Hi, I'm in a deep depression and I don't know how to deal with it. The reason is that the holidays are coming, and I feel terribly lonely, I don't have a friend, ours are divorced, my mother is abroad, and my father and I don't get along at all! The offers I have for the new year do not suit me at all because they are always with unknown companies in which I have only 1.2 close people and they will be there with their boyfriends! I just cry when I imagine that there will be no one to turn to when I give 12! Give me some advice people how to cope I do not want to get depressed! I've never felt so bad before.
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Hi, I fully understand you, I have experienced this feeling of loneliness myself and I know how you feel. I was alone for a long time, a few years without a friend, holidays came and everyone was happy in pairs, in love and happy, thinking where and how to celebrate, I went with my girlfriend and her boyfriend, of course everyone was there in pairs, it contributed more more about my suffering and pain. But what helped me was the faith, the belief that better times would come for me, no matter how much I didn't believe it, no matter how much I despaired and there were no signs that I would be happy again, somewhere deep in there was a spark of hope in me, and for good reason. I believe and I know that things will get better with you too, but in order to get something good, you have to suffer it, maybe try to overcome depression, just tell yourself that this is the situation at the moment, and the holidays are a few days will pass, it's hard for me to talk here if you want to write me some skype here, I will contact you, but be sure, you will be happy. I believe, believe you too.
Hello, your feelings are painfully familiar to me. And ours are divorced and I do not get along with any country, and for many years I had no one to share the holidays: Christmas, New Year, Valentine's Day, birthdays. Just a few weeks ago, my girlfriend dumped me and now I will be alone again before the holidays. The truth is that depression is inevitable and for some things time is the only cure. Don't try to suppress it, believe me sooner or later it will kill again, but it will be much worse. My advice is to be in the company of your friends, but I mean my real friends. Try to be alone for less time, and if you are alone, do something: study, watch movies, read books, start playing sports, whatever will be interesting to you. As for depression, it will fade. Remember that sooner or later you will find someone just for you. I don't know if it will help you,
Go celebrate, no matter that you don't know most people, you can meet LOVE there. :)
I always feel that way around the holidays. I don't like parties because there are always a lot of strangers and a few acquaintances and everyone likes to have a lot of strangers to show off. I'm not sure I can call it depression. If you had a friend to go with, you wouldn't be upset, would you? The holidays are a nasty thing :). I have personally accepted that I will feel sick around the holidays and I just wait for them to pass. If you go you can meet the man. If you don't meet him, you will add a little oil to the fire, but even if you stay at home, you may feel even worse. Don't you have girlfriends who are alone at the moment and who won't leave you at the party for someone? Look for such friends.