Hello, I am a young man, I have been living, studying and working in Sofia for several years, I come from a small Bulgarian town. When I was a student, I dreamed of leaving the small town and going to Sofia. I was bored and of the same type, in Sofia I was attracted by career opportunities, the many girls, the youth entertainment. I also found a good job, a girl and new friends. Lately, however, a thought has not given me peace, and it is radically contrary to my previous reasoning. Shouldn't I go back to my hometown? I know that there are no great career prospects, but it is calm, clean, in nature, perfect for starting a family. Sofia seems to me more and more dirty and more and more busy. Every day I have to travel long distances to work, constant noise and crowds from everywhere. Not to mention that the rents are huge for accommodation. However, there are still factors which stop me from coming back - my girlfriend, who has no desire to go to a small town and wants to be in Sofia, the lack of many jobs in my hometown and therefore I have to accept that I will not have a great career development, the lack of many cultural events. 1. Do you think I should follow my current desire to return to the small town or will I regret it? 2. Are there any girls who would choose to change the big city with the small one at all, because I notice that we men are more inclined to such a decision? 3. Great career or quiet life? This is the essence of the whole dilemma, and I still can't figure out in my head what is worth more than both. that I will not have a great career development, the lack of many cultural events. 1. Do you think I should follow my current desire to return to the small town or will I regret it? 2. Are there any girls who would choose to change the big city with the small one at all, because I notice that we men are more inclined to such a decision? 3. Great career or quiet life? This is the essence of the whole dilemma, and I still can't figure out in my head what is worth more than both. that I will not have a great career development, the lack of many cultural events. 1. Do you think I should follow my current desire to return to the small town or will I regret it? 2. Are there any girls who would choose to change the big city with the small one at all, because I notice that we men are more inclined to such a decision? 3. Great career or quiet life? This is the essence of the whole dilemma, and I still can't figure out in my head what is worth more than both. Great career or quiet life? This is the essence of the whole dilemma, and I still can't figure out in my head what is worth more than both. Great career or quiet life? This is the essence of the whole dilemma, and I still can't figure out in my head what is worth more than both.
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It doesn't matter at all what it is and what we think it is - you will not live with any of those we write to you here, and each person has different preferences. All this you and your girlfriend should discuss. After you ask, I will say my opinion: in my opinion, the only thing that is worth it, as you put it, is a great career and a quiet life - any other option leads to a feeling of dissatisfaction in the years to come.