If we have sex, he starts telling me "you will only be mine", "you have to look me in the eye and listen to me about everything, say will you listen to me, will you do everything I tell you, say you love me, Are you mine ... "and so he says in this sense he always wants to suggest it to me. This long long monologue, with an element of questions that I have to answer yes and only yes.
I can't finish, I can't relax and enjoy sex from such instruction.
Is this normal?
I talked to him that this is absolute nonsense and spoils my sex.
The other thing that worries me is that he wants me to say "I love you" at least 5 times a day. For me, these words are not said like that every day, these words are rather shown and proved. He never tells me "I love you", but requires me to do it several times. When I tell him what I think, he immediately wants to blame me for not loving him.
Give your opinion, I do not know about me is not normal and it starts to burden me.
I have shown my love many times, I do not give him reasons to feel unloved, on the contrary, I constantly do things that I do not like to make him feel comfortable and feel cared for and loved.