Hi, my story may be similar to many others, but for each of us it seems like a personal drama. I want to share it with you and seek advice and courage to somehow cope with the problem. So: I had a relationship with a man 8 years younger than me, which lasted 7 years. I abandoned him because I was unhappy with him. He is very arrogant, has no friends and in a word lonely and quite naked psycho. Throughout our relationship I was like his mother, I always helped him, I was always with him and so for 7 years. I wanted to separate 2 years ago, but he makes great dramas and I felt sorry for him and returned to him. At the end of our relationship I had no strength anymore and again I put an end to it. He hasn't stopped terrorizing me since. He is waiting for me, roaring, screaming ... He changes his mood by swearing that he loves me, then he insults me with terrible words, threatens me, apologizes ... He says I ruined him and he would ruin me too. I do not know. I have another friend at the moment but he doesn't stop. He floods my phone with text messages. I feel at my limit. He doesn't understand that he has to accept things and stop. I'm afraid of him. I'm afraid to even complain to the police. His harassment has been going on for 4 months now and I don't know how to stop it. How would you do? Do I have the right to be happy or do I have to pay indefinitely?
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Honey, this "friend" of yours doesn't love you, nor does he like you. He does not deserve you. You said yourself he was a psycho. Drop it! He deliberately dramas you to make it harder for you to dump him. If he doesn't let you leave, just ask someone for help, either directly or in court. But dump him, 7 years younger than you ... Do you think he appreciates what you do for him? No!