Discrepancy

   I understand that you are older than the way you write. I don't want to be rude, but I don't like you

   Change the club. The rest is nonsense. He may just look at you not because he likes you, but because, say, you are older than the other visitors, just out of curiosity. Don't get into movies. If he really bites you, he'll do something, but it's clearly not. One-sided liking is terrible and painful. Don't do it to yourself.

   You also go in plain text: "Dinner, conversation, sex?"

   You've built an entire novel in your head without anything happening. In reality, it is very unlikely that there is anything between you other than a fleeting physical connection, and you are already sinking into his eyes, into his intellect. You want a story, and you'll get a fuck. Not that fucking is bad, but when you expect something more, you're more likely to get hurt. As a student, you fell in love with a fictional image. If you think that you will be able to be satisfied with only a short sexual adventure, there is nothing easier than to seduce him. But you have to tell yourself absolutely honestly that you don't want anything more. Grandpa Torbalan

   Temporary hobby. You don't know him, you don't know anything, and she already wanted him with every fiber of her body. Quite superficial, shallow and stupid. Don't you have a husband? Friend? Since you're a woman, if you talk about something, you'll probably be able to figure it out, add it to Facebook, start a little, and find out about sex, but nothing more. If only sex is your goal - go for it.

   I do not agree with the previous opinions. Age does not matter, there are people we like from the first second - I do not know if it is attraction, love at first sight, kindred spirits ... Whatever you call it, all the same, the feeling is similar in all of us. It is neither shallow nor nonsense. Author, just talk to him (for God's sake!). People don't eat, I guess, so as you describe him, he's as shy as you are, and in the worst case, you'll have naughty and awkward 3 minutes and then - live, healthier, change the club and end the story. The more likely option is to talk like normal people and exchange contacts. From there, whatever is written.

   From the author Torbalane, I lived to write in my topic! And since you fell for me now, let me tell you without hesitation - from all your comments read with the site, I came to the conclusion that you are an incredibly accurate dude, at least for me! You are always in the top ten with your opinions, non-standard, convincing in your theses, uniquely ironic and even emotionally tearful ... at times, you touch various thin strings there without even wanting to ... How many times have I wanted to share an opinion on various topical issues and reading your comments in them, I just give up .... You wrote it for me .... So ... Do you think that if there were men like you in my environment, I would stumble on various there ... receptionists? !! Abe, even if there were real males around me like you, they would just pass me like a little train station ... Why? !! I don't have the self-confidence to like me ... So far I haven't had a good time with a man, because those I want never want me ... Hence the tortured relationships and even more tortured sex ... Where can your husband take me ignite with a glance, to grab me with demeanor, behavior .... etc. Only now I relaxed my soul and allowed myself, completely unadulterated and first-signal, to like a man purely visually, ..., I think a lot , I break my arms and get carried away ... I think I want to be myself, like never before, to ask for a man, to show him in the most left-wing way and then to run away, hoping that I, like the hen, that I don't run very fast ... Because I'm dying to catch up and grab me, that's clear! Once a man grabs me, a desired man ... it will be so different from everything that has happened to me so far ... What can I tell you ... I've definitely driven 40, he's definitely over 30, but if he only finds out what an aspen I would be in his hands, he'll be scared ... Because I'm not some hard-hearted aunt who died fucking ... no matter how it looks. .. but without it ... I know that your words are still in the top ten ... But I can't just have sex ... I don't just want sex ... That's why when I entered the club and I didn't see anyone at the reception, I told myself that my sweetheart would be able to rest in peace ... but she wouldn't! Do you know where it came to me most unexpectedly, pretending to be distracted? !! In the pool, right during my workout, I was spinning ... there was some kind of damage, hmmm ... It's good that I'm used to such surprises and I wasn't surprised! Imagine it with me in the water, but that's it! I know, I know what exposure I am ... What I'm guilty of, that a man hasn't driven me crazy so far and I want to see two of them? !! Except that I want everything that leads to good sex ... at least you know what I'm talking about, you're hot and boiling, everything is clear to you! But I put some brakes in there, I guess it won't be ... All my life in illusions, aman! I wanted to thank you for your kind attention! I'm moved by that! Be healthy, alive and healthy! Because obviously you are firmly on the ground, and happy at that ... I envy her and I'm torn, lucky one! I will not change the club ... I will overcome my weakness, there is no way! Until 7 Thank you for encouraging me ... I will listen to you and if something happens, I will write here again! Greetings! that it probably won't be ... All my life in illusions, aman! I wanted to thank you for your kind attention! I'm moved by that! Be healthy, alive and healthy! Because obviously you are firmly on the ground, and happy at that ... I envy her and I'm torn, lucky one! I will not change the club ... I will overcome my weakness, there is no way! Until 7 Thank you for encouraging me ... I will listen to you and if something happens, I will write here again! Greetings! that it probably won't be ... All my life in illusions, aman! I wanted to thank you for your kind attention! I'm moved by that! Be healthy, alive and healthy! Because obviously you are firmly on the ground, and happy at that ... I envy her and I'm torn, lucky one! I will not change the club ... I will overcome my weakness, there is no way! Until 7 Thank you for encouraging me ... I will listen to you and if something happens, I will write here again! Greetings!

   Bagging, shut up ... What a pity! Until 7 Hello, I want to tell you what happened ... and then if you want, comment again on my troubles - I would be happy to read you again! There is no need to exchange personal contacts - he gave me the card for the club and entered all my data in the computer: name, surname, address, telephone numbers ... But it would be more logical to ask for them personally, right? !! Because if I were in his place, I wouldn't allow myself to bother him and call on my own ... We talked to him several times in the beginning, on various issues, but nothing personal ... That's why I decided that it will just end with one-sided liking and that's it! But here that I am embarrassed by his contradictory signals and that is why I even wrote here ... He panics when he sees me, obviously, he avoids me, but at the same time he secretly looks at me and always revolves around the damn pool when I'm there too, and there's no work there in general? !! A few days ago the following happened: I had two workouts one after the other in the pool with a 15 minute interval between the two. As usual, the club is entered like an inn, it was not at the reception, but I already take it very personally and I have made up my mind that it is not there, so as not to be detected when I enter ... I start training and he appears to be looking again where the empty damage is !? I spin, I spin, I don't know what he did, but I just started to like it! And so immediately after the end of the 1st workout I shot outside and went directly into the sauna ... And what did I see? !! How does he appear and walk slowly between the pool, sauna and hammam, looking around every corner? !! I suddenly saw him from the dungeon in the sauna, I stared ... He never realized that I was there and came out, crossing the women's locker room without blinking ... What did I say to myself? !! I didn't get upset that he was hanging around like that and he was obviously looking to see someone ..., but I scolded him in my mind, "Yes, it's your mother!" do you need such hiding, hanging and secret staring? !! I got a shiver and everything ... Have a nice day! the author hanging around and secretly staring? !! I got a shiver and everything ... Have a nice day! the author hanging around and secretly staring? !! I got a shiver and everything ... Have a nice day! the author

   Takaaa… Let me share what happened, you care, right? !! I flatter myself from one extreme to the other ... I like it without knowing it ... it happens to me for the first time ... Last month I just stopped going to the pool ... I didn't have the strength to hide, I was worried, etc. However, I increased my strength training more often and my smile and tone returned! As the Christmas holidays approached, the club organized special, extended courses in a crazy, Christmas rhythm - jingle white in electro style while we sweat on the ergometer, for example, fun! Except that just the day before Christmas, my insurmountable weakness disappeared ... (he was on vacation) ... and he could never see me sweating with a smile, playing sports, my grandfather's hat was crooked ... I admit that it was it sucks to be gone ... However, days before he disappeared ... it so happened that we met almost face to face and I deliberately ignored him, I didn't look at him at all ... I pretended to be distracted, just like he did ... before ... I saw that he was surprised by this and he got sick ... I said to myself ... I don't like him, he doesn't want me, as long as I've exposed myself, as long as I've watched him with a protruding tongue like in Tex Ivery's comics, a big blade! And somehow I overdid it, demonstratively ... saying to myself that it's obvious how deliberately I do it ... A young boy is my coach, radiant, fresh, tall, laughing, an absolute professional ... only to leave in a month Australia will be there because it stays there ... but I'm on all its courses while it's still here! Theo's name is ... I make big muscles with him, no kidding! :-)) So ... I'm running today after work for Theo's next two courses at the club, aspiring, happy, ..., I know, that I will leave two and a half hours later with a smile and sweet fatigue in every muscle of my body, but ... I see Theo at the reception and with a big smile I greet him after Christmas ..., he replies kindly and seconds later this appears MY man ... he literally shoots out of the room, where he is always hiding from me ..., he stands in front of me almost ... expecting me to greet him too? !! WTF ?? They ruined my moment with Theo and without looking at him or greeting him I ran to the locker room ... but everything turned around for me ... I was so shaken by unbridled feelings that ... I closed my locker with a padlock and the key remained .. inside ...! And here I am again at the reception, after the end of my training, in a swimsuit, wet, tired, worried and furious that I was leaning against him, MY man, without wanting him ... not at this very moment ... We are leaving for the dressing room, splashing unnecessary things ... With the big pliers he made my padlock on salt and as a stumbled horse I thanked him, egati karka where I am! I died of shame, but he never tried to look at me ... wet and in a swimsuit ... And when I left, he was still hiding and he was not at the reception ... I missed a golden opportunity to congratulate him on Christmas and to talk to him, he was literally pushing himself into my arms and I will eat with the rags of anger that I ran away again ... even more left-handed and from the first time I showed him that I like him ... I thought that my thrill is over, but it's not at all ... Just pay attention to me and ... I'm losing my mind and my word ... A big blade ... And then padlocks, circuses, big trouble .. I don't know what's going to happen. .. I fell out of the pie with luck ... love! :-)) Blessed are the believers, ..., aren't they? !! :-)) I will write again, because there can be no sequel! ... And you, if you wish, share what thoughts my crazy ... odyssey with the man you like makes you think? !! the author

   My midnight anger has passed and now on a calm head (and sober :-), I think a little differently! ... The people have said it infinitely clearly: "Whatever you do to yourself, no one else can do to you!" ... And he said something else ... "Beauty cannot be done by force!" And one more thing ... When I came into his field of vision, he was running and hiding ..., and after I decided to ignore him (directly forces ...), he assumed that he appeared before my eyes and I hope he chases me now ... Hopefully, but not at all ... And if you run, they chase you, and if you chase, you run away! "!? I can't go back in time and correct my mistakes ..., I hope we can stop here with the left-wing performances and find ourselves and make normal, human contact! ... What is your opinion on the matter, men and women, who read my outpourings and are direct witnesses of my empty quarrel with men? !! Come on, help! And while I'm waiting for you to write, I wish you three things - love, love and love again! It is told to you by a person who has everything else ... and knows that love is the salt of life and without it everything becomes meaningless! the author

   Wow, if he reads your endless nonsense, shame even for a 13-year-old, he'll just quit his job!

   They haven't posted the only comment on my topic yet, but I need to share my torments with you and here I am again! They say that men offer, and women have ... Not with me either ... However, I have not been with many men in my life (they are less than the fingers of one hand…), but the ones I wanted .. never offered me ...! And in the end I was with men who wanted me, but it's not the same ... That's why I won't have sex without a shared thrill; that's why I'm dying that the scenario is repeated again ... and my desire is killed in its infancy again… How long? !! I want to be with a man once in this fucking life of mine, but it's close to my heart ... Once it just happens to me ... Do I want so much, damn it? !! I thought about the latest events ... The broken padlock is the exact metaphor for my future with the man at the reception ... I had hoped until a moment ... now it's too late and the broken, even more broken padlock, is just like my heart ... broken ...! And there is no glue to restore it as it was! ... Yes, but tomorrow is 31/12 ... And I decided to say New Year - new luck! Right? !! It's insulting for me to complain now, I hope to chase chimeras at my age ... I went to the gym not to give up at the first difficulty, but for tone, weight loss and tightening! I achieved all this in a negative short time with a lot of enthusiasm and perseverance! I even found a new environment of motivated and combative people! I have set some deadlines there ..., I pursue certain tasks and I stay in the ring! :-) I haven't had love with a man, it's a pity, but I will pursue my other tasks and I won't stop until I reach the expected result! I think that my most sensible decision so far is to proudly raise my head and move on! As of today! A padlock doesn't stick ... I screwed it up ..., with it my humiliation and vain hopes and so on! It is! I feel better after formulating it in front of you! Wish me good luck in the future that I really desperately need one! the author

   For many years! Alive and healthy! On January 1, something very interesting happened! Informatics came to my aid and literally pulled me out of the mud! I go to training like never before at almost 8 o'clock. in the evening ..., I'm talking to two girls about the embarrassing crashing of the club's server ..., depriving us of the opportunity to sign up for training at will via the Internet! One of the ladies advised me to register directly and live at the reception ... and I was just waiting for that, of course! :-)) We both went with her to the cherished place, empty, nothing new under the sun! :-)) And in one voice we shout: "Hello, the reception ?! Is there anyone ?!" He jumped out like a cork, worried, but we were waiting for him with big smiles and I said to him "The receptionist, you're hiding a lot! We need that the server dropped something on us, and he, like you, will you help ?! " I speak to him with a smile, I look him in the eyes and he heroically took my look with a smile and replied "You are struggling with the server, and do you ask us that our heads smoke ?!" the training is not waiting ... ", I continue laughing; He recorded the lady next to me, she left; My man knew my name, how strange :-)), he recorded me too, then we joked a bit more and before I left, I laughed and said to him "Courage with the server ... and as long as you hide, I don't eat men! "He was embarrassed, wished me a good evening and so on! Why did I do it? !! Because I was angry with the situation ... I just don't have the nerves for such a hiding place ... After the training, I saw him at the reception, we nodded and that's it. And the next day, I'm serious, I saw him not only greet me at the front desk, and I saw him again by the pool, where I was playing sports! Except that everything passes and goes and I'm no longer trembling, nor do I feel sick of knowing him up close and feeling how he's looking at me ... without doing anything ... I think it's just ... sad and funny at the same time! That's what it's called ... a left-handed train, right ?? , but I will not chase ... I want to be chased ... However, I know that we will stay with the kindly exchanged greetings and that's it! At least there is no more tension or worry! I think there is really nothing more to add! I wish you good luck and a happy 2019! author PS If I experience any development on the topic at all, I will write, of course! It would be really amazing! Right? !! :-)) I would forget ... By 12 I feel just like a kid, yes ... Now it happened to me and I experience it so tangibly, that even my stomach clenched with excitement ... And my first fall in love was well after 13 ... When did it happen to him ... Neither he will leave his job, nor I will leave ... He is not the first, who has neglected me; but I hope it is the last that I die for love ... Nothing ever makes my life easy for you. But you are not honored to belittle my trembling ...

   I have to share ... My favorite trainer Theo from the gym gathered us at a farewell party at the club a few hours ago - he flew to Australia next Wednesday ... - Disgusting, when the receptionist found himself next to me and ... will you know the topic he raised? !! The house, the woman, their 9-month-old baby, started showing photos from her phone ... I literally wanted to scratch on the pizzas ordered by Theo ... The "nice" (for me :) news, however, is not late :) I think I will he was laid off and didn't have much time left as a manager in the club ... because he didn't seem to be a receptionist, a big leek! I moved in with Theo and didn't move until the end of the evening ... Towards the end, the "receptionist" suggested that if that's how my story with Theo goes, would I have invited him to chat with us in private? !! WTF? !! I needed to sober up from my passion .... it's a pity that it happened in the most disgusting way possible .... A while ago I came home with a lump in my throat after I told Theo in public that he was great; never part with your charming smile; to remain the same professional who gives himself to Max, I wished him success, ... and I don't seem to like 24-year-olds? !! :) He blushed, thanked me and left ... Egati said where I was ... If the other one still stays in the club, it will still be me ... There is not a gram of attraction to him anymore ... I don't even I have to change the club ... This was the pathetic outcome of my hopeless thrills! the author never part with your charming smile; to remain the same professional who gives himself to Max, I wished him success, ... and I don't seem to like 24-year-olds? !! :) He blushed, thanked me and left ... Egati said where I was ... If the other one still stays in the club, it will still be me ... There is not a gram of attraction to him anymore ... I don't even I have to change the club ... This was the pathetic outcome of my hopeless thrills! the author never part with your charming smile; to remain the same professional who gives himself to Max, I wished him success, ... and I don't seem to like 24-year-olds? !! :) He blushed, thanked me and left ... Egati said where I was ... If the other one still stays in the club, it will still be me ... There is not a gram of attraction to him anymore ... I don't even I have to change the club ... This was the pathetic outcome of my hopeless thrills! the author

   Sorry author, but you are an emotionally hysterical woman with a developed imagination. It is better to keep a diary than to keep the monologues of the untouched vagina here. Poor man, if he reads your notes, he'll just quit his job, honestly.

   From everything written, it is clear to me that you go to Pulse. I don't know who you spat at, but it's not bad to stop in charge. Apparently he doesn't like you.

   Let me tell you, I would be embarrassed by the things you said at the front desk. You sound like a pensioner. Then don't wonder why they don't tie you up. You fit in with a conservative man like you, you have no social skills and you seem to be from the time of socialism. F 29.

   Hello, When I wrote that night, after the party, I was so affected by the recent events that reading today (sober and calm :-), I realized the wrong impression that I have certainly left on you! ... What actually happened? !! I was wondering if I should go to Theo's farewell ... I foresaw that I would tell myself everything and expose myself, but my desire to see him for the last time prevailed, I grabbed him and left, but I hadn't hesitated or anything ... I was almost dressed for sports :-), only that damn lump in my throat that always appears when I least need it ...! I go, I stand a little to one side, because he was with the other coaches and they were laughing something; we all approached the table and then the receptionist clung to me and began to overwhelm me with information about his family happiness ... even to call his wife with the baby to the party for a while, to make it very clear to me that he is busy and so ... what insolence? !! It was disgusting to feel him drinking my eyes, lurking my reaction as he showed me pictures of the family idyll ... I felt like the last mold ignored once again, gritted my teeth and watched Theo, who was bored opposite, because everyone around was just pounding and so much so, I asked myself "What would make you happy to the max, right now, at this moment and would get you out of your emotional hole ?!" And I answered myself "To have sex and drink with Theo ..."! Said, done! I got up and without turning around, I went to Theo, sat down next to him and only then I took out of my bag the bottle of cold Prosecco that I was carrying, I gave it to him, kissed him on both cheeks :-) and wished him all the best in the Australian lands! I saw how surprised he was by my gesture, no one had brought him anything ..., he laughed, thanked me and said "You know, I don't drink alcohol, but sit here next to me, let's open it and drink it!" And we really only drank it, toast after toast :-) and we talked ... I didn't really know him until then, I went to his trainings because he was undoubtedly the best, very technical, well-meaning, absolute professional ..., and he wasn't at all split, normal, athletic and modest, he was just wearing jeans and a T-shirt that night, what else? !! I didn't know how shy he was, though ... I thought he had a tail of babes sunk on him, okay, right? !! Yes but no! It turned out that he didn't have a girlfriend and as an absolute adventurer, he left alone! "I'm so angry you're leaving!" I told him. "I've been pushing here since I was 18, I want to travel a little ... ", he answered me;" It's a pity that you leave us ... Many people will miss you, you know ... ", I continue;" I'm not going to Australia to stay there ... I have a classmate settled there, but I'll take care of myself, I only prepaid 2 nights at a hotel in Sydney, then ... I don't know! ... However, I know that I will return here ... Let me take advantage of my youth and freedom a little more, now is my time! ", he told me; Then I realized what a pearl I have in front of me ..., earthy, understood, everything I like ..., but not for a moment did I think of anything ?! One day if I have a daughter, I would like to He brought me such a boy for a son-in-law ... with some jeans and a T-shirt, but firmly on the ground, knowing what he wants from life and fighting for it! He gave me his Facebook without asking me, and I didn't dare to admit it to him, that I just don't have one ... I don't like gossip like that ... And when the receptionist cracks up with the suggestion that I invite Theo home? !? , I was just speechless ... out of indignation and insult, yes, insult! I looked at him in such a way that if he could kill himself with his eyes, he would definitely be a corpse ... My thrill to him died the moment he allowed himself to show me a picture of his people and did not stop inflating my head with them until I left, disgusted ... When we left the party, there were exactly 5 people left, including him, but he is to blame ...; I didn't care if he was there ... with his last toss he literally collapsed in my eyes ... and that's it! Then I said goodbye to Theo and blushed at him with my words - I wanted to tell him, to know him and to remember him, not to change, because I do not believe that I will see him again at all! And when I saw him in what a cool, albeit dusty :-) Audi tossed, I smiled and said to myself "Well, no one is perfect!", Because even if it was in a broken Opel, it would still retain my absolute sympathies! :-) So far with my thrills from the gym ... Life goes on, but I don't think I'll ever allow myself to show my sympathy for a man again ... it's too salty for me and I prefer to save it! Stay healthy! the author

   Most of all, I like various little souls to allow themselves to try to think about my life ... without much success, however ... except in the face of their own malice and mediocrity! More untalented comments from 16, 17 and 18 I had not read for a long time, horror outright! However, I will disappoint them :-)) The one who exposed himself in front of me at the party and whom I cut so unceremoniously and ignored, I think he likes ... strange as it may sound? !! I've been in the gym again for 4 days and he's definitely pushing himself in my field of vision, he's still on my way, he's looking for communication with me ..., he's looking for me with his eyes, insistently ... I go out through the side exit so as not to detect it ... I don't know what to expect? !! When I looked for him, he was hiding; after I cut him, is he looking for me? !! Is this always the case? !! What does he want from me anyway? !! Is he hoping for something after all? !! He disappointed me, insulted me, rejected me ... and now what? !! I want a normal, serious relationship ... not a game of hide and seek !? He knows what's been wrong with me for months, I haven't hidden him, I've never been more left-handed with a man ... Why didn't you just tell me he was engaged and so ... What are these verbal outbursts, photos, what are these circuses !? I can't stand tactless men ... There are a million ways to push a woman away ... He chose the most left-handed ... We're both left-handed, that's clear ... And now what? !! I would like to go to the gym in peace, not to run and hide ... May my head be at peace ... Bound that a tactless man will not ... How would you do? !! Any tips? !! Ideas? !! Only if they are constructive, please! Men, tell me, why is that? !! the author I want a normal, serious relationship ... not a game of hide and seek !? He knows what's been wrong with me for months, I haven't hidden him, I've never been more left-handed with a man ... Why didn't he just tell me he was engaged and so ... What are these verbal outbursts, photos, what are these circuses !? I can't stand tactless men ... There are a million ways to push a woman away ... He chose the most left-handed ... We're both left-handed, that's clear ... And now what? !! I would like to go to the gym in peace, not to run and hide ... May my head be at peace ... Bound that a tactless man will not ... How would you do? !! Any tips? !! Ideas? !! Only if they are constructive, please! Men, tell me, why is that? !! the author I want a normal, serious relationship ... not a game of hide and seek !? He knows what's been wrong with me for months, I haven't hidden him, I've never been more left-handed with a man ... Why didn't he just tell me he was engaged and so ... What are these verbal outbursts, photos, what are these circuses !? I can't stand tactless men ... There are a million ways to push a woman away ... He chose the most left-handed ... We're both left-handed, that's clear ... And now what? !! I would like to go to the gym in peace, not to run and hide ... May my head be at peace ... Bound that a tactless man will not ... How would you do? !! Any tips? !! Ideas? !! Only if they are constructive, please! Men, tell me, why is that? !! the author What are these verbal outbursts, photos, what are these circuses !? I can't stand tactless men ... There are a million ways to push a woman away ... He chose the most left-handed ... We're both left-handed, that's clear ... And now what? !! I would like to go to the gym in peace, not to run and hide ... May my head be at peace ... Bound that a tactless man will not ... How would you do? !! Any tips? !! Ideas? !! Only if they are constructive, please! Men, tell me, why is that? !! the author What are these verbal outbursts, photos, what are these circuses !? I can't stand tactless men ... There are a million ways to push a woman away ... He chose the most left-handed ... We're both left-handed, that's clear ... And now what? !! I would like to go to the gym in peace, not to run and hide ... May my head be at peace ... Bound that a tactless man will not ... How would you do? !! Any tips? !! Ideas? !! Only if they are constructive, please! Men, tell me, why is that? !! the author Ideas? !! Only if they are constructive, please! Men, tell me, why is that? !! the author Ideas? !! Only if they are constructive, please! Men, tell me, why is that? !! the author

   Today again "the old song in a new voice"? !! As soon as I entered the club and had to ask a question to the receptionist, the real one :), he jumped out like a cork from the "manager's room", as I already call him :), only to greet me and looked at me so that I asked myself directly, "Why? Why? Why? You have a family, what the hell are you looking at me like you haven't seen a woman?" Wasn't I clear when I let him know that there is no way, but absolutely no way to have anything, ever ..., ever? !! That it's too late, libe, for a wrist !? Tell me, men, why does he do it? !! Help de! Help is called :) I would like to be quiet there in the room and that's it! Didn't you realize that you don't want a lover, but a serious, exclusive relationship? !! Do I have any alternative but to run and hide? !! At the other extreme I passed ... no more attention or looks! I'm annoyed by them! Sorry if I bothered you! I expect male opinions, not female complex ones ... Thank you! The author

   Author, why did you decide that women's opinions are "complex"? Because don't they suit you? And what is your last question, what help do you want from men and what answers do you expect from them? Apparently you have more than clearly shown your interest in the man in question at the reception, and he has no doubt learned of your aspirations. Doesn't the fact that at any time this man didn't offer you any relationship (not exclusive, the one you wanted, but he didn't offer you non-committal sex) mean anything to you? And doesn't the fact that this man not only didn't take you down at the party in question, but also clarified his situation to you - that he is committed and obviously cares about his family, tell you anything? I only understand that the latter irritated you a lot, but not that you drew any conclusions from this fact. And the conclusion is more than clear and you don't need any help to get to it, as long as you come out of this movie for a while, where you made it yourself, and show some beginnings of elementary thought. Since you are obviously not capable of doing it, let me tell you quite clearly. If this man had minimal interest in you as a woman, even if it was just for sex for one night, there is absolutely no logic in hiding from you and avoiding you, much less in the logic of the party going to tell you and shows pictures of his wife and baby. Well, surely this tells you about your family happiness, you perceive it as a leftist way to repel you, but judging by your last outpouring, even that was not enough to get you out of the movie you got into. What if he left his office when you went to the gym again? How did you come to the conclusion that he wanted to be your lover? since he never even hinted to you about such a thing, let alone the serious relationship you wanted? Do you think he should stay locked in his office all day and not move from there, just not to run into you, because you interpret his every move in this gym as an attempt to become your lover? I don't know how old you are, but I have the feeling that you don't have a gram of experience with men. This is the only way I can explain the absurd conclusions you draw from the fact that a man passed by the pool while you were swimming in it (by the way, are you alone in this pool, were there no other people in it?) Or was or was not was at the front desk when you entered this gym. Given that this man has never hinted to you that he has an interest in any relationship with you, but has had this opportunity many times, and instead tells you about his family happiness at a party, what else do you want him to do to show you that he has no aspirations for you? Shout it out to you every time you walk into the gym (you can hardly afford it, given you're a client) or maybe put up a "I don't care" sign? If you want, also qualify my opinion as "complex", although I have neither complexes nor a reason for such. But if you want to hear a really objective opinion, then from everything you have described, it is clear that you have fallen for this man, but he has no interest in you. Believe me, there is no man who wants to take you down by telling you how happy he is in his family. Even you realized that he wanted to push you away with that. So, what in that case is not clear to you and what advice do you expect from men? that there are no aspirations for you? Shout it out to you every time you walk into the gym (you can hardly afford it, given you're a client) or maybe put up a "I don't care" sign? If you want, also qualify my opinion as "complex", although I have neither complexes nor a reason for such. But if you want to hear a really objective opinion, then from everything you have described, it is clear that you have fallen for this man, but he has no interest in you. Believe me, there is no man who wants to take you down by telling you how happy he is in his family. Even you realized that he wanted to push you away with that. So, what in that case is not clear to you and what advice do you expect from men? that there are no aspirations for you? Shout it out to you every time you walk into the gym (you can hardly afford it, given you're a client) or maybe put up a "I don't care" sign? If you want, also qualify my opinion as "complex", although I have neither complexes nor a reason for such. But if you want to hear a really objective opinion, then from everything you have described, it is clear that you have fallen for this man, but he has no interest in you. Believe me, there is no man who wants to take you down by telling you how happy he is in his family. Even you realized that he wanted to push you away with that. So, what in that case is not clear to you and what advice do you expect from men? ? If you want, also qualify my opinion as "complex", although I have neither complexes nor a reason for such. But if you want to hear a really objective opinion, then from everything you have described, it is clear that you have fallen for this man, but he has no interest in you. Believe me, there is no man who wants to take you down by telling you how happy he is in his family. Even you realized that he wanted to push you away with that. So, what in that case is not clear to you and what advice do you expect from men? ? If you want, also qualify my opinion as "complex", although I have neither complexes nor a reason for such. But if you want to hear a really objective opinion, then from everything you have described, it is clear that you have fallen for this man, but he has no interest in you. 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   Today came the long-awaited denouement :) After unsuccessfully trying to get my attention all morning, the club manager waited for me in front of the club after my last training and smiling, asked me how I was, and then told me that he had two concert tickets at the National Palace of Culture and offered me to accompany him? !! His wife was not a music lover and he always went alone ... I didn't want to go out anywhere with a committed man, I replied, wished him a good day and left! It was enough for me to finish him once and for all! Sorry 22, but didn't guess! The women's comments are exactly as I described them - pathetic, vicious and unnecessary! The author who closes the topic

   Ok, author. I give up. No one can take you out of your movie, and if he tries, his comment is pathetic, vicious, and unnecessary. So I change mine as follows: This man is madly in love with you, and that's the only reason he goes to work and goes in and out of his office. I'm sure he'll dump his wife and baby for you soon. I hope you will like this comment of mine more, and whether it is a sincere opinion and whether it has a connection with reality is obviously irrelevant to you.

   He just saw that you were wrapped up in him and decided to pass you.

   Here is the final outcome - they reduced his managerial position and since the end of April there is no one in the club. I play sports calmly, without unnecessary nerves and jogging. That's it. I wish my next thrill was shared by a free man, so that I could experience it the way my soul and body want it! the author

   Author, you are not a teenager or under 30 to blink something to happen to you. When you are attracted to something young, take it! They can't resist 30 women actively playing sports.

   Enough spotting, and act de! When I read your dreams, even I get butterflies in my stomach. But you really are a big scratch! (At least scratch yourself :). And no, women are not mean and pathetic! In a few days I will be 48, married with two older daughters! I also have a favorite (9 years younger) who makes me feel like the most special person on earth! He is neither rich nor in any high position! We are just one! I didn't believe it would happen to me - we adore each other! I know I won't divorce as much as he wants me to! He is beautiful, tall, passionate and fiery! And instead of getting old, the opposite happens! I wish you a storm of love and passion!

   hallelujah, the show is over! now let's expect a second season - there is a new seller of fruit and vegetables next to us, he chooses nice tomatoes for me, I think he likes me, but is he serious or just sex, m? :-)) If it was just for sex, I guess he would choose cucumbers, what do you think?

   The author of your motto should be - Hell nah, been waitin too long You are smart, you write very comprehensively and you are certainly a passionate interlocutor. Why don't you do that with men? It will certainly be with your self-confidence or rather the lack of it. If coordinates could be exchanged here, I would turn you around like a village bottle opener

   I will follow the new season and I will tremble for the finale: whether they will be taken (as in any porn) :) And let the prominent neglected wives - moralists and sexually-ignored uncles at the expense of the whole bloc - not spare comments.