Hello, I have always thought and relied on me to share my story with you. I can't tell anyone and say my words like here. You know, we live in a fast-paced and impatient world, everyone has problems in their lives and no time to listen. So I will be happy for you to give me advice or at least read my story. My husband and I have been living together for 7 years. We live in his house. His father died young and only my husband's mother remains in this house. My husband's sister lives in another city. But she decides that in 3-4 months in the summer, she will return to us with her child. His mother is the worst person you can know. She hates me for being here and doesn't think well of us. My husband and I get along great, we are loved and we are united and cohesive. We are constantly together and we do our work together. He cares a lot about me, but we have a huge obstacle in our lives. His mother and sister. Believe me, they are the most evil and disgusting offspring. We had a fight last summer, I couldn't stand his sister because he was interfering with us and he was everywhere. One day while my husband was at work, they both jumped on me. They almost hit me. They stalked the moment to make him gone. I was furious. I have never been humiliated like that. I am always polite and kind to people. Patient, but everything has its limits. I was patient because of him, and they finally realized that they couldn't interfere with us. It will not be theirs. None of their relatives tolerate them. They have done so much intrigue to everyone that no one wants to hear about them. I have never hated, but now my heart is broken by malice and hatred. I am even told that his father got drunk because of this scum - my husband's mother and died of alcohol. Evil witch who swears to us and that's all in her head all day. Several times in 7 years, my husband and I broke up. I could not stand the energy and malice in this house, which hovers everywhere because of her, and we quarreled with him. My soul and mind did not gather all this. I had the feeling that God could not help me, And I am a believer and I have always relied on God! I finally realized that they were the cause. I don't know if you believe in magic, but they were made for us. They only want to live in this house and do what they want. Now my husband and I are together and we will not give up. Thank you in advance! And I am a believer and I have always relied on God! I finally realized that they were the cause. I don't know if you believe in magic, but they were made for us. They only want to live in this house and do what they want. Now my husband and I are together and we will not give up. Thank you in advance! And I am a believer and I have always relied on God! I finally realized that they were the cause. I don't know if you believe in magic, but they were made for us. They only want to live in this house and do what they want. Now my husband and I are together and we will not give up. Thank you in advance!
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His sister does not return to you, she returns to her home, where she also has a share of the house. And you, if you do not want anyone to interfere with you, live in your own home.
I have questions. If the reason is that they only want the two of them in the house, why don't they attack your husband? What exactly are their words, do they have anything to do with your actions or inactions? Does your husband attack them? Does he protect you or is he silent in front of them? The law states that his mother and sister own ideal parts after the death of the husband / father, so his sister does not come to you but to her house. But without any details about the events, I can't give any advice other than looking for opportunities to buy your own home. And if you are a believer in God, it is good to know the old lesson of thousands of years: When a problem comes your way, do not say to yourself "God, what a big problem I have", tell the problem what a great Lord you have with you.
In fact, you do not live in his house, but in his parents' house, in his mother's case. His sister has as much right to be there as your husband. You are in someone else's house. Haven't you thought about having your own home? That way you won't have to communicate with his relatives.
Honey, this is not life! To be under pressure forever, to have scandals and quarrels forever, so if your husband supports you, it's best to find a way to get out of there for rent. Yes, it's not fun to pay rent when you actually have a home, but living in such a poisonous environment for years is also not possible! Otherwise, by law, your husband is entitled to 1/4 of the property, as heir to his father. Half belongs to his mother, and the other half is shared by him and his sister. And this is an option to convince your mother or sister to buy his share, and with the money you can buy something of your own, albeit modestly. The important thing is to be away from these two! And if it's in the studio.
And do you know that with this fight you gain nothing. Everyone must live separately. So instead of messing around, find a way to get out and have your own home. Such relations are typical of the Balkans and Muslim countries. He struggles to live on his own, not to spread out in the house soaked in malice and to cure diseases tomorrow.
I don't understand why you're pushing yourself to stand there and lead the warrior? Why are you causing it? This is her house, her home she built with her husband. It is normal for your sister to be annoyed that you have moved there - if you want peace and tranquility and after you are united and supported, just go out and create your home together.
Get out of this house. Let them win. If he doesn't want to, leave him.
Hello! My dear, I was and it can be said that I am still in a similar situation as yours, except that we are already at home and his mother is abroad. And in the same way, his sister and his mother attacked me, insulted me, almost jumped into a fight and I, in the same way as you, felt so humiliated and so bad ... then no one talked to me, they talked neighbors for me, etc .. After mine lost his job he thought to go to his mother abroad, but I was adamant that this would not happen and that we were going to a big city to continue my education because I interrupted because of him and he to find a job and work. That's what happened, but it also harms us from abroad. We love each other endlessly, but the problems don't stop because of her, just because she's jealous of me. His sister is also terrible garbage. I don't know about your mother-in-law, but mine is the worst person, which I have seen so far. And it's not just my opinion, many people who know her say that she is a very evil and bad person and that I should beware of her like fire. When she finds out that my husband and I have a fight (because it seems to him), she starts trying to replace me and thanks to her not to feel my lack. She writes him things like "honey, chick", which disgusts me and I feel terrible, but that's it. And we literally got along yesterday because we didn't look for each other for a few days, again because she's causing us problems. I don't know what to do with this woman anymore, should I get fat and pretend or ignore her at all, in general I'm in a dead end tunnel too .. When she finds out that my husband and I have a fight (because it seems to him), she starts trying to replace me and thanks to her not to feel my lack. She writes him things like "honey, chick", which disgusts me and I feel terrible, but that's it. And we literally got along yesterday because we didn't look for each other for a few days, again because she's causing us problems. I don't know what to do with this woman anymore, should I get fat and pretend or ignore her at all, in general I'm in a dead end tunnel too .. When she finds out that my husband and I have a fight (because it seems to him), she starts trying to replace me and thanks to her not to feel my lack. She writes him things like "honey, chick", which disgusts me and I feel terrible, but that's it. And we literally got along yesterday because we didn't look for each other for a few days, again because she's causing us problems. I don't know what to do with this woman anymore, should I get fat and pretend or ignore her at all, in general I'm in a dead end tunnel too ..
Be strong, success !!!
Get out of this house - buy an apartment or go for rent. Health and family happiness are priceless. We did so and now we are very happy away from his toxic parents.
I, too, have suffered from the evils and envy of his mother and sister. We also have magic, but they have already processed it in such a way that they even forgot about our children ... The decision is to get out of this house - I vomited!
Well, get out. She already owns the house to his mother, so she can live there peacefully in the old days. You, if you are young and healthy people, do not believe so much that you can not rent a small apartment or even as a starting room somewhere. If everything is as you describe it, the healthiest thing for you would be just that - elsewhere, independent and calm. As apparently his sister did.
While you are in their common home, you are a stranger. Find yours, no matter how difficult it is for you. This way you will see for yourself what kind of wife and housewife you will be, and your husband will see if you can do some things in your home, his mother will have to come with an invitation, and the sister, only if she is called, I guess even less it will interfere with you.
Just move out and cut off contact with them, otherwise on the other side of the world they will still not stop their toxic effects on you.
Haha "you will not give up". Your only option is to move out, hasn't it crossed your mind? Otherwise, if you stay there, I don't believe your relationship will last long. It is because of such mothers that many people separate.
You're very bad, honestly. His mother can be anything, this is HER house. Find yours and get out of there.