? Hi, I'm a man of just over 40. Months ago I broke up with my wife and soon afterwards I called a young colleague from another city, which we had seen on one course and only once drank coffee at work a year earlier (our conversation was professional). My intuition did not lie to me and after 3 weeks we met, we made love "from the door to the feet"-very beautiful and to the heart and so three weekends in different places. We were very fit in sex and not only, but that's what we did most often. We fell in love and decided to live together after 3 months until she finished her two jobs in her city-she had commitments. At the end of the first weekend she was eager to provoke me again very soon after I had finished, for my amazement again, she asked me to relax completely, i.e. if I wanted to, and beat the slaps, to call her "Kurvo" and others. And I was wild... It was great, I emptied cool (and it was for the 9th time in three days, and most of the acts were between 1 and 2 hours), but she started questioning me how many women have brought me to this state, and so, as she thought I was in passed out, my orgasm is very loud-roar, growl and then, limp, I have convulsions... After an hour, he decided that I was dangerous and he went to go to the night... I had to let her go. In the morning he called and wrote to me on the net that he was sorry and wanted to come back next weekend and we saw each other twice. We became even better, we matched ourselves completely-once we made love almost 6 hours in a mountain house, we changed all the rooms... She ended up twice on one of mine... After this meeting everything was spoiled by communication on the phone and the Skypa: I once asked her to call on time, because if she missed my breaks, which she knows when they are, we'll just skip; The second time (because she, having been with me the first time she left her boyfriend and left the house), she saw me wanting to control her because she had no money and I offered to pay her the internet, so that we could hear and see each other at night, as before on the Skyway. You see, for me, that was crap, ' cause when you turn your chimney off and even the program, you can do whatever you want, right? Her mother also had a thing to do... She first asked not to see me next weekend, second she told me she fell in love with me based on wonderful sex, and he didn't matter-we were different people, we wanted different things (but nothing concrete did not say)... We were very wiped with our relationship, I was everything you had asked for and which was missing, but so many good things stacking looked improbable, it was not to believe, that is, my caring was manipulative, etc. If I wanted to wait for her to decide what to do, she was fine on her own right now. I explained to her that I haven't lived well in the last few years, so I'm sensitive to even small gestures of attention, and I feel good about caring... I have been quite discharged, I consider myself more mature and accepted the reality. After another week of not reading my letters, she called to tell me that there was no point in waiting for her, because the more she thought, the more she convinced herself that we were incompatible... After another 10 days came to work in my town, visited me in the evening, but kept distance-told me he could no longer be with me and seemed to hate me... Left again in the middle of the night and yelled at me not to send it, it fell even in an affect... And I was afraid of raping her around the neighborhood (it was half-naked up). Anyway, I wrote it again, and I saw that she read the letters after only 11-12 days... I know it because I made our general mail with our first letters + the word "love" to use it just the two of us, as our refuge... I'm very confused, I think absurd the situation... Maybe I should just add that she's a psychologist, and I'm nearby like a pro-PR, and that I think she's more in her way of understanding--she thought that "my wonderful letters" are manipulative messages, because that's my job... The problem is that I love her very much today, and in this state I am sincere and honest, but I am forced not to disturb her, if that is what she wants... Finally: She told her two bosses that after 2-3 months she left and now, although she broke up with me, she would still leave because she had dignity and when she had told them... And I don't want to lose my job-maybe that's why hate me (and she called two mistresses with whom she had rare meetings that she also left)... To you what this story looks like (it became a little long, I did not want to bore you, but to present the facts more fully...)??? I read about such a retraction at Karen Horney-"Women's Psychology", ch. 6-"Distrust of the sexes" and a little at C. Reich... What am I going to do, hope? My čoglavo is crazy, instead of being on the sea, I have an apartment, and it sits empty... Thank you for your opinions!
1 wetsexbandit1 answered
It's a pretty weird situation. This woman is not very aware of herself. Maybe all women want to be cared for and sexually satisfied and she runs away from this. Most people like me think all psychologists, psychiatrists, etc. that are quite wacky in the head, this story is proving it. I'm sorry I can't give you advice, but things are really confusing and incomprehensible. , but you don't know what's going on in the head.