Did I Make A Mistake?

   He doesn't care much for you. Pity. Too bad.

   Malee, darling, don't get pregnant by such a man, what if you give birth, see that he is not serious? This love will pass you by, you will meet a really better man, with better conditions ... of life for you and your child

   You made a big mistake. Never risk everything for one person, because the more you risk, the more they don't appreciate him. Do you know why? Because that's how you show him that you don't keep to yourself and your dreams, in order to dump everything lightly, and since you don't keep to yourself, why do you expect him to do it? Here you went there, abandoned everything and he doesn't even want you to get married, but he lives like he's gone. That is, your victim went to the wind. The only advice I can give you is to get out of there, no matter how difficult, to graduate from university, to find a job, to get back on your feet. When you already have something personal in your life, then think about love and never make such sacrifices for anyone again. Tomorrow, if he decides to dump you, you will be left on the street without education and work and you will catch the flies. Glad you didn't get pregnant, you still have a chance to leave and get your life back on track. Or do you want to sit all your life dependent on him and crush you as he wants? If he behaves like that now, he doesn't think that will change, it will get worse. I really don't understand women like you who turn their backs on life lightly for a man and don't think about their future. You must have expected him to look at you like a princess and you not move a finger for the rest of your life. But there are no princes or princesses, everyone has problems and interests. The sooner you realize that if you do not take responsibility for your own life and do not have to throw yourself into nothingness, living in illusions, the more problems you will save. Believe me, sacrifices like yours do not lead to anything good, except that you sacrifice your personality and life to please someone who doesn't care about your victims. Once you've started complaining about sites, this is just the beginning, then it will get worse. Don't expect a smart person to tell you that once you get pregnant and give birth, the story will begin and everything will be fine. There will be nothing wrong, cut all this at the root if you do not want to suffer and have at least a little self-esteem. If you prefer to be crushed and trampled, and to be a silent letter all your life, stay there and complain no more about your fate. Especially if your friend is Turkish or Arab, don't expect anything good at all. If you give birth they can take your child, throw you out like a dirty cat and never see him again. There are many such cases. then it will get worse. Don't expect a smart person to tell you that once you get pregnant and give birth, the story will begin and everything will be fine. There will be nothing wrong, cut all this at the root if you do not want to suffer and have at least a little self-esteem. If you prefer to be crushed and trampled, and to be a silent letter all your life, stay there and complain no more about your fate. Especially if your friend is Turkish or Arab, don't expect anything good at all. If you give birth they can take your child, throw you out like a dirty cat and never see him again. There are many such cases. then it will get worse. Don't expect a smart person to tell you that once you get pregnant and give birth, the story will begin and everything will be fine. There will be nothing wrong, cut all this at the root if you do not want to suffer and have at least a little self-esteem. If you prefer to be crushed and trampled, and to be a silent letter all your life, stay there and complain no more about your fate. Especially if your friend is Turkish or Arab, don't expect anything good at all. If you give birth they can take your child, throw you out like a dirty cat and never see him again. There are many such cases. If you prefer to be crushed and trampled, and to be a silent letter all your life, stay there and complain no more about your fate. Especially if your friend is Turkish or Arab, don't expect anything good at all. If you give birth they can take your child, throw you out like a dirty cat and never see him again. There are many such cases. If you prefer to be crushed and trampled, and to be a silent letter all your life, stay there and complain no more about your fate. Especially if your friend is Turkish or Arab, don't expect anything good at all. If you give birth they can take your child, throw you out like a dirty cat and never see him again. There are many such cases.

   I missed the deadline this year to enroll in university, as a foreign citizen of course (although fees are sky high and back), but if we stay together I will do it at any cost, I have the will to study and work, I do not expect anything from anyone, I want and will fight for what I want and I think is worth it. He is neither a Turk nor an Arab, he is a Christian. My mother and father categorically said that if I went to him, I would not return. Even if I leave him, I have nowhere to go. Indeed, things are not as I imagined them, nor is he the person he imagined himself to be. Everyone has flaws and of course I ignore them until now, but I don't know how long I will be able to. And at the moment he is with friends for coffee, and I am at home. I'm confused, I'm lonely, but I know it was my choice and I have no right to complain.

   You made a very big mistake in dropping out of university.

   They have already written to you, never make the mistake of abandoning everyone and everything for the sake of 1 person, whoever he is. always leave a backup option, a back door and keep 1 in mind. Nobody has lost from this, on the contrary, you can only win. You have already realized your mistake, it is unpleasant, but it is not the end of the world. Talk to your mother and father, they must miss you, no matter what they tell you. Take your life into your own hands and go boldly!