Courtship

At this rate, there will be no development. And the way you've done it, it may be too late. It moves quickly, then the moment goes by, you tell her you like her, and you don't take the next step, and at some point it all gets nervous and the moment goes away. The problem is, you don't have any physical contact. Is it so hard to ask her to be somewhere alone and press her a little? What else are you waiting for someone else on the horizon? You didn't learn that if you want something, you have the courage to go get it.

Nicely distracted, who stops caring. She's going to miss her attention and realize she's up to the time, and if she wants something, she's going to have to step up.

Hello, author. I've experienced a similar story to your history at university, a very attractive girl I loved with all my heart, but I'm going to save years of stories and dramas. In the end, the result is this: I lost many years in vain courtship, and she won a shoulder to cry after another "idiot." My advice to you is - talk and clarify your relationship, in a straight text. Any hints of future uncertain events (she knows you'll always be available to her, and you hope every non-home) will tell you that it's time to look for your girl elsewhere. Talk like grown people, in case it does not work - no unnecessary dramas, keep your friendship, but only there. It's going to be hard, but that's part of growing up. Good luck to you! M 34,

So what do you expect her to you? Act boy, women like stubborn men. Once you've gotten to know each other, it's about the essential part. If you pull or refuse, you replace it with another one.

Because of inexperience, you're doing exactly what you shouldn't do. From her point of view, with these innus, indomipitations and greasy, you're a man with no courage and self-esteem that revolves around her like a dog in front of a butcher's shop - and he wishes he didn't have the guts. And women can't stand men like that. They like masculinity, determination and domination. Rule number one is that it is the man who acts initially and makes possible the further development of relations. As number one said, if you like a woman, it's nice to act at the first convenient moment and state your intentions unequivocally through actions. Any unnecessary delay sends you to the so-called "frene zone," and you're doomed to play it for a long time to be a trash can, and a person to do your services until you're sick of it and give up. Remember, "A woman fuck with action." If you act (I'm not talking about fairy tales and explanations, but about physical escalation), you show that you have balls and you're a man who knows what he wants and how to get it back. Even if he cuts you off, it'il be much more painless to you than the years of agony, a wonder of "She loves me, she doesn't love me" in the hope that one day he'il let you out of pity if you catch her in the right mood... after she's dumped by another or drunk. You're inviting her somewhere to a coffee or a restaurant. At the meeting, you behave absolutely casual, cheerful and lazy. You don't talk about emotions, you make sense of feelings, and you don't say anything like that. You sit next to her, not against her. Try touching her from time to time on her hands. remove an imaginary hair from your face... light and casual touches on the wrists, "What a nice ring/bracelet you have, let me see it." It is absolutely imperative to look her in the eye most of the time and talk slightly slow and "intimate". If she backs off like she's in the eye, you're backing off, and you're like nothing's happened. In a moment, you're trying to get closer again. If she starts looking you in the eye, touching the hair, blushing slightly - the time has come to act. You lean in and kiss her a little bit. Don't forget - don't want to talk to her about feelings and explain yourself in style - "I love you, do you love me?" whatever they say - women don't like logical "feelings," they like to indulge in their momentary feelings and "experience the moment." The above paragraph is simply schematic - the kiss thing can happen in any place - even in front of the home and as you send it. Just set yourself a goal, don't come home from the meeting until you kiss her. If she pulls sharply (like a bereaked), she doesn't respond to the kiss and has a distant body language - you kindly say goodbye and you leave. If he goes to explain to you how he likes you only "as a friend" - you kindly say goodbye and you leave. You're not looking for her again for any reason!!! You're forgetting about her! There's a chance she'il look for you and ask you to see you again. Then you accept, meet and immediately move on to touches, kisses and take her somewhere to have sex. "Goodbye, I've enjoyed it with you. Bye!" and rub it from everywhere. Then you find another girl and act on the same scheme - right away. If possible, on the first or second date. You don't regret it if you're rejected by someone. consider these situations as invaluable experience. Over time, you'il get better and better, and you'il even have fun when someone has the indiscretion to reject you - it's her loss that you can't appreciate a valued man :) In general, you have to gradually build up the psychological mindset that you are the important person, and it is women who have to follow you and fight for you and your attention, not yours. This thinking of yours will completely reverse the game they're used to. and make you irresistibly attractive to them... simply because you're independent and you don't play by their rules. I hope I've been useful to you. M41

By 1, you're partly right that I don't have to hold on. There's a "NO" but... You can't expect a man who hasn't had an intimate partner to act quickly and with physical contact. Usually, such people act quite cautiously not to expose themselves and to injure their egos, and out of a worry not to push back against the opposite person. Personally, I've been in a similar situation where a woman gives mixed signals, there's interest, she's scared and you see worry when you try to be closer. That's because she's still not sure how she feels about you. It all depends on the circumstances... in the author's case, things have moved not very smoothly. I mean, first she was bound at the time of dating, that is, he was not ordered on the tail of potential surrogates. Subsequently, when she had split up with her boyfriend (a moment when she had to attack) he was for a long time away, and no living contact rarely happened. Chat, I personally use only to prepare the soil and arrange a meeting. The topic of the crushes is quite extensive. I can basically draw the following conclusions from what the author wrote. 1. He acted quite platonicly, rather than romantically - He has bonded too much on a friendly basis, she can trust him with personal things like a friend, things she would spare a person with whom she hopes to get things. 2. Compliments do not help to ignite romantic feelings - Things like "How beautiful you are", "You have nice eyes", etc. They don't work. These things go when there's a real very strong interest in you. If you still want to compliment her, make sure she's sincere, not a type of brush/sneer and possibly for her quality, not for her appearance. 3. You have spoken loudly about your feelings. When it comes to saying that someone loves/likes them, something is wrong. So these things are visible from a distance, they are noticed especially by women, body language speaks for you. This approach is the last thing you have to do on the one hand, and if there's no interest in you, it's even going to get annoyed. Women don't like men explaining themselves to them in love, especially when they're not in a relationship. Because neither accepts nor rejects you means one thing - you're a backup plan if nothing comes up. Check out what backburner relationship means in google and you'll find out what I mean. What can be done? Don't be the good-natured guy who's willing to do anything. Show self-esteem that you have a price and know what it is. When you express an opinion, say what you think, not the politically correct answer. And very importantly , stand up for yourself, your choice and your opinion! M30

As you walk around the garden and powder, another one will rip off the flower!

All the women who do have similar friends-where for support, where to raise my self-esteem, where to vent, where for sex. if you don't...

She likes what you do for her, but you don't attract her. Nothing's going to happen. And as the others have told you, it's done on time. You're the man, not the shy girl, so you can handle it.

You're too polite. And that's what you're saying. Courtship, I don't know what. You're not peacocks to woo. You're hitting on yourself. Being brought up is a value, but from a moment on, it takes you away from male charisma. You're so well-mannered that you're so polite not to insult her, to be a sakken not to be direct, to sakcon sowed to predispose her, sakon not to intimidate her. You're going to tell stars to watch. It's not a man', no woman will take you seriously. This may have worked during the Renaissance in the Vienna palaces, but not in the modern world even less in Bulgaria.

When I read "Boy, 25," it became clear to me how much you had. I have to tell you, you've been a man for a long time and you're not a boy. Boys are from under 15-16, but when they're 18, they become MEN! In my opinion, this woman sees you as "best friend" or just a person who enjoys communicating. If she wanted you, your relationship would have evolved. He's looking for luck somewhere else. Helga

I think - Nothing's going to happen. your approach is totally wrong. You just don't have enough experience. A woman's feelings don't talk... you've waited too long. There will be no development. And remember one thing, if a job doesn't happen right away, it's never going to happen. Carefully read comment 5 and 6.Greetings at number 5!Thinking of a real man! Greetings and at number 6- good psychologist! G.30

Our "build a touch," like 10 years before that, he had to build tight dicks. It's like your mind to be a perfectionist who writes a name with a little letter... it's ta sha. It's very easy to be good at one. Ma is also very boring, averin. It's Bratan.

Very nice advice, but from the level of experienced downloaders. However, one thing is absolutely true the moment and the quick action. You miss the moment, Bai bye. I've missed a few moments, a dick from everywhere, even soon a scary chick, but I don't give a. will appear on the horizon. At least you can still try to get her drunk. Not to become some kind of rag, but to open a fairy tale and at least find out "Will Asan eat a banitsa or not"

Yes, definitely 5 and 6 are cut from women, congratulations, men!! Otherwise number 11, yes, there are other times, but there are still women looking for that attitude. My friend and stars have been hitting on me and all sorts of things, and that works. I, as a woman, if I like someone, will show it to him, but I'm definitely not going to jump on him, and I'm going to expect him to take the first step when I've shown interest. Listen to number five.

Sit down and talk, or there won't be any development. Maybe she doesn't feel anything for you!

By the Author Thank you all for your answers and opinions! You're right about a lot of things. Of course, his experience is the mother. I'il try to use your advice, number five. Number 6, very valuable comment, thank you!

Author, I'm going to try to give you a few tips, too. I'il drive in a row. First, you've been a 25-year-old man for a long time, not a 25-year-old boy, and you have to act like one. Second "I can't say I'm handsome, but I'm not some quasi-fashion" - even if you're not a handsome man, try to have self-esteem and self-esteem because women feel that for miles. You also write that you are a perfectionist, keep in mind, however, that women do not particularly like such people, since in their attempts to be perfect such men they become sometimes boring and predictable. From the fact that the girl "neither rejects nor accepts" your compliments, she says that she is not sure or perceives you only as a friend, as they have already written to you. Being a virgin slightly complicates the situation, since you have not had physical closeness with a woman and quite normally you are worried. She senses your insecurities, and that's why she's "pleasantly distracted." My advice is to step back for a while and let her go and just see what happens. I wonder if he's going to look for you, and i don't know. and if you don't, you only have one move left - next. M32

In the current choice of women, act properly and quickly. From my communication with women on the Internet, I can tell you that absolutely everything is important. How quickly you respond, how you respond, how confident you are in the way you write, etc. etc. People are already so used to communication on the Internet that every single thing is felt, even if we do not realize it. I'm not much of a vision and character, but it's happened to me getting girls first written to me, and I'm basically such that I know from the chat if they'd go to bed with me and if things would happen. I'm a superhuman!

Number five, I don't know exactly what kind of women this is going to be a success for. If someone touches me on the first date and gives me unambiguous signals that they want to have sex with me, I'll watch myself get out of here faster and i won't even look back, what's left to regret that I failed to "appreciate the valued man." This may pass to a woman who is insecure and would enjoy all the attention, including one - arrogantly and for me personally devoid of tact, but to be honest, what kind of victory would this be? A woman with low self-esteem could take down (almost) anyone.

Number five, and I admit it, but the others have given good and well-meaning advice... Generally cleared of haters theme - it's kind of weird:) I have friends like you, in a variety of age ranges, and in general you fit relatively into that profile. That is: ambitious, hardworking, detailing, (to the point of annoyance, this may not be palpable now, but it will progress, relax), romantic in the classic sense of the word and pay attention to them. The latter is a significant mistake. For women, this is a very important feather. When you find a boyfriend, she'il take advantage of being a decent guy and start the discreet ultimatum of being together in every spare second outside your working hours. He'il try to separate you from your friends, too. He's going to ask you , "What are you thinking about?" Women are cats (they have them for their ownness) - why do you think witches are once described to a cat around them? And they were burned (women, not cats), m? The other is to have a sense of humor and not to take yourself seriously (self-ionic) and a sense of irony, but not spiteful... Don't tell jokes if you can't, but improvise. The other thing is not to complain - she'il complain about both of you... If she's complaining about her ex and how much he's harassed her (and, she will) - don't support her or encourage her. That means you're her friend. Even if you don't become one and take it off - then when you break up, you'il be vilified, so show male solidarity and don't be a centurion Fgm... Enough.

Hey, men, don't you look for what #23 says in the relationship then spend time together. But here you're just a fucker who doesn't care about relationships after two or three knocks. You throw the chick out and you go to the next one. It's a terrible attitude. The author is interested in how to win the heart of his beloved, not how to become another "idiot". And for No5, what an invisible hair she will wave after this level has passed long ago, they have known each other for many years and there is no reason to impress her with her charm. He just has to ask for sex in direct text so they can get their relationship fixed. I imagine the situation that way. The author, you go out somewhere, talk some ordinary things, imperceptibly pass a few hours, and after so much time without tension, without a pre-prepared thought, you will feel that they are both relaxed and kiss her. If he pushes you away, don't be scared. Tell her you like her, and the time has come to try to be together. Then you'il eventually have a conversation or make out.