Hello! The story is a bit commercial, but I really want to see your opinions, because I don't know what to believe either! Last year, while I was going out in front of a nightclub, I saw an acquaintance and he introduced me to this boy at this time of year, at my age (21)! It was a very fun moment, we just laughed and we knew each other for a few minutes! We exchanged Facebook, then we wrote to each other often, we just had fun, he wrote to me that he hadn't felt so happy for a long time, even just writing! Until now, he had a girlfriend! After about a week she left him! The boy kept hinting to me that he wanted us to leave, complimenting me, but I didn't do anything, I didn't believe such words until I saw action! Many times we supposedly agreed to see each other, or he would come to us, but nothing! We've talked a hell of a lot on the phone, never behaved badly, but so far! The compliments continued from time to time, but somehow not for sure! Two months passed and he found another girlfriend, and I started rereading all our chats because I missed this fun! With each re-reading, I started to like it more and more! Summer came to my quarter, introduced me to his friends and watched me constantly! I couldn't help but write to him again and he admitted to himself that he liked me, nothing that he was committed! After this meeting, I started to see, to hear, to impose his name on me ...!
It was hellishly obsessive, my life was teasing him all the time! Now in the winter he works in a shop, night shifts, and I go to him for 1-2 hours! He is always super happy to see me, I ask him about his girlfriend, and he doesn't seem to care much! I admitted to him that I like him too, and he is happy again, but nothing! He asks me if I will be with him on New Year's Eve, but I still don't believe it's sincere! I think about him every day, in general I haven't had sex and I haven't been engaged until now, it bothers me a little to admit it! Not that I haven't been courted, but I also have a few complexes because I'm a little chubby and I don't believe in myself! Does everything make sense at all ?? I know that breaking a relationship is hellish simplicity, but they have been dating for 8 months, and she is 16 .. and I don't see much love with this behavior ..! Thank you in advance! I'm very confused and I don't know what to do anymore ... because I'm a little chubby and I don't believe in myself! Does everything make sense at all ?? I know that breaking a relationship is hellish simplicity, but they have been dating for 8 months, and she is 16 .. and I don't see much love with this behavior ..! Thank you in advance! I'm very confused and I don't know what to do anymore ... because I'm a little chubby and I don't believe in myself! Does everything make sense at all ?? I know that breaking a relationship is hellish simplicity, but they have been dating for 8 months, and she is 16 .. and I don't see much love with this behavior ..! Thank you in advance! I'm very confused and I don't know what to do anymore ...
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Well, who is this 21-year-old who will catch a 16-year-old, and since they have been walking for 8 months, she must have been 15 when they left. 6 years difference at this age is not normal .. something is wrong with him.