I am writing a sequel to this topic, as there is progress on the issue, so to speak. In short: my sister started talking to a rich Turk from Istanbul, and I'm worried that he might hurt her, and I thwarted her attempts to meet him and talk on the phone. I listened to the advice of commenters on the previous topic. I made a fake profile, trying to make it look so that it didn't feel like it wasn't real or that it had anything to do with someone I knew my sister. I put pictures of a beauty you introduced to yourself. I started writing to him. He responded kindly to my messages. After we met, I started taking it off. However, he did not pay attention to me. He never started courting me like he had done with my sister from the beginning. I even started sending him kisses, but he didn't answer. His only offense is that I told him that he was very nice, and he replied :, Thank you and you are beautiful! ''. Meanwhile, he remains interested. From time to time I post something funny to her and he intervenes. He does not understand what is written in Bulgarian, but asks what it is about and joins in with comments. It was as if everything was a joke about her, and gradually he enchanted her with his beautiful words. I'm afraid it will hurt her and ruin her life ...
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I'm the girl who advised you to make a fake profile. Well done for the experience. But you haven't really found anything disturbing. I even understand from your words that you stopped writing to each other? I do not want to take anyone's side, I understand you, but in my previous comment I called on you to be calmer and to have more confidence in your sister. Leave her alone to decide what to do with her life at this stage. Keep it close to you so that I can share and trust you. After a while he can "introduce" you to him via Skype. You can even go on a trip there with her ... There are so many options. You look a little calmer than the previous post. My best friends are two sisters two years apart like you and they die for each other. But each respects her sister's privacy, because each knows that whatever happens, the other will be by her side. But she answered the question - if you were a German / American / Italian, would you still be so worried? I think your fears come from being a Turk. For now, I advise you to look at your life and make your sister trust and trust you - this will make it easier for you to protect her.