Hello! I'm a 16-year-old girl and I really hope the moderators publish my story, although I've found others with such a topic. The thing is, I'm very scared. From 5th to 6th grade I have a problem with the labia. One is longer than the other and is somehow torn. So far no problem. I didn't pay attention to him. But recently I thought that sooner or later (I do not intend to be soon, but still ...), I will want to have sex. But I am tormented by the fact that I am defective and that I will disgust anyone who comes near me and sees me. I'm afraid my fingers will drop me before we start and tell everyone about my defect. Please give me advice! Do you know of women who have this problem and still have a fruitful sex life? Do you need surgery? Is it dangerous for my health? And do you think that I will disgust any man who wants to have sex with me? Thanks in advance for the help!
1 jeremy_vuolo answered
Dear girl, A 37-year-old woman writes to you. When I was your age, I also thought that no one would want me, that they would disgust me because I was defective. In time, I realized that I was normal and stopped thinking about it as a defect, but rather as a part of me. I want to assure you that one day you will find your boy, and he will not care that your labia are uneven. You certainly do not need surgery, because it is not life-threatening and operations in this area are not very comfortable. No one your age is going to talk about it because no one cares. After all, you are great people already. Before I finish, I want to add that after I lost my virginity at the age of 19. I have had many sexual partners and no one has mocked me. I wish you a happy and smiling day.