It can be either size. You don't say how big it is. You just don't fit in, no matter what the problem is. At 21, I think it's best to look for someone else, I don't believe this purely physical discrepancy can be fixed (that's what you say it is). Now they will attack me and start talking about French, sex toys, etc. I have not met a woman who prefers French to good penetration. And to deal with sex toys at 21 ... just to be with him ... I don't see the point. Once you get to writing here, you're tired of it, so I don't think anything they tell you but parting will help. Soon you will get even more nervous, stop and get aroused by it, etc.
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It can be either size. You don't say how big it is. You just don't fit in, no matter what the problem is. At 21, I think it's best to look for someone else, I don't believe this purely physical discrepancy can be fixed (that's what you say it is). Now they will attack me and start talking about French, sex toys, etc. I have not met a woman who prefers French to good penetration. And to deal with sex toys at 21 ... just to be with him ... I don't see the point. Once you get to writing here, you're tired of it, so I don't think anything they tell you but parting will help. Soon you will get even more nervous, stop and get aroused by it, etc.