Hello everyone and congratulations on the wonderful site :) I want to share what has been bothering me for a few days and get comments and advice from impartial observers like you :) Thanks in advance to those who responded :) Taa ... the story is as follows - from nearly 2 months my friend is behaving unbearably ... The reason that stands out is that I have been changed ... from good and modest I have become vicious and constantly dissatisfied ... I have found flaws in everything and I have never been able to I admit my mistakes. Look .. the easiest thing is to exonerate him and deceive myself how bad I really am ... to always look for mistakes in myself and accept that he is the Great Martyr ... but no .. I'm tired of I make compromises ... and even a whole sacrifice ... True, I'm not a flower to smell, I have my flaws and chips to cut, but his case is clinical. I have never met another character as difficult as his. Before we became intimate, I remember him as very cheerful and lively ... we were constantly joking and I never had enough of the time spent with him. Believe me, I have reasons to trust him and I love him ... A few nights ago we gathered at his friend's house to play cards. The washerman began to lose ... he got angry, repeatedly verbally attacked me and even grabbed my arm and shook me. I am sorry that I did not react adequately at that time. I thought there was no point in falling to his level and humiliating myself to make a remark or anything in front of a third person. 2 hours of treatment followed, which should not be directed at me, the woman he claims wants to give birth to his children ... I don't know if I really provoked him, as he later told me, but at one point he told me in cold blood to take my things and leave his house. So I did, before I slammed the door behind me, I replied that where I was once expelled, I will never come back again ...... We talked about the incident ... I save you everything, you can guess how a man he would do ... in front of his friends is the big male, when we are alone - a puppy with a curled tail and eyes full of tears. Well, I told him everything that weighed on me ... I know, I'm not kidding and I'm not going there again. I don't care that we had an appointment with his whole family, which I really appreciate to have dinner on March 8, I don't care that he is silent and thoughtful, that since then he has lowered his head and snorted from time to time ... no I trust him people, I lost my trust in the only man, whom I trusted. My great-grandmother, her light finger was right when she said that all men are the same, to see blood for shit, I will not feel sorry for him ... I will not believe him. Could I close my eyes after such an incident and am I right to keep my word and not step on them anymore or am I totally crazy ... my or his value system is confused .... By hand I say to myself in my heart that I am afraid to commit more seriously to such a person. It is not normal for me to make these cracks now, but what will he do one day when I marry him and live in his home ! No matter how bright the future offers me, I'm not sure it's worth the price I have to pay. I am not dependent on him in any way now, and I still doubt that I will ever be, so ... should I make my life easier? My great-grandmother, her light finger was right when she said that all men are the same, to see blood for shit, I will not feel sorry for him ... I will not believe him. Could I close my eyes after such an incident and am I right to keep my word and not step on them anymore or am I totally crazy ... my or his value system is confused .... By hand I say to myself in my heart that I am afraid to commit more seriously to such a person. It is not normal for me to make these cracks now, but what will he do one day when I marry him and live in his home ?! No matter how bright the future offers me, I'm not sure it's worth the price I have to pay. I am not dependent on him in any way now, and I still doubt that I will ever be, so ... should I make my life easier? My great-grandmother, her light finger was right when she said that all men are the same, to see blood for shit, I will not feel sorry for him ... I will not believe him. Could I close my eyes after such an incident and am I right to keep my word and not step on them anymore or am I totally crazy ... my or his value system is confused .... With a hand I say to myself in my heart that I am afraid to take myself more seriously with such a person. It is not normal for me to make these cracks now, but what will he do one day when I marry him and live in his home ?! No matter how bright the future offers me, I'm not sure it's worth the price I have to pay. I am not dependent on him in any way now, and I still doubt that I will ever be, so ... should I make my life easier? that all men are the same, to see blood for shit, I won't feel sorry for him ... I won't believe him. Could I close my eyes after such an incident and am I right to keep my word and not step on them anymore or am I totally crazy ... my or his value system is confused .... With a hand I say to myself in my heart that I am afraid to commit more seriously to such a person. It is not normal for me to make these cracks now, but what will he do one day when I marry him and live in his home ?! No matter how bright the future offers me, I'm not sure it's worth the price I have to pay. I am not dependent on him in any way now, and I still doubt that I will ever be, so ... should I make my life easier? that all men are the same, to see blood for shit, I won't feel sorry for him ... I won't believe him. Could I close my eyes after such an incident and am I right to keep my word and not step on them anymore or am I totally crazy ... my or his value system is confused .... With a hand I say to myself in my heart that I am afraid to commit more seriously to such a person. It is not normal for me to make these cracks now, but what will he do one day when I marry him and live in his home ?! No matter how bright the future offers me, I'm not sure it's worth the price I have to pay. I am not dependent on him in any way now, and I still doubt that I will ever be, so ... should I make my life easier? Could I close my eyes after such an incident and am I right to keep my word and not step on them anymore or am I totally crazy ... my or his value system is confused .... By hand I say to myself in my heart that I am afraid to commit more seriously to such a person. It is not normal for me to make these cracks now, but what will he do one day when I marry him and live in his home ?! No matter how bright the future offers me, I'm not sure it's worth the price I have to pay. I am not dependent on him in any way now, and I still doubt that I will ever be, so ... should I make my life easier? Could I close my eyes after such an incident and am I right to keep my word and not step on them anymore or am I totally crazy ... my or his value system is confused .... By hand I say to myself in my heart that I am afraid to commit more seriously to such a person. It is not normal for me to make these cracks now, but what will he do one day when I marry him and live in his home ?! No matter how bright the future offers me, I'm not sure it's worth the price I have to pay. I am not dependent on him in any way now, and I still doubt that I will ever be, so ... should I make my life easier? my or his value system is confused .... With my hand on my heart I say that I am afraid to commit more seriously with such a person. It is not normal for me to make these cracks now, but what will he do one day when I marry him and live in his home ?! No matter how bright the future offers me, I'm not sure it's worth the price I have to pay. I am not dependent on him in any way now, and I still doubt that I will ever be, so ... should I make my life easier? my or his value system is confused .... With my hand on my heart I say that I am afraid to commit more seriously with such a person. It is not normal for me to make these cracks now, but what will he do one day when I marry him and live in his home ?! No matter how bright the future offers me, I'm not sure it's worth the price I have to pay. I am not dependent on him in any way now, and I still doubt that I will ever be, so ... should I make my life easier?
1 sara_sinsx answered
All women are differently unique and equally dumb. And you are no exception. And I don't really care what you do, they will still insult and curse you.