Hello. KS is writing to you on a delicate issue that has been making me feel confused lately and I just don't know what to do.
I am Bulgarian. I was born in the UK and although I am not the greatest patriot I love my country.
My husband is Turkish, but it doesn't matter to me, because I love him as much as he loves me. I celebrate Bayram with him, and he celebrates Easter and Christmas with me and ours - everything is fine. I'm not a racist or anything. We have been together for two years and are already trying to have a baby.
Our sex life is wonderful. My husband is a real dream in bed and the more time passes, the better it gets. In general, I am quite relaxed in bed and I am glad that my husband manages to fulfill all my fantasies. When we have sex, he is, as always, the dominant one, and I just melt into his strong hands. I've always liked sex games and it excites me like hell when a man is really a man and subdues a woman.
However, something very strange has started to happen recently and I am afraid that things are starting to get out of control.
For the last two weeks, just when I'm at my hottest, my husband, who I remind you is a Turk, has been shouting at me that he is my "master" and that I am a "slave"!
The first time I liked it and I found it fun to be in the role of master and slave, but since then he started doing it every time! He began to become more and more rude and constantly teased me that he was the "Master" and that I was a "slave" in his hands. But when we finish, he becomes normal again, but I start to feel a feeling or some melancholy and pain in Bulgarian history, which makes me feel very confused and somewhat violated national dignity. Otherwise physically, I don't think he would ever hurt me.
As exciting as it was at first, I'm already scared and I'm starting to wonder if it's driving him crazy.
What to do? I am asking for advice!