Do I Take Things Too Personal?

The Story

I've had a serious boyfriend for three years. We're both graduating this year. We're considering moving in together over time, and overall we want things to get more serious. We're both not perfect, but we love each other very much and accept each other for who we are. We've always been there for each other and show each other how much we love each other. He is a wonderful, extremely patient and calm man. I'm the opposite of that. That's where our differences are. I take everything in and get upset quite often and make a problem, but sometimes I don't understand if I'm really guilty and over-re-honest or maybe it's the problem. I'm more social, more nimble, energetic. I love being around people. He prefers to sit in them, rest and generally does not like outings very much. I've never had a problem with that, as I said I accept it for who it is, but sometimes there have been times when we haven't seen you for days because, for example, he doesn't want to go out. Understandably, I think he doesn't want to spend time with me. He's never told me that besides his girlfriend, I'm his closest friend and he loves spending time with me, but he just doesn't always want to go out. I trust him and get into a position, but quite often in my crazy and hysterical head, thoughts invade, as I said, like "he doesn't want to see me, I'm not interested and important to him, etc. " His actions really show that he loves me and wants a future with me, but is that normal? I mean, have you ever had anything like this happen to you? Is there any cause for concern, or is it just really normal when you just have a little crush on a little housekeeper and worry in vain? Have you been in a similar situation to how you've taken things? I forgot to mention that we're in the same class and see each other every day, but I mean, for example, vacations have been around for days sometimes. Maybe I take it inward because I'm used to seeing it every day, I don't know... Thank you for reading and I will await your opinion. And please comments like "leave, you're different and it won't work for you" not to bother writing, because, as I said, I accept it as I just want to hear your opinion on it to make sure I'm really over-over, because it certainly is, but I really need to hear it.

Last Updated
June 12, 2020
Author:
fynforall717

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