Do Friends On Facebook Disappear Like That?

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An incident from a few days ago does not give me peace of mind and I would like to know the truth. It's about my best friend. We have known each other for 7 years and we were very close. I have helped her a lot over the years, her father had health problems, an operation and I helped them with money, she owes me several hundred levs for several years, but she has not returned anything to me. Two years ago, she asked me for money again, then again and again several times, and I already felt very used and ended the relationship with her. I felt she didn't respect me at all, and she didn't work either, and she was generally poor because she was lazy. And a year after I stopped communicating with her, I thought a lot about everything and said to myself that I forgive her and more important is the friendship that I seem to be building unilaterally. And I looked for her. Very strange, but she accepted me immediately, we went out, we talked about everything, I told her, that I felt used, etc., and she said almost nothing. But ... less than two days after we resumed communication, she asked me for money and I told her that I had the last five leva to my salary and she, I don't know if she couldn't think what, told me I would come and get them, that I don't have dinner for tonight - and she came and took them, that is, I gave them to her, but then I still felt guilty about the recent end of the relationship and that's why I helped her, which was stupid and naive, but I'm "guilty". She continued to ask me for money, not to return anything, as we sat down for coffee and took juice, to drink from my glass without asking, and she did not take anything .. And for the second time .. I was very angry, straight I was furious that he took advantage of that ... And I said to myself, That's it, that's all ... And so for a year no communication, and one day she wrote me How am I, what am I doing And we saw each other, she agreed immediately. I told her everything again and why, she didn't care about me again, but she said that this time she would hide from common acquaintances that we were communicating, because she was almost humiliated that she accepted me as a friend again. And she recently went to her husband, we are no longer in the same city, it is far away and we have not seen each other for several months, we just write to each other on Facebook, but less and less, she no longer answers as before, only justifies that she is busy and recently wrote Come on, when I can I'll write to you. And two weeks pass, and at the same time he soaks on Facebook and posts nonsense and photos. And a few days ago I wrote to her, she just turned blue, and I felt something strange and I went to Facebook and watched her make friends with me. And it was just like a shock and I thought, well, if there was a misunderstanding, everything happens and I asked her, I wrote to her and after a few hours she answered and pretended to be very surprised using words, which are not inherent in it. Then he wrote to me, oh, another friend of mine disappeared and sent me a screenshot of the dialogue between her and this friend, how they write what happened, but with some exclamations, something seemed very artificial to me. Everyone around me tells me that she wanted to end the relationship, but she did not have the courage and did not expect me to ask her to ask after she deleted me. Even if it was a virus or a hacker, something else would have hurt or written to me or wanted to and not just remove me? It is very important for me to understand more opinions so that I am not humiliated and for her to think that she has deceived me, because she sends me an invitation again and pretends to be hit and writes from time to time. Thank you! something seemed very artificial to me. Everyone around me tells me that she wanted to end the relationship, but she didn't have the courage and didn't expect me to ask her to ask after she deleted me. Even if it was a virus or a hacker, something else would have hurt or written to me or wanted to and not just remove me? It is very important for me to understand more opinions so that I am not humiliated and for her to think that she has deceived me, because she sends me an invitation again and pretends to be hit and writes from time to time. Thank you! something seemed very artificial to me. Everyone around me tells me that she wanted to end the relationship, but she didn't have the courage and didn't expect me to ask her to ask after she deleted me. Even if it was a virus or a hacker, something else would have hurt or written to me or wanted to and not just remove me? It is very important for me to understand more opinions so that I am not humiliated and for her to think that she has deceived me, because she sends me an invitation again and pretends to be hit and writes from time to time. Thank you! that she deceived me because she sent me an invitation again and pretended to be hit and wrote from time to time. Thank you! that she deceived me because she sent me an invitation again and pretended to be hit and wrote from time to time. Thank you!

Last Updated
November 01, 2020
Author:
sweetrose24

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