Hello. My story is a little strange, but I still need help. I am a 15 year old boy. Last Friday, my friends and I decided to go to an abandoned building. We went and while we were still at the beginning and wondering where to start looking, two girls came. When they saw us, they were scared, but we told them that we were normal people and that they had nothing to fear. They came in and we all started looking at the building. After a while, a friend of theirs came. We sat there almost all day. We looked around, talked, played on the bottle and had a great time overall. Finally we exchanged Facebooks and went home. We met again on Sunday and had a great time again. We can say that we have made new friends. The thing is, I fell for one of the girls. However, there are several problems: First - I almost don't know her, we've only seen each other twice and I don't know if she has a boyfriend (I don't think she has). Second - I'm not very good with girls. I've never had a boyfriend before and I'm a little embarrassed to talk to girls. Third, this is probably the biggest problem. One of my friends is pretty good with girls. He is taller, and much more confident than I am, and that is why he has so much success. I know that one girl likes him (not the one I like), but I don't know about the other. Naturally, I'm worried he won't fall for it. So my question is how exactly to act We're going out again on Friday and I don't know if I have a chance at all. Is it worth a try even though I guess I won't succeed? I need advice. Thanks in advance. Second - I'm not very good with girls. I've never had a boyfriend before and I'm a little embarrassed to talk to girls. Third, this is probably the biggest problem. One of my friends is pretty good with girls. He is taller, and much more confident than I am, and that is why he has so much success. I know that one girl likes him (not the one I like), but I don't know about the other. Naturally, I'm worried he won't fall for it. So my question is how exactly to act? We're going out again on Friday and I don't know if I have a chance at all. Is it worth a try even though I guess I won't succeed? I need advice. Thanks in advance. Second - I'm not very good with girls. I've never had a boyfriend before and I'm a little embarrassed to talk to girls. Third, this is probably the biggest problem. One of my friends is pretty good with girls. He is taller, and much more confident than I am, and that is why he has so much success. I know that one girl likes him (not the one I like), but I don't know about the other. Naturally, I'm worried he won't fall for it. So my question is how exactly to act? We're going out again on Friday and I don't know if I have a chance at all. Is it worth a try even though I guess I won't succeed? I need advice. Thanks in advance. One of my friends is pretty good with girls. He is taller, and much more confident than me, and that is why he has so much success. I know that one girl falls for him (not the one I like), but I don't know about the other. Naturally, I'm worried he won't fall for it. So my question is how exactly to act? We're going out again on Friday and I don't know if I have a chance at all. Is it worth a try even though I guess I won't succeed? I need advice. Thanks in advance. One of my friends is pretty good with girls. He is taller, and much more confident than I am, and that is why he has so much success. I know that one girl falls for him (not the one I like), but I don't know about the other. Naturally, I'm worried he won't fall for it. So my question is how exactly to act? We're going out again on Friday and I don't know if I have a chance at all. Is it worth a try even though I guess I won't succeed? I need advice. Thanks in advance. Is it worth a try even though I guess I won't succeed? I need advice. Thanks in advance. Is it worth a try even though I guess I won't succeed? I need advice. Thanks in advance.
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It seems a bit fictional to me about the building, but you just liked a girl and are looking for a pretext to ask about your problem. From my point of view, this is because for years I have considered such confessions of friends and acquaintances. Another thing is that you have complexes from the mentioned friend. Let's move on to the topic. .. Be yourself with the girl and first find out if you have common interests or something that connects you. This way you will have topics to talk about and you will not be bored live or chatting.
From the author: This with the building is not invented, the story is real. Otherwise, thanks for the answer.
If you think of other boys as a competition, your self-esteem will always be crushed and you will always have a feeling of falling behind, even if you are the biggest male. Concentrate on yourself and the girl you like and forget about others.
I'm number 1. When I look at something, my whole opinion on the topic has not been published. I will also tell you not to hurry, to offer yourself to her, and first get to know her well, because only for 2 times you can't be sure if this will be your perfect choice. Unless you're doing enough to have a boyfriend ... then do as you please. My advice is to go out for at least 2 or 3 weeks and often write to her on Facebook and then if you continue to like her and suggest. Even if he refuses you you will try! You also need a little more confidence because girls like it. Victor 420