I am a 30-year-old woman, I have been married for 5 years, but we have been together for 13 years. Sex has never been exciting, maybe there was no chemistry between us from the beginning. It is often painful or we do not do it at all. Sometimes it's nice, but not enough.
I had sex with another man years ago and I can say that it was great sensual and I wanted it very much. That is, the problem is not healthy. Of course, I love my husband and I don't want to hurt him. We have discussed the issue, of course, we use toys for stimulation. I've never been so sexy in my life, I think about it, I constantly dream about sex. What is the right decision in your opinion infidelity or maybe a threesome or exchange of partners? My fears are that each of these things will have consequences. We, humans, are vulnerable beings, jealous, and it is also possible for someone to fall in love and end it all. It's too complicated, isn't it? But I don't feel like a woman, wanted, loved