Hello! Here is my story: I am 21 years old - the daughter of two wonderful parents. However, unfortunately, they are no longer together - their paths have parted. Growing up, I never heard them argue even about something harmless. They loved each other and showed their love. Everything was fine until my mother decided to go to Greece 5 years ago to work. Initially, her intentions were good - she wanted me to send money to tidy up the house where I live now. But over time, he returned to us less and less. In the first year, she filed for divorce from her father and married unsuccessfully to a Greek man, probably blinded by money.
A week later, she no longer wanted to hear about him and returned to escape. A reunion with Dad followed. At that time, I was very upset with her. I tried to show her that I didn't approve of that, which she does to us (I am referring to me and my father) by making her life black to get revenge. But that period is over. She had won our trust again. Things fell into place until he decided that he would go to Greece to work again. And so for several years, he came for 10 days twice a year, but everything seemed to be fine. Dad was waiting for her. We spoke on the phone once, twice a week. At one point, she started calling less and less. Dad began to worry that there was something again (after all, they had lived as a family for 15 years and knew her). He turned out to be right. My mother came home and was cold, although until about 10 days ago, when I listened to them on the phone, she claimed that she had nothing and that she loved him. When we were just the two of us told me that she had been in a relationship there with another person for a year and that she had no intention of ever returning home to live again.
She had lied to my father for a long time and many times. He is very annoyed with her at the moment and still has feelings for her after so many lies on her part. She is getting married for the third time and is so happy. She behaves like a teenager - she is so in love and perfects every detail of her wedding as if she had never been a bride. She introduced me to the man next to her at the moment, and I think he is a very decent man.
She invites me to visit her several times to see the family she has now. Dad, however, won't let me go. Whether out of jealousy or grief, I can't say for sure. For her, I am also a daughter and will always remain so. It helps me a lot financially, as I am now a sophomore, but she is never like someone you can ask for advice. My father is always by my side for any problem. I understand my mother, if she is no longer happy with her father, she has the right to seek the happiness she wants. But I'm sick of him because he's alone and hurt. I want them to understand each other and to be able to go to my mother in Greece for 1 week, but at this stage it is impossible. Conversations don't help. We keep trampling in one place. And from the whole story in the center, I am alone. They pull me - one to him, the other also I don't know when everything will pass. I just want understanding and peace!
1 longerthanhim258 answered
Tell your father: Dad, it's time to find a woman, so ... to go out with her, to unload. You see, it's all over with your mother. Let your mother send you money. This is more important for you for now.