Dear Boys,

   Well, yes, but some (like me in most cases) are ashamed: S

   It was time for someone to come out and say it! :) And I'm expecting someone to invite me for coffee. * Syndrome

   Author, how do I know that the girl I want to talk to, just like that, on the street will not rush somewhere and just be next to my "coffees"

   Do you want to go out for coffee: D !? Now on the topic, very, very thank you for this topic for 30 minutes I read topics containing the same problem. Number 1, what are you so ashamed of, you go and just ask "Do you want to go for a walk / coffee tomorrow?" and done, there are very few girls who would refuse you by inviting a girl out (you, not your friend on your behalf and the like), she feels special. GD

   Number 3, so how do you know if she's in a hurry or wants to get out by sitting on the side and staring at her? :) (the author)

   (Number 3) Abe, author, it's not as easy as you think. The situation is much more complicated. I know the girls and their first impression. I am a law student, now I will be a 2nd year student, and she is a 4th year student ... I only talked to her once, by chance, we had an exam on the same floor. HOW TO DEAL? I don't have a lot of money for coffee, and then those slimy gifts from Tsum, opa MOLA-plush cattle and "tins" from Swarovski. I've been driving with some sneakers since the beginning of winter - where do you want me to take her? At a disco? Or something more chic - a trip to Nessebar? OR ANTALYA ??? I know there are girls who don't just look at money. But every girl / woman likes to be pampered at least a little (Not bad, it's their right ...) - and I can't even do that "little". Ok, I'll talk to her, I'll twist a few words, we'll fit in, she's cool and smart, but then what will I do, will I always invite for a walk or for coffee (espresso, it's cheaper)? I can't invite her to our house - it's not possible. And we can't sit on the benches, thanks, but history remembers such cases - I don't want to again! On the topic: This is a shame, this is something that you, the author, and all females can not understand.

   I've tried this thing many times, but I've always been denied!

   Number 6, if I could give you 3 votes - I would do it! M 22

   Well, the girl approaches with understanding. Once she's smart, she has no chance of looking at your sneakers. You will go for a walk. And personally, I prefer the gift to be fleeting and from the heart, rather than an expensive rag (which, frankly, I'm uncomfortable to accept). Why did you decide that all women are materialistic? What is this label that you stick to in general? You have no right. And you say yourself that you will like it. I know I'm not in your place, I can't understand exactly how you feel. I know you don't feel comfortable, but I think you should try - in the end you lose nothing. Just one more experience. This is my opinion on the matter. (author)

   (Number 6) I will not go into details, but I will only tell you that I feel (I'm not saying that I am as you notice, but that I feel) not only physically but also mentally more mature, I feel that I have more dignity and at least a little honor. And if I "try", and even if it doesn't work out - as you say - I haven't lost anything ... On the contrary, where do the qualities I wrote above go? In the trash? I will not be able to bear the comments of the people, but not at my address, but at hers, that you see her friend (I) didn't take her anywhere, he didn't do anything for her ... I don't care about the gossip about my address, as I said , but I won't cause it to her either !!! Anyway, you rightly said that you can't be in my place ... But tell me, author, can a relationship based only on "kind words" continue ??? My answer is no! I'm talking about a real relationship - a stable, relationship that becomes a family! And ... otherwise, if you talk to me about those children who are 14-15 years old and want only one ... I will not comment .... it is clear that your topic is completely credible! Are you one of them? Of those with short ties? I hope I was short and comprehensive.

   Obviously, we have opposite points of view - yes, I would endure with a person who says kind words to me. And as for gossip - your decision, I could not oppose what you feel. And my post is addressed, rather, to those described by you, 14-15 year olds, who filled the site with the same topics. I can't stop the feelings you're feeling. I express an opinion and a point of view.

   (Number 10) To the Author Thank you for your time! All the best!

   Okay, some help you and you won't have to drink it 1 coffee aftorke give him money for coffee when you started help him to the end:

   Hi, I'll just say that what you think is so easy to talk to a girl / boy is not because different people, different characters. On number 10 I will say that I will be happy to write to me and talk - [email protected]

   Let's stop communicating now that we don't have money, right? I've been through my student years for a long time. Then we had no money - both boys and girls. We didn't want expensive gifts and luxury cars. I started dating a much more settled and financially secure person because none of my colleagues were interested in me. I loved him, but we weren't for each other. A long time passed and love flared between me and a colleague from the course. I was on top of the happiness of finding the love of my life. the people around us didn't believe me - they thought I fell for sedentary men with thick wallets. But he and I were happy, no matter that we lived in a miserable apartment, did not go to luxury restaurants and did not buy branded clothes. We made plans for the future and waited for better days to come. However, one day "the love of my life" met a "rich" girl and married him. I met him a few days ago and once again he told me that he was living well, but he was not happy.