Hi, I'm a 16 year old girl. I have a question that has plagued me for almost a year now. It wasn't like that before, but I'm starting to feel jealous of my friends and I'd like to know if it's really envy or if I'm really stupid. They always find something to pick on me, even if I'm right and they know it, they start picking on me again. Some of their words are "Oh, you're very stupid", "No one is dumber than you" and similar nonsense. I'm very humorous and I always make fun of everything, and they don't understand it and define it as "nonsense". I am a good student. I don't take much effort to study, and ours don't argue with me if I bring a lower grade than 5, while their parents argue about it. I get everything I want because ours are guys. I look pretty good. I'm tall, I have a nice body and face. I don't want to offend them, but I look better than them.
And they didn't have boyfriends, they don't write to boys, while I had boyfriends and I have close relationships with a lot of boys. In the summer I went out not only with them and they were angry with me, but when I went out with someone other than them they started to get angry again. I think it's if I haven't missed something .. How can I deal with all this nonsense and fears of not saying something wrong and getting annoyed? I do not want to part and drive with them, because I am 10th grade, I will spend more time with them, and they are my only friends here? I ask the moderators to publish my story, because I no longer have the strength to deal with all this! while I have had boyfriends and have close relationships with many boys. In the summer I went out not only with them and they were angry with me, but when I went out with someone other than them they started to get angry again. I think it's if I haven't missed something .. How can I deal with all this nonsense and fears of not saying something wrong and getting annoyed? I do not want to part and drive with them, because I am 10th grade, I will spend more time with them, and they are my only friends here?
I ask the moderators to publish my story because I no longer have the strength to deal with all this! while I have had boyfriends and have close relationships with many boys. In the summer I went out not only with them and they were angry with me, but when I went out with someone other than them they started to get angry again. I think it's if I haven't missed something .. How can I deal with all this nonsense and fears of not saying something wrong and getting annoyed? I do not want to part and drive with them, because I am 10th grade, I will spend more time with them, and they are my only friends here? I ask the moderators to publish my story, because I no longer have the strength to deal with all this!
How can I deal with all this nonsense and fears of not saying something wrong and getting annoyed? I do not want to part and drive with them, because I am 10th grade, I will spend more time with them, and they are my only friends here? I ask the moderators to publish my story because I no longer have the strength to deal with all this! How can I deal with all this nonsense and fears of not saying something wrong and getting annoyed? I do not want to part and drive with them, because I am 10th grade, I will spend more time with them, and they are my only friends here? I ask the moderators to publish my story because I no longer have the strength to deal with all this!
1 nomad_health answered
No, you don't have girlfriends, you're deluding yourself that they are. They are just hypocritical beings who envy you for your beauty and the fact that you are with YOU. Look for new people to make friends with, and just keep cool with those, in a nutshell, avoid talking, and if they ask you something, answer in one word or as few words as possible without showing emotion. Just pretend to be bored by their talk and remember that ignoring someone is scarier than insults or other such conversations. Do not be humiliated to ask why they treat you like that, but tighten up and subject them to complete ignorance, which does not mean that you should avoid them, but simply in their presence to show them that you do not rejoice in happiness. The envy of some people is boundless and there is no cure, but I hope you find another company and come across real people.