounding speeches, the site is anonymous and fake roles are unnecessary. That's why half of the topics here are completely chikidzhiyski and bukani with vulgar comments. In "real life" rarely anyone dares to say so, because he is immediately pointed at by the bearers of morality and the defenders of deep moral values, who simply do not have the balls to admit what is really going on between their ears. Lower hypocrites and mice, nothing more. 2. In addition to the first - if I read correctly, they talk to her with "You are very beautiful, can we meet?", And not with "You look very intelligent and smart, do you want to talk about Russian classics?". Who was superficial that I didn't understand something? Come on, tell me, how many times have you talked to people you find ugly in order to "cross"? I'm interested. 3. Without being beautiful at all, even beautiful, all sorts of men (a few lesbians too) have dared to talk to me. Winter -15, wrapped around her ears in a winter coat and scarf, definitely a woman looks super affordable and easy. I do not even include gypsies, vagrants and various drug addicts, who regularly shout after everything on two legs. The woman has clearly stated that she does not claim to be a model ... What high self-confidence drives you is not clear to me? I'm also terribly annoyed by unsolicited attention. The worst thing is that when you politely refuse, you immediately become "fuck the stupid whore, bro!" And what not. I don't know in what world the commentators above live, but it has little to do with the real one. Bless you. And no, that's not a bad thing at all. It's called criteria, preferences, standards, whatever you want ... I don't know how many are already covered, but we all have them. What high self-esteem drives you is not clear to me? I am also terribly annoyed by unsolicited attention. The worst thing is that when you politely refuse, you immediately become "fuck the stupid whore, bro!" And what not. I don't know in what world the commentators above live, but it has little to do with the real one. Bless you. And no, that's not a bad thing at all. It's called criteria, preferences, standards, whatever you want ... I don't know how many are already covered, but we all have them. What high self-esteem drives you is not clear to me? I am also terribly annoyed by unsolicited attention. The worst thing is that when you politely refuse, you immediately become "fuck the stupid whore, bro!" And what not. I don't know in what world the commentators above live, but it has little to do with the real one. Bless you. And no, that's not a bad thing at all. It's called criteria, preferences, standards, whatever you want ... I don't know how many are already covered, but we all have them.

   Number 1, no matter how ugly I become, I will never be with someone I don't like for one reason or another (it doesn't matter appearance or character), so in 200 years my opinion will be the same, because it's always been that way. . If you have a desperate need for attention and accept attacks from everyone, then this is another topic. Number 2, he didn't know. I neither look easy nor have schizophrenia. I dress in loose, comfortable clothes, and "candidates" are found once a month or two, it's not scary. I don't understand why you think you have to dress up as a prostitute to be tricked. You sound like those guys who tell women they're "looking for it." This mentality is typical of some primitives in the East, think about it ... Otherwise I really look at the people around. I recently realized and stopped doing it. I'm not staring. Number 3, somewhere after the tenth row I couldn't stand it. There is a term for such men - incel. Look for it, you can learn something. by the author

   Male of 40 This "confession" is one of the most horrible I've read here. I beg the moderators to publish my opinion, because I think that the lady needs to read it. To perceive yourself as a "major league" based only on appearance (and on anything else) and from this point of view to judge others, who has the right to talk to you and pay attention to you, and who does not, is the absolute "lower league" as you look at it. He doesn't even qualify for the neighborhood team. Dear author, you obviously look pretty good when some men talk to you after all. Obviously, however, you have only that - appearance. The top floor is a complete wasteland. Even if you're a Miss World graduate from Harvard, Cambridge and the Sorbonne with honors, the winds of winter blow in your head. As a man, I'll tell you something, which you yourself will begin to realize painfully in just a few years. The older you get, the fewer men will pay any attention to you ... not just "orcs", but all sorts of ... even "your serious friend". After 35 you fall into the "third league" and you will start to wonder how no one talks to you like that anymore. And wrinkle creams won't last long, believe me. This will solve your problem naturally. The more "higher" division you think you are, the more painful the landing that nature will arrange for you will be. So, hold on, the solution to your problem is near. Do not give up! After 35 you fall into the "third league" and you will start to wonder how no one talks to you like that anymore. And wrinkle creams won't last long, believe me. This will solve your problem naturally. The more "higher" division you think you are, the more painful the landing that nature will arrange for you will be. So, hold on, the solution to your problem is near. Do not give up! After 35 you fall into the "third league" and you will start to wonder how no one talks to you like that anymore. And wrinkle creams won't last long, believe me. This will solve your problem naturally. The "higher" division you think you are, the more painful the landing that nature will arrange for you will be. So, hold on, the solution to your problem is near. Do not give up!

   I don't know what you're attacking her for. I agree that many people have no real idea of ​​themselves. Here is an elementary example - the castings for singers who give them on TV. I guess most have taken at least one look. There are surprisingly many people who are convinced that they can sing, but they are, to put it mildly, terrible singers. As for the dumps - given that you drop directly on our street in a wedge or in a sleeve, it is really assumed that you have to be more or less from the woman's rug purely visually, because she does not know you and has no idea about you other than the vision. you. If you already know each other and have things in common such as acquaintances, work, hobbies, etc. is another matter. Then you may be ugly, but still take off some cool chick. But then the vision is not so decisive to such an extent, because you can rely on other qualities that a woman would appreciate.

   Heheh, darling. How many trees do you have to eat, if you know ... Remember one thing: the way you treat and perceive people, don't expect anything better from them ... Number 7 is absolutely right. I know one like you, who is currently full of unfulfilled expectations from life. At 28 with a serious friend? At 28, my mother was already looking after two children, and I already went to school ... It's good that she didn't write that you were a "girl".

   I don't know how you look (I can't see you from here), but on the inside you're just ... a frog! Such a woman has no chance with a decent and valuable man, be he beautiful or ugly. If it wasn't a pity it would be funny.

   Hi, I'm 25 and I'm considered a handsome man. I am based on how women react and react when they see me. I have often received compliments. One thing, however, I have noticed that not so beautiful women are much more decisive in their actions towards me. They always talk to me, they offered me sex directly in plain text and in general there is no hidden cover with them if they like me. In beautiful women, however, there is always the moment of, I am a princess and you will treat me as such. He may like me, but it is almost impossible to tell what is left to talk about. I explain to myself that the ugly ones haven't had sex in a long time and are really determined to get it, they don't choose that much and they don't think about how they look in the eyes of others. I guess it's the same with men. Many times I have refused women, I have refused a threesome, because they really didn't attract me. Married and divorced women wanted sex with me and literally prayed to me, but I don't care if I'm attracted. Another separate issue is that they had men behind them. In your case it may be the same. Maybe people are just on the lookout and really put the way they look in the background. They trust that with their direct approach they will succeed. On the other hand, however, you also contradict yourself that if they were beautiful, it would still make an impression on you, which does not give you many advantages on my part. I'm flattered when someone takes an interest in me, and to see that the girl is uglier, but I'm always delicate. I can't tell her - look, you're not getting fat and you're not attracting me at all. Another separate issue is that they had men behind them. In your case it may be the same. Maybe people are just on the lookout and really put the way they look in the background. They trust that with their direct approach they will succeed. On the other hand, however, you also contradict yourself that if they were beautiful, it would still make an impression on you, which does not give you many advantages on my part. I'm flattered when someone takes an interest in me, and to see that the girl is uglier, but I'm always delicate. I can't tell her - look, you're not getting fat and you're not attracting me at all. Another separate issue is that they had men behind them. In your case it may be the same. Maybe people are just on the lookout and really put the way they look in the background. They trust that with their direct approach they will succeed. On the other hand, however, you also contradict yourself that if they were beautiful, it would still make an impression on you, which does not give you many advantages on my part. I'm flattered when someone takes an interest in me, and to see that the girl is uglier, but I'm always delicate. I can't tell her - look, you're not getting fat and you're not attracting me at all. that if they were beautiful, it would still make an impression on you, which doesn't give you many advantages on my part. I'm flattered when someone takes an interest in me, and to see that the girl is uglier, but I'm always delicate. I can't tell her - look, you're not getting fat and you're not attracting me at all. that if they were beautiful, it would still make an impression on you, which doesn't give you many advantages on my part. I'm flattered when someone takes an interest in me, and to see that the girl is uglier, but I'm always delicate. I can't tell her - look, you're not getting fat and you're not attracting me at all.

   Woman, I just have a solution to your problem - tell your boyfriend to take you by car everywhere. After all, he is your knight and will protect you from the nasty orcs. I am sure that you will raise his self-confidence a lot!

   I'm H2. To the author. I did not say anywhere that you dress like a prostitute, I said that you are accessible. These are your words, not mine! What you attack people who want to help you, she didn't even understand. You look affordable, I'm 1000 percent convinced, and I'll tell you why ... well, you don't have confidence. This is your problem .. If you want to believe me, deny it, but to know this is your problem. That's why every second ugly person tries with you. Good day.

   Sometimes I wonder if reading comprehension is taught well enough in school. It is clearly stated that I am not beautiful, I have never been, and I am even less likely to be. I just support myself and I'm quite decent, nothing more. I don't know who you're trying to scare and bring down with these threats, what am I going to do when I'm 35? Well, very clear! There have always been hundreds of thousands of younger, more beautiful and more intelligent women than me. I see them every day, I realize every day. Yes, and? Any change? TC. As someone said above - criteria, preferences, standards. If some of the writers here don't have them - OK, your choice. For me, they remain as they always have been. On top of that, it's all about dumping based solely on appearance, none of these men have touched / been interested in my mental baggage, my values, from what kind of person I am. They decided I was catching their eye somehow and come on. Well, no, thanks, I'm disgusted. And dirty clothes, and greasy hair, and lustful pig eyes, and nasty methods of taking off. It smells a little to me that some were cut by the opposite sex when they decided to give it a try, and now they can't hold back the desperately vicious teachings. I sympathize with you, it has happened to me too. Number 8 gave good examples. It is not right to aim where you do not care. Just like I don't do it, I don't want others to do it. A little idealistic, I know. If you know each other and have some basic relationships - yes. Personally, I have fallen for a rather unassuming boy, but with murderous humor, intellect and charisma. We all died for him, great guy! As a young woman, I was quite uncomfortable in such situations, I wondered how to be as kind as possible, etc. , but in recent years, it gives me great pleasure to put various impudence without tact, self-assessment and education in their place. I say everything that comes to my mind without considering it, I feel uncomfortable with myself, but not for long. You have to see their confused faces and shattered self-esteem. Hear the swearing and pathetic attempts to get out of the awkward situation. Seeing how many vicious reactions nothing and no subject provokes among complete strangers, I have obviously directed myself quite correctly. Thank you for the confirmation! I guarantee that at 75 I will be the same, hopefully we will live to report hahahah. :) PS Number 11: Yes, that's exactly the conclusion I came to. Men (even more ordinary) have shared the same with me. Very low and low behavior, and in case of refusal, it starts with insulting insane statements. What I meant above is, that if a nice man approaches like a normal person, it will be much more pleasant to me, because it has almost never happened to me, and, frankly, I will be surprised, because I am not used to it. Masters also call me, I don't think I should be / pretend to be flattered. That's why I'm fed up with betrayal and I'm telling myself the truth.

   They know very well what they look like and are hellishly vicious. Particularly complex rejected men. Just look at the comments. It turns out that if you are a woman, you must walk covered in a spacesuit and bow three times to the ground of each complex tramp. There was a topic in which a boy complained about his small size of the genitals. Well, guess what, they didn't compose a picture just to justify their miniature genitals and complexes. They are hellishly angry, they are hellishly impudent and vicious. And especially old uncles are the most impudent and vicious when you lose them. They did not realize that no matter how much they spat, their fantasies would not come true. 5 He also said it as it is.

   Somewhere I understand you, I as a man am reserved from talking, not because people are ugly but usually because they talk to me about 2 reasons cigarettes and money. But the problem of the men in question they are talking about is not in appearance, but in social calibration. The ability to be able to react correctly in a given situation, to a given behavior and signals and to know how to adjust. Do not be annoyed in the end we know that we are initiators of dating, and women you are more reserved and there is nothing wrong with a man to try, take it as a compliment simply. In terms of appearance, I do not perceive myself as attractive by today's standards, but this should not stop me from looking for what I want, be it sex or serious intercourse is irrelevant. Communication is a very powerful thing, but for the purpose of calibrating you need practice, the same as riding a bike. It's no secret that women love with their ears. Friendly advice, the way you speak from the sides seems to parade in appearance and humiliate people with not so good genetics and, accordingly, cause anger and attacks in us men, which is normal. And instead of benefiting from what has been written, it has become another topic in which attacks and insults are made between the two sexes. We know that we can't do without you, but you also know that you can't do without us, no matter how ugly or beautiful, so I don't know what we share. It would be interesting and pleasant for me to share with you what attracts you to a man besides appearance, as well as not only you but everyone else. At least when we talk to you we know how to behave. the way you speak from the sides seems to flaunt your appearance and humiliate people with not so good genetics and accordingly cause anger and attacks in us men, which is normal. And instead of benefiting from what has been written, it has become another topic in which attacks and insults are made between the two sexes. We know that we can't do without you, but you also know that you can't do without us, no matter how ugly or beautiful, so I don't know what we share. It would be interesting and pleasant for me to share with you what attracts you to a man besides appearance, as well as not only you but everyone else. At least when we talk to you we know how to behave. the way you speak from the sides seems to parade in appearance and demean people with not so good genetics and accordingly cause anger and attacks in us men, which is normal. And instead of benefiting from what has been written, it has become another topic in which attacks and insults are made between the two sexes. We know that we can't do without you, but you also know that you can't do without us, no matter how ugly or beautiful, so I don't know what we share. It would be interesting and pleasant for me to share with you what attracts you to a man besides appearance, as well as not only you but everyone else. At least when we talk to you we know how to behave. has become another topic in which attacks and insults are made between the two sexes. We know that we can't do without you, but you also know that you can't do without us, no matter how ugly or beautiful, so I don't know what we share. It would be interesting and pleasant for me to share with you what attracts you to a man besides appearance, as well as not only you but everyone else. At least when we talk to you we know how to behave. has become another topic in which attacks and insults are made between the two sexes. We know that we can't do without you, but you also know that you can't do without us, no matter how ugly or beautiful, so I don't know what we share. It would be interesting and pleasant for me to share with you what attracts you to a man besides appearance, as well as not only you but everyone else. At least when we talk to you we know how to behave.

   Based on everything the author has written, I came to the following conclusions: 1. She does not complain about the attention she receives, like any woman, but complains that she receives attention, not from handsome men in her category / league and above, and from the common people - orcs, elves, ogres, etc., who in her opinion are not "worthy" of her beauty and commit a crime, daring to speak to her, Her Beauty. 2. In the very title of the topic he says that the common people must know their place and clearly states that he divides people: "obviously ugly people have no idea how life works". Author, I would not be surprised if you are also a racist / nationalist / supporter of other types of discrimination, based on characteristics. not under the control of the respective individual (s). 3. The author contradicts herself - according to her, she is beautiful, at least to some extent, and others, in her opinion, are not. In this case, the author uses her subjective assessment of the type of classification and then "but at least some realism to have." Think about it, author - if those you define as ugly are considered beautiful, then what ... do we do? How do they know about your "rules and criteria"? In general, tell us how to divide people into beautiful and ugly? By what criteria? And if these people fall into the second category, what solution do you suggest? Do they not have the right to have relations with those from the first group? I'm just curious. 4. The interest of the "orcs" makes the author feel insecure about her appearance. This makes the author seek support from her like-minded friends who confirm her hypotheses. I want to tell you, that you may be 10 out of 10 in terms of your appearance, but at least I would not take an individual with such thinking and character for a woman. If the author's partner suffers a catastrophe and becomes a torso, the author will leave him immediately, because he will already be part of the "manifestly ugly people". Author, do not create an inheritance, use your appearance only for sexual relations with the opposite sex (although I doubt anyone will take you for a wife), you will only do evil. And by the way, if you don't want attention, don't use public transport and live in a place away from crowds and commoners. If someone still approaches you, tell them some of the things you wrote here. Once they see what's under you, no one will want a relationship with you. If you still intend to continue using public transport, orient yourself to work clothes. Here is an example of what number 2 said - 2-3 years ago on the street I missed an unearthly beauty. She was dressed and walked in such a way that it was more than obvious that she was looking for attention. Everyone turned their heads to her. Later, I met another beauty who was so well dressed that even if I had a sexual interest in her, I would be ashamed to talk to her just about it.

   I don't like ugly or beautiful muzzles entering my personal space. Insolent people are equally disgusting to me.

   You have come to the right conclusion - do not stare at people and no one will talk to you, guarantee. Besides, when you get to my age / 47 /, only men over 60 will look at you, which I save (it's very unpleasant for me), pretending not to see. This is ... Otherwise, it's not bad for someone to talk to you, we are human, you can always be polite and kind and refuse. Enough with these films attractive, unattractive ... Everyone is fighting for a place under the sun in this life, who are you to judge people?

   <18> "old uncles" know how to "make" their fantasies come true because they have money and have no illusions about "great love" and "fidelity to the grave";) Look at the old aunts and have - their fantasies remain only fantasies;) a the worst thing is that they themselves think that they are fantasies of others;)) By the way - in my opinion the most vicious comments here are of teens who are accustomed to everything being served to them and think that the moment you tagged as a candidate boyfriend of someone, she must immediately assess how good genes they carry and jump into bed alone;) And if she can spin some pancakes in the morning, there will be no price;))

   What you all attack her for is like she has to pay attention to everyone. In the other topic, you spit on women in numbers, and now here you spit, a woman who rejects candidates. She doesn't have to be nice to everyone. Yesterday in a shop at the checkout, in front of 20 people in a queue, a 100 kg woman instead of doing her job makes me super playful gossip, is how to react, to throw myself to kiss her? I understand that you are attacking her, because you may recognize yourself in the "downloaders" she described, but just such malice ...

   You won't like to read it, but you are probably far from beautiful and that's why you are "rushed". It's just that some girl sees a woman who, as they say, gets fucked, but she also sees that it's not a big miracle and decides to give it a try. And the woman begins to think that she is very beautiful when they talk to her like that. But if she was very beautiful, such lollipops would not even think to try, and if they try, then ... draw your own conclusions. And from the very beginning, when I read "charming", I began to wonder - are you from some part of Bulgaria where this word is used or did they just write you a lot of nonsense on the Internet and you remembered it. There is a stratum, I don't know if they are old or of obscure origin, but they think that when they tell someone charming, she dies of delight. Conclusion - change your wardrobe or hairstyle in the direction of something better. PS: I know that there will be dozens of affected women, feeling that it applies almost to them. And to click 1 star, that's the reality!

   What became clear from your topic was that there were "leagues" and you thought that everyone should sit in their own. A few things. First, unless the proposals are presented in the ugliest way, you are in no position to be rude. You can, but then you can only grumble, there will be no real compassion for you. Second, the claims will not be enough. You will not refuse attention ("flattered"), but only from the right source? I'm sorry, life doesn't work that way. The good news is that it will not last long, calmly. And most of all: "I wouldn't allow myself to be insolent to a person outside my league. If he takes the first step - ok, but I know my goal." Knowing this and being so righteous, guess what - you will be sitting there, with or without suggestions from the charming prince. We wouldn't want to think you're hypocritical and superficial, would we?

   I understand the author. I will tell you about me, I am also 28 years old, I have a husband and a 5-year-old child. I look good and I have a real judgment of myself. I drive a jeep for 70 bucks, I support myself, I work, I make money just like my husband. I've heard thousands of times how beautiful I am from all kinds of people, even women :) I'm not looking for male attention. It strikes me that constantly some men on the streets talk to me or builders from the nearby construction site shout at me, which irritates me a lot. I look at them badly and cut them directly. I feel bad that this type of men are talking to me, who obviously don't stand a chance with me.

   Chick, you got something wrong. The world doesn't work the way you think. It is not clear to me who is from which league. Some women like me very much, others can't stand me, and others are indifferent to me. And I think that's perfectly normal. Who determines which league I am in? I know for sure who doesn't define it - you. You can only judge what level I am at according to YOUR criteria, which do not have to coincide with mine or those of other people. This is YOUR reality, not mine. Man has limits and responsibilities. And he is responsible for what is under his control. It is not his job to think about what is beyond his control. I will try to explain it more simply. I'm a man with balls. One of the roles of a man is to be a hunter. My role is, like a woman, to try to take her down. To meet her, to exchange contacts, to invite her to a meeting. I have no way of knowing if this woman likes me and if she would be interested. I can guess, I guess, but I don't see the point. I prefer to focus on my part - to seek contact. Your role, as a woman, is to filter men. If you like a man, you will give him your contacts and go out with him. And if you have no interest (I'm not your type, you're committed, you don't care about relationships at the moment), YOUR responsibility is to push me away (you don't give me your phone, you don't pick me up, you tell me you're not interested). Which is OK. I have to respect your decision. I have nothing to worry about, whether you will agree to go out with me is beyond my control. Whether you're going to cut me off politely or rudely - I used to care, I'm already through that job. If you do it politely, I would say something like "nice girl, it's a pity she has no interest". In case of rude behavior, I will draw conclusions about your upbringing. I have nothing to put on my heart - I haven't done anything wrong wanting to meet. The fact that you are offended and enraged is your problem, not mine. Do you see how simple it is? I want to meet and accordingly I am looking for contact with you? You have no control over this and you have no right to be angry with me for this. You decide whether you like me or not. And I have no right to be angry with you if you cut me off - this is normal. If my ego doesn't accept it and it offends me - my problem, I have to deal with my complexes. Division of responsibilities. Do you see how simple it is? I want to meet and accordingly I am looking for contact with you? You have no control over this and you have no right to be angry with me for this. You decide whether you like me or not. And I have no right to be angry with you if you cut me off - this is normal. If my ego doesn't accept it and it offends me - my problem, I have to deal with my complexes. Division of responsibilities. Do you see how simple it is? I want to meet and accordingly I am looking for contact with you? You have no control over this and you have no right to be angry with me for this. You decide whether you like me or not. And I have no right to be angry with you if you cut me off - this is normal. If my ego doesn't accept it and it offends me - my problem, I have to deal with my complexes. Division of responsibilities.

   Author, I will not bother to comment on your understandings and your misconceptions about human relationships, everyone has the right to live and think as he sees fit. However, to "enjoy" that you have humiliated a person who had the courage to reveal his feelings to you - is NOT a "major league"

   28 She had no control over this and had no right to be angry? !! Have you heard about personal space ?! For human rights ?! It is better for the Ghanaians to read them and stop living in the great Greek gods, because women and men in general are increasingly seeking their rights or retribution. So if the judiciary does not work as it is in most cases, it is not known who will get tired of the next brazen complex and what kind of hospital stay it will arrange. Author and everyone else, watch the comments and answer your questions. Out of the whole pigsty with invasions of complex old and young pigs, two whole men were found, who would not distort the facts and would not make compositions based on a picture, just to kill their complexes. Whole two! To be alive, multiply you two as much as possible, that those pigs drove us to foreigners. ж22

   24 Once again, the stupid complexes contradict each other, don't they ... As always. It is not enough for them to even kill their complexes, so that one does not understand from their first word that they are pathetic, vicious, ugly complexes. Women with numbers are whores, but they have to tie everyone they meet! If not - then they are selfish whores !! How funny you are, you poor thing ... darling ... hahahaha The old man on top and he screamed again. But no, you are still a rejected hanging old man with retarded thinking, there is no lamb serving an old man for you. Apart from the nurses in the nursing homes, there are catheters, hahahaha

   Number 29 - I'm having fun with the builders from the construction sites, these are real / tough / men who work with their hands, not some sophisticated hunters living on the net. When they whistle at me, I take it as a hundred percent compliment and on the cheerful side, of course.

   Up to 29 - hahahaha what feelings? You see someone and you already have feelings hhaha :) Otherwise I don't see anything wrong with dating on the streets. So if someone talks to you on the street, then it doesn't work - but if a friend recommends you a junkie who has passed her or has heard that it's a big deal - can you meet because she is "checked"? So much the worse for safe and proven players :)

   Out of 28 people, don't let anyone else define your value. Be the best version of yourself and live according to your own beliefs, goals and values. Some will like you, others will not - all this. One like number 27 - I fucked her in her jeep. And then I didn't even have a car. And I'm not a supermodel, I'm a normal well-maintained man. I met the lady in question in the park, and what impressed me was the book she was reading. One of my favorite. I found out about the jeep later, but it was through my cock. By the way, the girl turned out to be very nice and we were together for almost a year after that. We are still on friendly terms. What if I thought like the author and 27 and I told myself that I'm not in her league and I shouldn't bother her? We would both miss some good moments. But instead, I let her decide if I was in her league. It turned out that I was. Maybe I will not qualify according to the author's criteria, which is OK - I respect everyone's right to choose. And I have criteria - some cover them, others do not, but this is not a criterion for their value, only for whether they will be part of my life. So beauties, I'll talk to whoever I want and I'm sorry if you don't like it. I am responsible for my feelings and actions, you take responsibility for yours, instead of hating. Or don't ... if that works for you. take responsibility for yours instead of hating. Or don't ... if that works for you. take responsibility for yours instead of hating. Or don't ... if that works for you.

   I'm sorry, but the author is right and if anyone is affected, to draw her own conclusions why.

   Am I the only one who rejoices when someone takes me down? I'm a woman and I'm not lying that if someone takes me down, I'm happy. Not that I accept, why do dear women blame their souls? Isn't that why we try to be beautiful and pleasant - which woman sincerely hates compliments? Dear author, I understand your idea and feelings. Commentators are affected because they find your words extreme and offensive. If you are affected by random dumps, just stop paying attention to these events and walk away with a smile, do not enter into a conversation.

   30, if someone grabs you by the ass, is a violation of privacy and dignity. However, if someone says to you "Hello, let's meet, I'm Peter" it is not. If this offends you, I'm sorry. Yes, you can try to tidy up someone's hospital stay for something like that. You may succeed. Or you may suffer the consequences, depending on who you try. If you want to get angry, it's your job. You are charging.

   Author, I am constantly talked to, all kinds of strangers and the fact that they are talking has nothing to do with your or their vision. They communicate, especially if there is a situation. So far, unless the person has been rude, I never thought - uh, that nasty person, how does he imagine that he can communicate with me ?! I do not judge them by their appearance, by their clothes, but by the way they address me. Put yourself in their shoes, how would you feel if someone you said a kind word to or smiled at looked at you hostilely and contemptuously? It sucks, doesn't it? Specifically for men who have decided to 'take you down', they can't know you're engaged unless you're wearing a wedding ring or engagement ring, so ... you don't have to be angry. It's stupid of them to be ugly, as she said, and if they were handsome, you'd be flattered, right? It's a game of your ego, nothing more.

   The author is absolutely right. I am a man and I have always wondered about the confidence of some individuals, who, as the author put it, are two or three categories below when it comes to flirting. In my opinion, purely psychologically this is good for them, because if they realized where they were, they would be crushed, but it's super annoying for everyone else.

   Author, if you are nice (even moderately beautiful) you will be talked to by different types - both beautiful and not so; and intelligent and not so much, etc. Everyone likes the good. But if the ones you define as "beautiful or moderately beautiful" there are none, you may not have the right judgment.

   Author, if my husband "knew his goal", we would never enjoy such love and such a family today. Just imagine - he is from a village, with secondary education, with three T-shirts for the summer, which he changes every other day, a worker, without a penny ... how he dared to start courting a woman with two higher educations, an apartment on the navel of Sofia and huge villa in the suburbs, on top of everything elegant, well maintained and well received in any society. Sounds ridiculous, right? Well, yes, but the dude got scared. And the "grand lady" in question, i.e. I was so engrossed in it that I forgot all my styles and nonsense. What I can't deny, though, is that my husband is really beautiful. But this was somehow not obvious at first: he behaved like a tramp and did not even have a single front tooth. How handsome a man he is can only be seen when he has gained self-confidence, he changed his wardrobe, began to pay attention to himself, and the irresistible gleam of the predator that had grabbed the hind appeared in his eyes. In my opinion, there are no ugly people. There are those who have not discovered their inner beauty, have not realized their power and have not directed their energy to constructive things.

   42, not that something, but you didn't say anything.

   I am 38. I thought about it, author ... Well, I have a nice body, but I like full men. There are many interesting examples of the vision of couples. Like what you want, or don't like it, but don't make a problem and generalize from your personal preferences, because there is no such thing as - blond Ken, with blond Barbie, maybe Barbie will like Shrek :)

   Author, this question from the title of the topic you ask yourself and most women, because you all know that without makeup, painted eyebrows (which are often in a completely different place from the plucked ones), hairstyles, pads in a bra, high heels, tight jeans, tight jeans and some other cunning feminine tricks you will be seen in your natural appearance, which, however, is many times more ugly than what you deliberately present to the public with this whole masquerade, cover up your dozens of flaws . Let's not lie that the above women's techniques seem to only slightly emphasize your feminine appearance, because most men know how different you are when you just came out of the bathroom. On the street or in a meeting you are: 1. With make-up that hides the true condition of your skin, your wrinkles, your aging, acne / rashes, dark spots around the eyes, puffy eyes, the shape of your eyebrows and eyes ... 2. With a hairstyle that covers part of your face (especially the cheeks) and so optically make it look closer. 3. With a bra that not only lifts your breasts by a few centimeters (sometimes more than 10 cm) and makes them look more preserved, firm and with a beautiful oval shape, but also the pads in them lie to the eye that they are quite bigger than what actually hangs in front of a man's eyes when he takes off his bra. 4. Tighten your pants and bacon on your thighs and buttocks with tight-fitting pants. In summer, thanks to the elastic yoga branches, a visual deception is achieved that the legs are more smoothly shaped and without cellulite accumulations. 5. With high heels, through which you want to look taller in front of the people around you, than you really are. 6. Strongly obsessed with the belief that you are natural, beautiful, tall and slender. In fact, most of you are very unnatural and not so beautiful, tall and slender. For you, seeking approval in the eyes of others is paramount, and that's why you spend a huge part of your life disguising everything you think you don't like about yourself. And don't deny it, because if you really liked yourself, you wouldn't initially try to hide or distort your natural appearance and height. Attempts to make excuses like "But I just feel better that way ..." are an exact confirmation of the same thing I said in the previous sentence. If you were really as beautiful and desirable as you think you are with both layers of putty, clothes and high heels, then try how successful you will be personally and professionally, for example, if you are at least 3 months without a gram of makeup, without a padded bra and without high heels. However, almost all of you are afraid to do it, because you know perfectly well what the result would be for you. However, I am interested in women's perspectives on the above facts.

   47, you are interested in the female point of view, so let me give it to you. You talk about how complex women were, but you are so complexed by your height (171 cm) that you insist on this 1 cm !!! not to say that you are 170. And it is normal to attract naughty women - you are just a naughty human being and every normal person smells it even from just one of your comments and that's why quality women surround you. If you were as literate as you think you are, some quality woman would have grabbed you by now. But you just aren't. You're so busy looking at the fever in someone else's eye that you can't see the beam in yours ... And when you start developing my theories about how you want men up to 50, even after that, you become funny. At 50, a young woman may want your money, she may want your fame (if you're a super famous Hollywood actor, which you obviously aren't), but he doesn't want you and your soft pussy. Please, as long as you are floating in the clouds and accept the reality as it is. From a happily engaged woman in love with a lifting bra.

   From 47 to 49. Your complexes immediately shone from the moment you started writing about them. I mentioned that I am 171 cm tall because I use facts, not lies. Exactly for the same reason I did not write 172 cm, because this 1 cm above would be a lie, just as it would be a lie to write that I am 170 cm proposed by you. Now do you understand where the difference is between the person serving you with the truth and you are serving with lies and perverts like that (you) !? I do not allow myself to lie about even the smallest things. If I say that it is 17 cm long for me, then it is neither 18 cm nor 16 cm. Before you claim what kind of women, according to your ideas, I was attracted to, read again what I wrote. All 6 points contain facts and only facts. And you know which of the two sexes uses the above-described (or most of them) tricks in order to seek visual deception of the person opposite and to society as a whole. A person who is happy with his appearance does not feel pressured to spend a long time every day to cover it up and distort it! I don't know where it came to your mind to sing this about the 50s, since in opinion number 47 I have not written anywhere about such comparisons, but I will still answer you, reminding you of the fact that a man with good moral qualities at 50 without the need for money, he can attract and keep a woman twice his age and start a family with her, while a woman in her 50s is almost impossible to do the same with a man twice her age (if it's to be fucked a few times, maybe, but not for family and generation). And even for a man 5-10 years younger, it is extremely rare to like a woman in her 50s. Don't pretend that you don't realize it very clearly! Everywhere women complain or quietly come to the truth that after the age of Christ, men of THEIR age do not like them and want younger and better-preserved women. And the main reason is rooted in the excessive use of makeup and clogged skin pores, unhealthy diet (often fattening), lack of exercise and sports, for some also smoking cigarettes and drinking alcohol. It is no coincidence that I listed things in point 6 in opinion 47, because this self-delusion of believing how desirable and beautiful you are strikes you like a steam hammer after the age of 33-35, when suddenly the male attention to you begins to be mostly neglected. 50-year-old men, and not to those 20 years younger than them well-built men who you liked only 2-3 years earlier. Your tossing about "50-year-old soft fuck" further reinforces your weakness in using facts, but I will answer that too, because I use only facts. I am currently 38 years old and my last girlfriend (an attractive 27-year-old businesswoman with 5-6 times higher income than mine) called me the Tireless Stallion. She draws her own conclusions about how "soft" she is. The way I injected it into her was like a drug to her. Over time, it became clear that this is the main thing that still keeps us together, she wanted to completely change my daily life according to her habits, without her being ready to share my activities, so it was clear that we have no future. At my current age, I would like a woman of 25, and one at the age of 42, as long as we have common activities, a well-established value system and are mutually capable of concessions within reasonable limits to each other in order to develop our relations stably. And all this necessarily requires sincerity, respect and trust. I will give you advice: Never underestimate the true aphrodisiac of a quality man - communication with a literate, mature-minded woman who is not guided by the opinion of the herd, but has her own and knows how to express it correctly! For example, I really like Black Sabbath and Alpha 29 as a way of thinking, although we have had discrepancies on some topics. And all this necessarily requires sincerity, respect and trust. I will give you advice: Never underestimate the true aphrodisiac of a quality man - communication with a literate, mature-minded woman who is not guided by the opinion of the herd, but has her own and knows how to express it in the right way! For example, I really like Black Sabbath and Alpha 29 as a way of thinking, although we have had discrepancies on some topics. And all this necessarily requires sincerity, respect and trust. I will give you advice: Never underestimate the true aphrodisiac of a quality man - communication with a literate, mature-minded woman who is not guided by the opinion of the herd, but has her own and knows how to express it in the right way! For example, I really like Black Sabbath and Alpha 29 as a way of thinking, although we have had discrepancies on some topics.

   Murmur-murmur. This is called a problem, to irritate you attention from the opposite sex. Put on an idiot hat, write "BINDED" in red bold and you're done.

   Number 50 was enough with these 171 cm already - it can be complex, but yours is off the road. . Wherever there are topics on this site, you feel obligated to comment that you are 171 cm. No matter how many times you repeat it, they will not happen again.

   From number 50 to number 52. Check who first mentioned "171 cm" in this topic (use Ctrl F to open the search engine below in Mozilla Firefox or Google Chrome and type "171" there) and you'll see that this is not me, but number 49. And so. Number 49 read one of my opinions in another topic, where I had mentioned how tall I am and she was confused where exactly it says, putting these 171 cm in a wedge or a sleeve in the current topic. The same interference of topics is evident from her words about "men under 50", which was touched upon again in the other topic, and not in this one here. And because number 49 was written here, but having fresh memories of a very different subject (she probably read them one after the other), I had to answer her in opinion 50 and explain what she had confused. Accordingly, in response to her words about my height, I also repeated here "171 cm" and now it has wrongly stuck in your mind that I am supposed to be the one who writes "Where are the topics" (as you put it) for that. First, check the facts before you speak hastily. Then she wondered who actually had complexes when she was annoyed that number 49 had decided to repeat a fact from another topic in this one. Such behavior is particularly unattractive and fits well with the title of this topic. Happy Holidays! that number 49 has decided to repeat a fact from another topic in this one. Such behavior is particularly unattractive and fits well with the title of this topic. Happy Holidays! that number 49 has decided to repeat a fact from another topic in this one. Such behavior is particularly unattractive and fits well with the title of this topic. Happy Holidays!

   50, I stumbled upon your comment. Thank you very much for the words. Black Sabbath

   To number 1 ... I couldn't read the other comments. So I EXCLUDE the specific topic, as well as whether the author is beautiful, whether she is judged by her, etc., but that's right: cool women should be with cool men and vice versa. But if there were no other qualities, there are, of course, but the leading thing has always been sexual attraction, and if the other qualities are present, then things are great. I also exclude women who get caught up in various ugly things for money, but it is quite normal for a handsome and valuable man to deserve it, and for it to suit him ... and for her to be a justly beautiful and valuable woman. It can also be seen in everyday life - the nice chicks were fucked by the nice and open guys. From where to where some jerk will boil where he has no business. With what argument does he think that he deserves a beautiful woman - because do you see how good, kind, etc .... buhahahaha.

   I read the comments at 30 and just imagine a functioning judicial system. The court decision says "the accused, although unattractive, approached the victim with the words" Hello, I am Pesho, can we meet? "For this behavior, the court sentenced him to 3 years in prison under an initial strict regime." Or I go to meet her, she tells me "I'm not interested" and then she starts arranging my stay in the hospital. He follows me where I follow, tells friends "this one is 10 kilos overweight, but allowed himself to talk to me. I understood that he lives in the 49th block in Lyulin. Call the mutts and let's go break his legs." I find people like her funny.

   Author, in my opinion, like many other women, you suffer from unrealistic self-esteem, as well as unrealistic assessment of the world around you. You can't both be a very ordinary-looking woman and expect only beautiful people to talk to you. Just to remind you that according to a study in Tinder and OkCupid, women rate the bottom 80% of men as "ugly", while the ratings that men give to women are evenly distributed. And before anyone says it's not a reflection of reality, just go outside and look around. In my opinion, the men they speak to are normal-looking men, they simply do not meet the high requirements of Your Majesty. I bet you chose your boyfriend according to strictly defined criteria and he is probably more beautiful than you. And then "women loved with their ears" ... Nonsense on wheels!