Hello! I'm a 25-year-old boy, a programmer as you can imagine without a girlfriend for three years now, I don't have a sex life, I'm obsessed with work because I don't do anything "interesting" (cafes, discos, etc.). In general, an antisocial person. Last night I decided to call a companion (for the first time in a long time) we agreed to come to the address and an hour later she came. I paid and undressed he told me to go to bed, I settled down and started with oral love, probably at 15 MIN and guess what - I DIDN'T HAPPEN, I started to worry even more, he told me to try for the last time and that's it ... he tried and NOTHING AGAIN. It was the most awkward naughty situation ever in my life, I was totally exposed, a complete failure. I was completely desperate, I don't know what to do, the thought doesn't leave me, it kills me, it can't go on like this. Give some advice people really ... can't stand it.
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* Abe people, the fact that you are a programmer, what does it have to do with the topics you write? * Either you want to brag, or you "programmers" think you are hyper-congested. * It has happened to every man, whether he will be young or old, it doesn't matter. * Do we have to list what ajeba can be made of? * Stress. * Porn. * Masturbation more than normal. * Health problems. * This is a prostitute, should she care? !! She takes her money and forgets about you, not thinking she will think about you, and how it didn't happen to you during her job. It's like the cashiers at the cash register in a supermarket, thinking of them as friends, just because they smiled and greeted you, abe boy after the ground. -Maryan
There are many reasons. Given the fact that you don't have an active sex life, I assume you watch a lot of porn. Recent years of research have shown that porn increases the risk of impotence a LOT. Try the following - stop all porn, reduce masturbation to 1-2 times a week (without porn) and try again after three months. If you don't have a girlfriend then, go to a prostitute. If it does not happen again, see a doctor.
It happened to me too. This is a concern. It was very awkward for me too. Irregular sex leads there. For this, order again until you relax. Don't worry, act. Don't procrastinate.
Don't worry, she was happy. Nothing was done, but the steam was collected. In my opinion, you were just worried from the beginning, and when you saw that it wasn't working, you were completely blown away. If the companion was a crocodile ...
man, I was young like you and I had the same problem as you, I didn't feel anxious. You just worry and that's why it happens. You are not used to a woman's body and that's how it works. Don't worry, this is the case with an awful lot of men. Now I will tell you how to solve your problem, it was solved for me, for a friend and for him. It is very important that you do everything I tell you. You don't shine or watch porn for a few days, preferably 3-4 days. Since you think about it a lot, you need something to blur your thinking a little - alcohol. You drink, if it's beer, a few beers, if it's hard alcohol, a few wine / brandies / mint / mastic / whiskey, which you like, maybe about 3-4, no more. In my opinion, hard alcohol is better, it works much better. Then you go to a happy end masseuse, not a prostitute, but a masseuse, which offers only a release massage (supposedly it will make you a chick during the massage), there is no worry that it must be hard and have penetration, they anoint you with some massage oils and it's nice. You pay to be naked so you can get used to the female body. You also tell the masseuse not to hurry and drive slowly. I guarantee you it will happen to you. Walk a few times like this, abstinence for a few days, alcohol, masseuse, after a few times reduce the alcohol to a beer or a brandy, then remove it alcohol. The first few times it is good to be with the same masseuse, then start changing them, change at least 5-6 masseuses so you can learn to relax with a woman. Then you can try with a prostitute, if you want, but again on the same scheme necessarily, a few days of abstinence, alcohol and then with the prostitute. And if you catch a girlfriend and have sex, you must drink the first time to relax and not think about it, otherwise you may still have a foul. You can then remove the alcohol.
So what advice can we give you ... you see the problems very clearly and on your own. "Antisocial personality", "no sex life" - this is the truth. It's sexuality is not like program code, you run it and it runs, and it does the same thing every time, unless there's a bug. Sexuality is a human quality and requires a human attitude. It is part of many processes of getting closer to someone, of getting to know each other, of loving, of wanting to be united ... Besides, it is part of a larger process of continuing gender and species ... have you performed directly or indirectly? None! You took her out of context, you suppressed her or you didn't pay any attention to her for a long time, and finally you expect a foreign, paid woman who is nothing to "raise" her ? You have reduced it to a box of cigarettes or chocolates, which you can simply acquire with money, open and consume ... Well, it doesn't work, brother. Do you have LOVE in your life at all? A human being you often think of and think about with affection? Who would you take care of, help, protect for free? How would you build relationships, family, future? Without that, what would be the means of expression of your sexuality? Work is a good thing, but everything in life must run in parallel, at the same time. And work, and relationships with other people, and love life, family, children, hobbies, entertainment, cultural life (cinema, theater, music), sports, learning, trips and vacations ... Do you miss, do you ignore even one of these things, you start to suffer ... you start to lead an incomplete life and existence, you start to lag behind in a certain area ... The organs and skills that are not used start to atrophy and disappear - have you heard that? The problem with the fatal night is just the tip of the iceberg! "Under the water", there are many, many more problems in your unconscious. Start resolving them NOW! Look for friends, psychologists, start going to gyms - to play sports, to socialize. Bars and chalgoteks are really not very "interesting" places for an intelligent person, but besides them there are courses in dance, yoga, all kinds of clubs and clubs - off-road, extreme sports, mountaineering, climbing, photography and what not. . And they are already so accessible - they have websites, Facebook groups. And there are young women in them who, in addition to being like-minded, can also be your potential partners! If once, just once you have a nice, nutritious healthy sex with a woman you're in love with, and everyone thinks the other is great in every way, then you won't think about companions anymore, nor will you remember what it is this problems in sex. Then you will understand what it is like to be loved and wanted, loving and wanting, and your sexuality will be just one of the many means of expression of love. Supposedly it will be in place. I suggest you harness all your strength, overcome yourself, break your current stereotype of life and work to get there. Otherwise ... you will continue to "enjoy" an incomplete and wasted life, despite a good job and good pay. that he is great in every way, then you will not think about companions anymore, nor will you remember what problems in sex are. Then you will understand what it is like to be loved and wanted, loving and wanting, and your sexuality will be just one of the many means of expression of love. Supposedly it will be in place. I suggest you to harness all your strength, to overcome yourself, to break your current stereotype of life and work to get there. Otherwise ... you will continue to "enjoy" an incomplete and wasted life, despite a good job and good pay. that he is great in every way, then you will not think more about companions, nor will you remember what problems in sex are. Then you will understand what it is like to be loved and wanted, loving and wanting, and your sexuality will be just one of the many means of expression of love. Supposedly it will be in place. I suggest you harness all your strength, overcome yourself, break your current stereotype of life and work to get there. Otherwise ... you will continue to "enjoy" an incomplete and wasted life, despite a good job and good pay. Supposedly it will be in place. I suggest you harness all your strength, overcome yourself, break your current stereotype of life and work to get there. Otherwise ... you will continue to "enjoy" an incomplete and wasted life, despite a good job and good pay. Supposedly it will be in place. I suggest you harness all your strength, overcome yourself, break your current stereotype of life and work to get there. Otherwise ... you will continue to "enjoy" an incomplete and wasted life, despite a good job and good pay.
I have ordered 3-4 times, the same. I make her undress slowly, look at her body. Even then it happens to me. Then he opens his way in front of my face, opens his ass and shrinks and relaxes his anus. And from there we fuck. We found out with her to order it without anal sex, cheaper. And on the spot then I pay extra for anal. So the surcharge comes only for her.
To number 1: I do not agree that porn can be the cause of his problem! I masturbate on the 2nd day, when there is no woman next to me and it has happened to me only once!
Всичко обвиняват порното като причина за почти всички проблеми. Аз ще ти дам един пример точно от порното. Има една унгарска порноактриса, доста известна напоследък. Има серия от клипчета с нея и нейна колежка, където се снимат пред камерата с обикновени момчета на възраст 18-20 год. Един вид осъществява мечтата на всеки тинейджър. Обаче резултатът не е това което се очаква. 80% от момчетата имат проблеми с ерекцията, като повечето изобщо не успяват да го вдигнат въпреки усилията на мацката. Просто се смущават от камерата, от обстановката и преди всичко от самата актриса. При теб се е получило точно същото. Вредата от порното ако може да се нарече така е именно в насаждането на една погрешна представа, че мъжът е едва ли не машина и като види гола жена трябва моментално да е готов и да чука до откат. Това изобщо не е така, аз съм имал засечки, мои приятели също са ми споделяли за проблеми особено когато е било за първи път с нова приятелка. При тебе голяма грешка е било да ходиш при платено момиче, предвид липсата ти на увереност още от преди това. Така само задълбочаваш проблема както всъщност вече се е случило. Като съвет мога да ти дам да се опиташ изградиш някакви взаимоотношения с момиче, да я опознаеш, на някакъв етап може да споделиш за проблемите си и заедно да се опитате да ги преодолеете. С две думи имаш нужда от пълноценна връзка, за да се отпуснеш и да натрупаш увереност. Няма да стане лесно и едва ли от първия път, но от теб зависи. Насочи усилията си в тази насока и забрави за платените ку*ви, секса не е стока, която получаваш като плащаш. Това важи точно за такива като теб, казвам ти го от личен опит. Успех!
Dude, I'm 24 and I have the same problem. Keep in mind that I am a normal looking boy, have been having sex regularly since I lost my virginity and have been with 5 women so far. I have always been in a serious relationship except with one girl and I have felt feelings for all of them at intervals of 6 years. I've never been with a prostitute before. Whenever I had sex with a girl for the first time, I drowned and it didn't work out, but believe me, once I cross the psychological barrier, I don't have any problems. I had sex 7 times in one day and it happened to me again. All this is on a psychological basis and I understand you WONDERFULLY how you feel. Eventually, my girlfriend and I have a problem again, but I know it's psychological and I can handle it. I tell you from the EXPERIENCE advice I can give you are: 1. Stop masturbating and cumming for as long as possible before having sex. If you can for weeks. Eventually you will feel how you just need a woman and it will happen to you at the most harmless thought of her. 2. Drink something, but do not overdo it - 3 beers or 3 brandies are a lot. Drink 1 beer or 1 brandy. Alcohol affects erections. Although here I will add that I had sex on 1 bottle of rum, and in another case I did not get up in the morning as I had not drunk for 1 week and this all with the same girl with whom I went for 3 years. 3. Reduce porn as well. I watch a lot of porn and it didn't bother me before, but now I'm starting to feel it and I think it has an impact. 4. Think about it minimally. (I know it's very difficult, yes.) Spontaneous erections helped me. Then I realized that I actually can and that in fact the problem is not physiological, but mental. Trust me, that if you don't polish for 1 week you will have them and you will see that the devil is not so black. 5 *. If all these things don't help and you find Viagra for the second time. I personally haven't gotten this far, but I think it will work for DISPOSABLE use. I think this will happen to you 100% and once you have sex you will see that you can and from there you will be better for sure. 6 **. If all this does not help, go to the doctor to make sure you have no problems. I am 100% sure that everything is on a mental basis, because believe me, this has happened to everyone. I've talked to both boys and girls and it happens. It's all about frenzy and panic. The chances of it not happening to you are very small and most people do not say out of pride. Good luck and then write to brag, because there will be something! If all these things do not help and the second time you find yourself buy Viagra. I personally haven't gotten this far, but I think it will work for DISPOSABLE use. I think this will happen to you 100% and once you have sex you will see that you can and from there you will be better for sure. 6 **. If all this does not help, go to the doctor to make sure you have no problems. I am 100% sure that everything is on a mental basis, because believe me, this has happened to everyone. I've talked to both boys and girls and it happens. It's all about frenzy and panic. The chances of it not happening to you are very small and most people do not say out of pride. Good luck and then write to brag, because there will be something! If all these things don't help and you find Viagra for the second time. I personally haven't gotten this far, but I think it will work for DISPOSABLE use. I think this will happen to you 100% and once you have sex you will see that you can and from there you will be better for sure. 6 **. If all this does not help, go to the doctor to make sure you have no problems. I am 100% sure that everything is on a mental basis, because believe me, this has happened to everyone. I've talked to both boys and girls and it happens. It's all about frenzy and panic. The chances of it not happening to you are very small and most people do not say out of pride. Good luck and then write to brag, because there will be something! that you can and from there you will be better for sure. 6 **. If all this does not help, go to the doctor to make sure you have no problems. I am 100% sure that everything is on a mental basis, because believe me, this has happened to everyone. I've talked to both boys and girls and it happens. It's all about frenzy and panic. The chances of it not happening to you are very small and most people do not say out of pride. Good luck and then write to brag, because there will be something! that you can and from there you will be better for sure. 6 **. If all this does not help, go to the doctor to make sure you have no problems. I am 100% sure that everything is on a mental basis, because believe me, this has happened to everyone. I've talked to both boys and girls and it happens. It's all out of shock and panic. The chances of it not happening to you are very small and most people do not say out of pride. Good luck and then write to brag, because there will be something!