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2 happyhandz123 answered
I had an affair with an 11-year-old girl younger than me, but let me tell you, I haven't had such love, nor has she, we were born for each other, age has never been a factor for us, but we broke up ... for completely different reasons. .. so that the years do not bother you, if you fit in everything else Good luck!
3 scarlettrainxo answered
First: see how many times you have written "I" and understand that you have no chance with this or any other man, because you place yourself as the center of the universe. Second: the "huge difference" of 12 years! :) Well, my wife and I are 19 years old, we have been together for 10 years and we have 2 children. Third: you "invest" "an awful lot" in this regard! An hour in the evening talking on the phone! Your question is: should you keep doing it, and give so much of yourself that if something goes wrong, you will be terribly far behind in every respect ... Putting in your other naive "arguments" from the kind of "he didn't have time for superfluous things" (I don't have time - to live alone! What are his wife and children on his head for - all "superfluous" things ...), how you had a different social status (as if you want something from him, not him from you ...) my advice is - do not bother! Wait another 10 years to mature a little, because with your current thoughts you are nowhere ...
4 keira_love_ answered
You decide on the age difference. In my opinion, 34-year-old men are not monsters. I am a little over this age and I have a 9 year difference with my wife. True, yours is bigger. According to one study, the perfect age for a woman is obtained by dividing a man's age by two and adding seven. This in your case makes the woman 24 years old. Of course, this is not a formally proven or absolute fact, but in practice such relationships work well if the partners agree on other factors. I also live in Germany and I went his way, wondering what to do, in terms of how to find a girlfriend. Among the girls here there are all sorts - and full pieces that give birth to Negroes or Afghans and very beautiful and intelligent women, who, however, are difficult to capture and retain. My opinion, that the women here have climbed on the heads of their husbands. Come on, leave me alone, I'm a foreigner and I'm crazy and pretentious, so my previous failures are clear. But when I look at the life of these attractive German women, you still can't please them in the long run. They catch up with someone, spend a few years and then drive in a completely different direction. They have a great fear that their lives may be determined once and for all. Almost no one gets married here, although there are great financial incentives for that. It is considered a big step to get together to live in one home. And their birth rate is falling for that. And when I look at my colleagues, all healthy and straight men, with what visually modest-looking girls they are engaged, I seem to understand why. Abe, it turns out that I, where I am the craziest of all, have the best woman, but I brought her to Germany. So once a person has seen you and taken the initiative, then he is serious and needs you. It already depends on what you want. It is not easy to become a doctor, you learn a lot and work a lot. If you are a party girl and you need a lot of worldly life, you may not fit. If you are willing to compromise in this regard, then why not. And don't worry about social status. You have just graduated, what status should you have? He knows that in order to receive something, he must also give something. If he decides it's worth investing time in you, he'll invest money. For a smart man who wants a serious relationship, dating a woman is an investment that will pay off later. If you are a party girl and you need a lot of worldly life, you may not fit. If you are willing to compromise in this regard, then why not. And don't worry about social status. You have just graduated, what status should you have? He knows that in order to receive something, he must also give something. If he decides it's worth investing time in you, he'll invest money. For a smart man who wants a serious relationship, dating a woman is an investment that will pay off later. If you are a party girl and you need a lot of worldly life, you may not fit. If you are willing to compromise in this regard, then why not. And don't worry about social status. You have just graduated, what status should you have? He knows that in order to receive something, he must also give something. If he decides it's worth investing time in you, he'll invest money. For a smart man who wants a serious relationship, dating a woman is an investment that will pay off later.
5 jh_han answered
Your age difference is perfect, although it doesn't look like it now. It is always better for a man to be a little older than a woman, because in many ways men mature later than women. The profession of a doctor presupposes that he is a serious and responsible person, and it is great to have a "family doctor". The man obviously already wants to start a family and prefers to be with a Bulgarian woman rather than a German woman. If you can imagine life in Germany, your man is nice and you really have feelings for him, you don't have much to think about, but give yourself a chance. You can visit him first to see how things are and whether you will like him. There you will have many more opportunities for professional realization. I also live in Germany, my husband is German and I am very happy that I chose to go and live here.
6 mcjeans_official answered
So a rich, intelligent, interesting, serious man and you wonder if you should be with him because you had a difference in age? !! . Apparently if you were stupidly uneducated 22 years old, you would have gone to bed by now;)
7 rosieeliza answered
1. Doctors are great women. Most flirt at work and try to stab a colleague. 2. The man came to BeGe to buy a young Bulgarian bride for breeding. Such types who look at such little girls are not literate. Supposedly, the older woman has no value for him, and when you get older, she will look for a lamb again.
8 pumpkinpatched answered
1. What does it matter to be a doctor? If it's an astronaut, they're human too. 2. Don't get involved in sweet talk on the phone without meeting live. 4. Aren't you a garment that only liked you in a photo ?! 3. The difference is big, in my opinion. Still, I wish you success! And don't be so humble ... Me
1 apocalypto_12 answered
1. One hour a day is quite normal to talk. 2. It doesn't matter what your income is. 3. Yes, you have a future. He already wanted you. If you like him too, make sure he is nice to you. Just calm down and stop dramatizing.