Hello! I know many of you will find the story silly and insignificant, but I need to share it. It's about my relationship with my boyfriend, as they've been straining lately. The thing is that some time ago there was a league that tried to "get in", but he ignored the desires and she realized and did not bother anymore. But I've always felt that he himself has some sympathy for her, yes, she's nice. I also think I'm nice and I also have a lot of suitors, but someone else's is more interesting. So my fears that there was interest in her were confirmed when I accidentally came across that he was looking at the profile and, in fact, not for the first time, but this time I was overwhelmed by a very great rage and jealousy. I asked him directly if he was looking at her profile, and he was shocked and foolish ... "Ah yes ... I wanted to see a job ... It's one thing to just have sympathy, but I don't know how far that sympathy goes. In my previous relationship, I looked at these things with ridicule and I had full confidence in the person next to me and what happened, most unceremoniously cheated on me. I want advice, an adequate opinion ... if I have become too obsessive and jealous, how to act correctly. Do I have reason to be annoyed or should I ignore such things, are they insignificant? It's one thing to just have sympathy, but I don't know how far that sympathy goes. In my previous relationship, I looked at these things with ridicule and I had full confidence in the person next to me and what happened, most unceremoniously cheated on me. I want advice, an adequate opinion ... if I have become too obsessive and jealous, how to act correctly. Do I have reason to be annoyed or should I ignore such things, are they insignificant?
1 kaitlynbristowe answered
Well, I think you have every right to have doubts. Tell him straight. If he wants to be with her - to be. If not - to block her from everywhere and forget about her and be happy with you. She explained to him that with two things he could not succeed. And stay calm. You won't get anywhere with nerves. Talk to him and find out.