Hello! My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and have been having sex for 2 years. The problem is that I don't feel much pleasure and it never makes me cum. I don't like how he licks me and very quickly to the essential part. In the beginning he told you that a longer love game is not possible because it either falls to him or it will end before the real part. We have talked several times on the subject, but unfortunately there is no change. Is the problem in me because I am used to it after so long and I expect to be dissatisfied or in it that I do not change my way Help !!! Bad sex leads to other problems between us.
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The problem is that you don't fit in with sex, but you obviously don't work on it. Tell him you need more caresses. In general, it is not a problem that he falls while arousing you, because he can start with the stimuli first, and you can do it for him later, before the act. So he will have time to get aroused again. And people have come up with options like pose 69, where the pleasure is for both at the same time. Give yourself a short break, something like a week and prepare mentally, improve your attitude, this is very important. Talk to each other all week, you can touch and hang, but do not go to the real part. Let's accumulate some sexual energy and figure out how best to manifest it. Think about your everyday life, make it a little more interesting. Now the weather is warming up, go on a short trip. If you do not have the funds, at least go around the more interesting places in your city. Diversify, try to remember what you liked in the other. Sex is not just getting in and out, you have to have some thrill, you have to be positive and want to satisfy the other as much as you want to satisfy yourself.